Making sense of the enema fetish

Hello all...my name is john and i am relatively new to this site and i would like to share some insite as to the whys and hows of the enema fetish which we all share.as a child of the 50's i was raised with frequent enemas, like most others back then and hated getting them very much. in spite of my hatred of receiving enemas from my parents i had a sexual interest in them for as long as i can remember. even as a very young child, i would masturbate in my bed every night fantasizing about giving enemas to girls and women i knew. it took me many years of research trying to figure out the connection. it was not until i was in my late 30's that i finally found an answer.

it came to me when i read a book about a woman with the same fetish and her shrink, who wrote the book, explained it this way:

the enemas she received as a child were invasive, painful and humiliating to her and were something that happened to her which was totally out of her control. there was no control or defense open to her except to sexualize them in her mind. that way, she could at least have some control over it, if not physically at least mentally and sexually.

this made complete sense to me.....and it stands to reason (unfortunately) that some people who were molested as children went on to become molesters themselves. not that that is any excuse to do such a thing, everyone makes decisions to do right or wrong, but it does implant the desire at an early age.

anyway, i am posting this for anyone who might not understand why they developed the enema fetish when enemas were traumatic to them in childhood.

once i understood why i am the way i am i began to become more accepting of myself and my fetish and put it in perspective.

like most of you, i would not change the way i am even if i could. i very much enjoy giving enemas to women and have received and given a great deal of pleasure by doing so. besides, this is one fetish that is acutally GOOD for a person!

i hope this might help someone to understand how and why they became a "Klismo" and to enjoy it!!!

Why does it need to make sense???

If it makes you feel better, it's completely cool. If it doesn't , you don't HAVE TO do it.

No one forces you!!

Some things were never intended to make sense.

My philosophy has always been , if it feels good do it!!

I don't bother asking why. Just embrace the moment.

The pyscho-babble about enemas is nothing new and largely meaningless.

I've come to believe there are some things in life that don't make sense...no matter what. Enjoying a good enema falls squarely in that category!

Deb

I was a child of the 50's as well, but never received enemas. I learned about enemas in my early teens and just was a part of my sexual curiosity at that age. So there was no psychological sense of loss of control or sexualization from humiliation. I have to agree that sometimes we do things just because they feel good. There may be some people that acquired this fetish due to some psychological component of early childhood experiences, but please don't include everyone in this generalization. I think there is a tendency to over-think enema use as some deep-seated memories of our childhood. Not sure if it was Freud that said this, but "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar".

David 😃

I received very few enemas as a child, but they must have made an impression because I've been fascinated by them since my teens and gave them to myself occasionally. The enemas I truly remember were given to me when I was 20 in the hospital prior back surgery. The orderly that administered them was very gentle and talked to me in great detail about what to expect. I loved everything about them and remembering them even today is a big turn-on.

I tried to make sense of my enema and several other fetishes I have. After a lot of reading on the subject I came up with a simple answer that works for me. I like the equipment, the procedure, I especially like the way they feel, and how incredible I feel after an enema session. So my simple answer is if it feels good do it.

This site has helped me tremendously with my enema and spanking fetishes. I didn't really realize how many of us are out there. I used to feel guilty or that they was something wrong with me. This site was therapy for me. I can now enjoy myself and talk about my experiences and fantasies openly.

I've given up trying to figure it out, I just like them