How to tell your partner or significant other

As a DL hetero male, I love woman in diapers, can’t understand why anyone would not, and would be thrilled if I was your partner. However, as far as you know, your partner is not currently turned on by or, potentially, not even aware of DL games.

You could get brave and just spring it on him/her. Tell him/her during a sharing of fantasies while having sex / about-to-cum moment. No one should be harassed over mentioning things that “Seem like a good idea at the time.” while they are having sex. If it is a kink he/she likes, you’ll be able to tell. But that is clearly not your first choice.

I think there’s stuff you can do:

Play with desperation scenes. The “I have to pee!” with hand between legs and wiggling sort of scene. If he/she gets noticeably horny or starts to do things to delay your getting to the bathroom, or starts to be downright unhelpful (think “ticking”) he/she is interested.

If he/she seems interested in you being desperate, get brave and wet your pants. Hey, it could be an accident! Its not the same level of commitment as showing up in a diaper. If there is any interest in watersports or little girl/boy behavior, you’ll notice. You’ll end up with your ankles around your ears, as the saying goes…

Verbal: You’re having sex after a pants wetting episode. You gasp something along the lines of, “If I’m going to pee my pants, I should be in diapers!” If he/she cums right away, go get some Depends.

That’s a rough sketch of how we got into it.

One day I was home sick from school, as I had the flu and my parents both worked. My sister was home from school that day to watch me.

i was laying on my bed and was woken up to my sister walking in. She sat on my bed, asked me how i was feeling. I said not too good. i had been throwing up and had it coming out of both ends that night. lol. She said ill be right back.

She came back in to my room and had what looked like a huge diaper and baby lotion with a sippy cup and apple juice in it. She said, "Your not going to mess the bed now. I'm going to put this diaper on you and give you a bottle of apple juice."

She demanded that I take off my pants and lay on my bum. I was shocked and had no idea as to what I should do or say. She ripped off my underwwear and diapered me up. She said, "Now you be a good baby and drink your juice and I'll read you a story."

i said where... she smacked me. Why did .. she smacked me again. She said, "Don't talk, baby. Just listen or I'll beat you again."

It was odd and a bit of a turn-on that my own sister diapered me and changed me that day. I was ashamed and excited all at the same time. I was embarrassed that she saw me with a hard-on too. But she just smiled and said aww is baby happy to see mommy?

Later that day, as mom was about to come home, she said i was to stay in the diaper and not to talk about it to anyone. She would check up on me later to see if i needed to be fed, changed, etc.

Later that night she explained that her friend did the role play with her somewhat the same way. She was shocked but wow so excited too. She said, "I know you liked it or you would not have gotten excited when I changed you. I'll do this for you any time you like or if i just come in I'll do it anyways."

Well, that's all I have for now. Charlie.