Ok, I haven't had a "real" enema with real enema kit, only impromptu device.I told my husband about my new fetish, shortly after. He had no interest, but I can do what I want.However, I've casually brought it up here and there hoping to peak his interest. It worked. I just talked to him on the phone, and since I am at work, I had to be descrete but found a way to tell him that the package (which he knows is the kit) is due on the 3rd. I asked if he'd like to see some instructions or if he was just going to trust me. After some additional discussion, he'll trust me but will also review instructions if I want. I found some good info on enematips.com, for a receiver. I think i will send those to him and say:"When my kit comes in, it will be my first real one. So I kinda think of it as in a Virgin kinda way.I would love to give you your first and vice versa. However, If you're not into giving... I'll respect that. If you never want another, I'll respect that too. (Doubtful though). 😃So my fantasy is almost a reality... Now what? Tips advice? He's pretty vanilla so I need to take it easy. I don't think he'd be into any kind of "dress up". So, mainly tips on administering and making it as pleasing as possible, please!! I really want this to continue!