Who was made an enema giver or receiver BY THEIR PLAYMATE

I am beginning to feel I was built upside down. The attraction for me has always been her excitement at receiving and not mine at giving.

When I have received, my excitement comes from her fascination with giving.

If she were not enthused, I would have zip interest.

I don't see that expressed here. I do see plenty of people forgoing a kink because the playmate is not responsive to it. But I don't see seeking response as the prime motivator.

Are others motivated by their playmate's interest?

I had a playmate that was in control and now I wish Iad her back. Also she would let me switch rolls and she had a nice ass.She would engulf my finger aaand loved anal sex ,she was rare...I wish I could reconnect somehow..

Ben,

Absolutely, positively. It's called "shared experience". Relationships are built on joint interests, obviously, things like sharing music. I certainly would not be satisfied with a someone just checking me off on their list of have-tos. (So why does my wife keep dragging me to the mall to go shoe shopping?)

Very funny!! All bets are off when it comes to shopping.

She drags you because she is hard wide to shop just as you are hard wired to stomp on the gas.

And you go because she likes it and in fulfillment of your responsibility to keep our economy going.

Besides Sex comes after shopping, or not at all if there is no shopping.