Everyone has different priorities ...
Everyone makes choices ...
We are all a product of the choices we have made.
Don't lament your past decisions, you can't change them.
Make new decisions based upon your current priorities.
I am 67 years young and have 3 female enema playmates, 40, 42, 43.
The length of these relationships are 18, 8, 2+ years.
They all have met and know each other.
They have all played together, 2 at a time, with me.
I have not had the 3 of them together.
I choose not to "handle" that.
Age is not the issue, it is your attitude.
It is your willingness to take action, or not.
If you don't take action, don't lament your current status.
You made that choice.
Live with it happily.