Deepthroat vs oralsex

I have never ever had oralsex with a girl and I have always wondered what the difference is between deepthroat and oralsex?

How do I tell a girl I want to deepthroat her?

Deep throat is taking a penis deep in your mouth/throat. Not everyone can do it due to the natural gag reflex.

Personally, it never did much for me.

Tilting your head (woman's head that is) back straightens the path from mouth to esophagus which makes it easier to deep throat. I do it occasionally but most of the time I take the penis in my mouth and use a hand to stroke the shaft while I suck and lick.

As a matter of semantics, I always thought the woman deep throated the man.

Might be a ESL issue?

I've been working up to deep throating. I know I got him on fairly deep, the other day... but not ALL the way. Is a "deep throat" job legit only if its all the way in?

To be an official "deep throat" the penis has to contact the esophageal sphincter! 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

Rita, I don't think there is any officially recognized depth you have to reach, but if the guy has a four inch penis, you aren't going to deep throat it even if it is all the way in. If the guy has ten inches, I think you can say you deep throated him even if only six inches went down your throat. If you can get all ten inches down, you're a pro!

Practice with double dong dildos or a double dong with the balls between the two dicks that will prevent you from losing it down your throat. Use a LONG one for practice because you don't want to accidentally let go of a short one and not be able to retrieve it.

DO NOT NOT NOT practice with a banana. If it breaks and gets stuck in your throat, there better be someone around who can do a Heimlich Maneuver for you.

I have reason to believe I could deepthroat. It turns me on to swallow my girlfriend's fingers all the way to my epiglotis. The next step could be for her to peg my throat with a soft strapon, with me on my back with my head tilted back over the edge of a bed or table, and then peg my ass using the mucous from my throat as the lubricant. What would be really wild would be for her to peg one end while another woman pegs the other. I also can fantasize about a man being part of that threesome. I do have a male friend who would be more than happy to fill that role, but fantasy is usually better than reality and he doesn't get along well with her.