Did enemas awaken your sexuality?

I know that is a very scary question to consider. I will start with my answer, and try to describe the contributing factors.

My answer to that question is Yes. It has taken a few decades for me to realize and accept, but I think it did. When I was very young, prior to entering into my 'enema era', I used to look at people with a child's view, and liked the ones that were attractive, or fun, or otherwise pleasing to be with providing they were willing to spend time and play with me ( I was only 4, remember ).

But then, due to factors which I have recounted elsewhere and will not repeat here for the sake of brevity, I was entered into a course of regular enemization ( once a week ), augmented as Mum felt necessary with many additional ones for what I am sure she was confident were good reasons, though not necessarily essential. I hold no bad feelings about this, I actually think they did me good. It was the era when parents were scared rigid by the possibility of polio (no vaccines yet), rheumatic fever, and a number of others which have since been 'conquered' by modern medical science.

However, the enemas also got me looking at people from a different perspective. I found myself trying to get a glimpse of their backsides, especially the girls and women, men were big, hairy and scary, and little boys were usually dirty, but women always seemed so clean, and smelled so nice, and I started to occasionally daydream about how neat it would be to see their bottoms unclothed and bent over to receive the enema bulb, just like I got every Saturday morning. Now I was only 5, and knew nothing about sex at the time, but I now realize it was the beginning of my attraction to the opposite sex. So my lusting after the female form originated in considering them as potential enema receivers. Naturally, I NEVER mentioned these considerations or yearnings to ANYONE, as I was certain they would not be considered acceptable. However I was savouring these sights with hidden dreams long before I began to mature. As I approached the age where other boys had started to talk about being sexually attracted to various actresses, girls, and women, I could dovetail my feelings of being attracted to them as well, but I KNEW that enemas had given me a 'jump start' of a few years on all of them, and I smiled to myself...

Oh, I did grow up and get married and had three kids, but my wife, who is a wonderful enemate, doesn't enjoy them at all, but that is another story.

I don't know that I agree with Cos that enemas started it. Maybe they did, but I was either too shy or dense to realize it. I remember as a young boy, an enema gave me a good feeling but that was way before I understood sexual feelings. Even when I began to get erections and learned to masturbate, and gave myself enemas to spur or heighten those good feelings I did not connect that to feelings for the opposite sex. At the time, I thought enemas were way too messy and embarrassing to be considered something I would do with a girl.

Until I was about twenty, when quite by chance my cousin admitted that when she needed relief she took an enema and finger frigged herself. An earth shaking revelation. Some girls liked enemas too! I have told that story here before. As they say, from there it was all downhill.

Don't know that mine was ever asleep.

Thanks, Lisa;

I guess I should have asked if enemas 'initiated' your sexuality. 'awaken' seemed appropriate, but, of course, it wasn't sleeping, it just hadn't been initiated yet.. 😄

and Royal, that is very similar to my experience...

Thanks for your input. I was a bit apprehensive about writing this...

Cos.

I think my discovery of enemas and the effect they create was much akin to having whipped cream on a yummy dessert! It made things just that much better!

Debgurl’s original metaphor for enema’s effects made me smile.

Before I started, I accepted the health benefits are possible from enemas but I did wonder if the sexual arousal when the enema was taking place was much exaggerated.

I need not have worried.

It is wonderful and seems to build more and more from anticipation, into intensity and the afterglow.

Yes I think it must have, because I lusted for enemas long before I realized what "normal" sex was. do you suppose we can carry over our interest in enemas from previous lives?

No, my sexual awakening probably occurred towards the end of high school, but my enjoyment of enemas didn't occur until I was a sophomore in college. The two did not connect until I was in my early to mid 20s as odd as that might sound.

I don't think I was awakened, because when erotic reactions happened, I had no clue what it was all about. Erections as a kid is one example. What enemas did for me was once I became a sexual person, I understood that there are many forms of sexual stimulation, and that includes anal stimulation.

Whilst the enemas may not have necessarily awakened my own discovery of what sexuality meant in the full context of the meaning, they did leave a lasting impression that became a lifelong pleasurable interest. . . . As a young boy I do think that they were in a way an early wake up call in more ways than one . . . From a male perspective getting a good dose of hot soapy water squirted up a juvenile backside certainly stimulated those pubescent nerve endings no end, let alone the added effect on ones young formative & inquisitive mind. Admittedly the Enemas at that time were to later enhance both my sexual knowledge & my enjoyment of them . . . My reasoning may mean zilch to others but somehow when one thinks back about it ,surely one can acknowledge that maybe just this is one contributing factor in our quest for understanding ourselves & the pleasurable practices we now call a "fetish" as a mature adult.

As I see it sexuality as such happened along the way with enemas thrown in for good measure, which at least a contributing factor. . . From very early childhood I had been introduced & became well aquainted with the vagaries of what my (Nurse) Mother often referrered to as a "good enema" & so with that came early sexual experimentation & exploration with all things sexual. . . .Anyhow I really couldn't be bothered self analyzing as this character will more than likely be enjoying the benefits of a "Good Enema" before the week is done......Certifiably anal & loves it.

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I can't say that enemas 'awakened' my sexuality but they certainly brought it into strong focus. I've described my first orgasm in this post:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=18757.msg363521#msg363521

It was not during an enema but just after one.

8 years has rolled on by, I'd have thought those that were or had become familiar with an Enema per se had or might've been influenced sexually to some degree

It was never asleep!!

No, I was already highly sexualized but even as a 5 year old I loved playing with my mom's douching tackle. When I started giving myself enemas as a teenager they really hypercharged my masturbation sessions. 😜

I very much agree with the original post, with a few exceptions. My late wife, though a fantastic Nurse Practitioner never understood my enema interest. That was ok. My Zity friends understood, and are very accommodating.

I was highly interested in the female backside and enemas by age 5. I wouldn't say it was necessarily sexual until later but it was there.

I'm sure that the enema, starting from the age of five, has been a large part of my sexuality. I started enema play with a neighbor boy that was a year older, with him giving and me receiving. Around the age of six, his sister, who was my age, joined in. She liked ( and still does) the sight of me swelling up with water, and apparently liked the dominant aspect of control. After almost seventy years, she still does, as we still play as time permits.

Enemas didn't start anything, they enhanced it.

For my sub they may have started his sexual experimenting, but again enemas also enhanced his sexual experience.

Yes. I would also say enhancing the sexual experience is so very, very right.

I don't believe enemas awakened my sexuality but certainly intensified it and provided an additional stimulation. I began self administering around age 10 as I started to tolerate mom's enemas. The equipment, process, and feelings were definitely sexual.

Early on they were my first introduction to anal stimulation. I was wired for it - enema or not - but the few I got certainly made me aware.

Got the OTL RED bulb as a kid, which I protested, hated, and cried, but found out how good I felt after releasing. I even noticed at an early age, that my penis was hard trying to expel with an erection, and had to point it down to pee. Then I graduated to “ the bag ”, as Mom told me that I was old enough for this. Mind you, I never saw a red hot water bottle, hose, and nozzle, except in the hall closet, but now it is connected to a hose, draped on the the towel bar, with Mom sitting on a closed toilet seat and telling me to get / strip naked and lay over her lap.

My very first 2 quart bag and of course, I protested and cried, but loved the feelings without her knowing my fetish. Right up until she did my laundry and left a “ douche nozzle ” in my pocket when I was about 17, and was sneaking them, on the dryer top. Ooop's ! . It WAS left on top of the dryer for me to find. Nothing ever said.

I never realized how sexual I was till I self educated my anus & colon. Never knew how intensive an anal orgasm could be. Much better than a vaginal one.

Absolutely at a very young age,I loved the tingle feeling of that douche nozzle sliding in and out of my rectum!😋🤪

Yes, it did! I felt more comfortable to explore my kinky side.

While my earliest ejaculation occurred while climbing, the anal penetration with enemas triggered most subsequent ejaculations thereby awakening my sexuality. I learned a great deal as I matured and experimented until sharing with a partner.

I'm not certain that enemas, rectal temps, etc., were the main thing that “awakened my sexuality”, but, as I entered my tween/teen years they became a very curious event, awakening the reasons and explorations for which I'm in Zity today. I know that these feelings and zillion different, sometimes conflicted thoughts became more “real”, active and pronounced when I became the “caretaker” to my sisters as well. I think being on the giving end affected me more than being on the receiving end of any of this mode of stuff.

Yes indeed. Having been fascinated with enemas with the enemas I received from mom, I was already emotionally hooked and sneaking enemas from the family enema stored in the bathroom closet and by 7th grade while home alone and following such an enema, I had my very first orgasm. It was from then on that I was “awakened”….michael https://en.zity.biz/gallery/image/87220

I don't think so. In some ways I see them as independent of each other. If anything, my sense of it is that enemas brought aspects of my sexuality into focus. It wasn't until I was nearly 19 years of age that a singular experience connected the sexual aspect and the eroticism of enemas to a truly sexual experience. Up to that time, it was just a good feeling to have a full belly and a stiff cock to masturbate.

Although my mom may have gotten me started down the path of enjoying enemas, I was plenty horny as a teenager and really didn't “connect” enemas with sexuality or even being horny. It was just another way to enhance masturbation.

I don't know that awaken is the right word. What I do know is that enemas and masturbation came along before sexual intercourse which was at 19.