" Ben Dover" : when you had your first sports physical examination performed by your usual lady pediatrician doctor, you have not said if your mother was still present in the examination room.
you have talked of her presence only for the previous exams
" ADPETXG77" : do you have the same old lady doctor for the three or four sports physicals that you had in high school
apparently you were naked for all the examination but I am surprised that you don't remember if the nurse was also present in the examination, it means that you were not really upset to be naked, which was logical because as a wrestler you might have also examinations or at least some inspections of your skin when you were attending to a wrestling competition with other high schools if you were in the school team.
you were shocked that she did not give you a gown but it seems to me that it was the most attitude of doctors, male or female, for the examination of a male teenager, it was not considered as manly to wear a gownwhen you were a boy. the gownw as you discovered it were only for girls.
I assume that it was nevertheless depending on doctors.
if you had a male doctor very "'old school" you were never given a gown , used to military methods he would have found that stupid for a boy.
on the other side it was certainly true also that some female doctors, especially one who was old did not mind a lot about the respect of the nudity shyness of a male teenager, thinking that it was not a concern.
it was obviously the case of your doctor
but fortunately for you she did not ask to your mother to acompany you in the exam room to speak with her about your health as some doctors did even for a high school student as long as he was under 18 age and if it were the case she could have come with your sister. I have read relations of examinations where the doctors mainly women did not object to the presence of the sister of a boy who was examined, more over when both of them needed an examination and the boy was the first so that he was examin,ed in front of his sister naked without a gown while he was told to leave when it was the turn of her sister who of course was given a gown.
so don't complain, it could have been worst and even if you did not agree with the double standard as regards gowns which were proposed only to girls, you can consider that you were lucky to be examined alone with the doctor and possibly the nurse.
were you examined the sam way by the same old lady doctor each year of high school ?
after the first sport physicals you were expecting what would happened the other years and be certainly less shocked and embarrassed if it was the same doctor?