Help us to squirt!

Already a filthy pair and accomplished participants of the watersports scene, we'd like some tips on squirting though...

I would love to be able to squirt on my husband but no matter how much I try its just not happening. Any useful hints and tips would be great ! 😮)

I teach squirting.

Have been with easy squirters and ones who never dripped a single drop. My only advice from my experience is never push the issue. Meaning, if she doesn't seem to be a squirter don't add the extra pressure of trying to achieve it. I've found that's a way to almost guarantee it will never happen. I've had a couple partners who didn't seem to be able to at first become some great gushers given time, attention, caring, and love in a pressure free environment. Just my experience.

You can try all you want but if he isnt hitting the right spot it aint happening. my wife only squirts sometimes when she does it feels great goes down my ass crack with her shes on top and im playing with the clit

I'd love to be able to squirt as well. My fiance is very into squirting and has expressed a lot of interest in me learning to. Unfortunately though its become a problem because he tries to find tutorials and things on how to do it and it never works, and then he gets frustrated and acts as if I'm not trying hard enough. Grr.

What is so great about squirting? From videos i have seen, it looks like the squirting is actually loss of urine.

I don't really know whats so great about it myself, it doesn't look bad but its not my thing in particular, but my fiance likes it so I'd like to learn if its possible to.

To me- it's directly comparable to a male prostate massage ONLY discharge.

Same sort of exasperating elusive sweaty frustratingly not working at all till the whole world melts into purest glowing white light that seems eternity in moments.

Be not discouraged. It's one of those experiences that seems to be granted us most often when not trying too hard. And cherished ever more for rarity.

Its always not like the squirt will come out like spray jet. it usually oozes out like in clear slippery substance which has got a strong aroma.

While it may appear to be squirting urine, the reality is that girls are able to have female ejaculations (and it is not urine).

I've had fairly good results by inserting one or two fingers, and doing more of a press on and off the g-spot. Rather than rubbing, stroking, or sliding in and out, it is applying preasure to the spot and then release preasure. The fingers stay straight and stay knuckles deep in her pussy. Sort of alternating between pressing on her G-spot and then on her rectum from inside her pussy.

The couple in this video sort of demonstrates the motion I'm referring to, although he prefers to work quickly while I find a slower and longer motion, staying at it continuously is better recieved than the quick bursts and pauses. This just may be a personal preference on the girl's part.

http://www.xvideos.com/video3567357/how_to_make_a_woman_squirt_instructional_-_free_porn_videos_-_youporn

I've been trying to get my wife to squirt for some time now.. no luck, she's got this phobia about letting me watch her pee. I'm sure that has something to do with it..

I don't have any advice, but it is fascinating to watch. Let me know what you learn.

I have read a lot of literature on this subject and have practiced a lot also. Female ejaculate comes from the Skeens gland and it is not urine although it probably is in pornos though. My wife has squirted through g spot orgasms and said she feels the urge to pee so when she starts to cum she pushes her pc muscles out and down! She has never really gushed just a trickle of cum runs out of her but it is thick and creamy and leaves one hell of a wet spot on the bed!! She likes the running man technique while im sucking her clit and it seems to produce the best results for us! Good luck in your quest.

I believe that it's the act of letting go and often submitting that allows the squirt. It will feel like peeing so many will resist.

Trying too hard doesn't seem to work often but when one simply rides the orgasm train while getting lost in their partner, they may find a squirt which can range from a focused spray to a hose gushing.

I recommend mattress protectors as it does stain.

Also, there are always exceptions to anything and it's probably best to enjoy what cums to you.

I don't have a thing for it, but it's pretty cool. Key, submission.

At my not young age, I still have to find one woman who squirts

We found this link awhile back reading & using these methods. Been working for us! And yes she can squirt.

Give it a try.

http://en.allexperts.com/q/Great-Sex-859/orgasam.htm

My friend would squirt just a little, but in time and patients with me, I was able to induce her to gush heavily, in one morning she climaxed 50 times. Over a couple years, she cannot orgasm at first without gushing. And she has lost some bladder control also. But in reality its all about her pleasure

I've taught several women to squirt who had never done it before.

I admire that Many, can you suggest how to keep each orgasm wet, I do want her plagued with this

I've only been able to squirt twice recently. The first time the guy fingered my gspot and held my legs open wide, and the second time I did it to myself with a regular vibrator on my gspot. It felt awesome.

My wife has done this a few times and ALWAYS when sitting on mr Dick, and riding hard........yeeeeehahhhh!!!!

At the link below, you will find what I consider the definitive instructional on squirting. Someone else here originally shared it on another thread on this site called "Squirting."

http://www.vporn.com/squirting/how-to-squirt-a-girl/5739/

The instructor gives a thorough explanation of technique and the importance of full body massage using certain methods, as well as the woman's attitude. For example, he discusses how the woman must have a sense of humor and overcome fear-based emotions, and she must be keen on maintaining a healthy lifestyle and taking care of her body, showing respect to her body by avoiding drugs, alcohol and unhealthy foods. And as with anything in life, it helps to drink plenty of water- pure water, not beverages containing water. As you can tell, such women (as well as men) seem rare in most of America and perhaps this is why the ability to squirt eludes most women.

And as for how the anxiety about urinating can prevent ejaculation, even though it is very rare to be able to urinate while sexually aroused: the instructor also explains how in the past, he helped this woman to get over this anxiety by holding her hand while she urinated on the toilet one day. According to this anecdote, after they had done this exercise she ejaculated the next time he touched her clit.

I always squirt when using my rabbit. clitoral stimulation and g spot stimulation is key 😉

I'm going to have to try this on my wife. Great thread!

I will have to say that I saw the video that HC referenced and it was eye opening. My wife can have very powerful and many orgasms but has never squirted- not even close when I asked if she ever felt like she might have a feeling of needing to pee when she came. That was a big no.

But having seen the video, it does make sense that the woman really has to want it and work at physically and mentally. It seems that the woman has to be in a relaxed state of mind and free from pressures of everyday life or at least can manage them to achieve a calm state of mind. From this video, I can see my wife is a long way from this psychologically which maybe is a big factor as to why she can't squirt. So watch the video and you'll probably learn some new insights.

That's a good point, ProV1. One of the things I think is interesting about sex is that both women and men can take a woman's ability to enjoy it for granted, then they wonder why she has trouble getting off.

For men, sex can't quite happen until the man gets an erection, and this is very difficult when a man is tense, anxious or unfocused. It is pretty much mandatory that a man develop and maintain his ability to truly get in the zone for sex, but women often have sex without learning how to mentally prepare for it themselves. Many women can fall into the habit of just going through the motions without making sure they are as calm as a man needs to be for it to happen, because that is how calm women need to be as well. The consequence is that these women usually do not enjoy it as much as they could.

It can take a lot of patience to break lifelong habits and shift patterns, and to let go of the fear-based emotions mentioned in the video, but it is possible. I don't want to sound pretentious or like a hippie, but lot of people use yoga and meditation to learn how to regain the full possession of themselves that they need. I'm not sure how familiar you are with this stuff, but yoga classes and meditation classes are all over the place these days. You can also learn it without leaving your house- I think the P-90X yoga dvd and the book Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind are good places to start. I also recommend the book Female Ejaculation by Somraj Pokras and Jeffre Talltrees. At times, this book Female Ejaculation is a bit wishy-washy in its approach to sex, but overall it is still very informative about applying Eastern ideas to this particular practice as well.

Another thing that I have heard is great for making progress toward a calmer state of mind is floatation tank therapy. I am no expert on this, but the brainwaves experienced during a float session are like those achieved after a month of meditation, if I remember that statistic correctly. Here is a brief youtube video about it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3sfGfPFDxU&spfreload=10

I am certain it is very relaxing, but several of their claims are as totally bogus as the colon therapists claims.

I would love to learn how to squirt. I hear that relaxation is a big part of it, I don't think I'd be able to do it with a new partner

Susie, I was talking more about the female orgasm and sex in general when I was said that a lot of people don't realize how much a woman needs to relax before sex in order to get off, whereas a man knows exactly how much he needs to relax in order to get an erection and attempt sex in the first place.

PleaseTeachMe, you are probably right about what you said. The book Female Ejaculation actually encourages learning on your own first, and I think that is a good approach to anything sexual. But sometimes things happen spontaneously. You might be surprised to experience squirting when you are with someone for the first time. I would even guess that a woman is more likely to have an orgasm of any sort with someone she never met before who knows what they are doing, than someone she has slept with a thousand times who does not know what they are doing. I personally know of at least one person who squirted with someone she had never been with before, and I have read accounts of this happening to other women.