Does "Psychological Pressure" count on this thread?? I've stated that quite seriously as befits some threads here.
There's a certain human character aspect best described as knowing we're taking "some chances" for whatever reward is in the scene. Sometimes we defy basic common sense in that pursuit of an elusive desire. She or he - or two people- decide that yeah they're going to Take Chances and see how close they can go. So we need caution on many levels. More on that as I go on . So? IF we do the research and err on the side of safety we can still feel an *INTENSITY* that makes our life feel worth living. Either we are wired to Grok that need in a shared warm smile sort of way, or this may be harder to explain? Still&all- we are what we are and if we have these needs, we're going to pursue them:>
Both as top or bottom to use terms in current use despite them making me feel edgy but that's another post...
Often it's all kept within "Close Enough" that the risk is all psychological. NEVER FORGET THAT PAIN CAN CAUSE LASTING MENTAL DAMAGES!
I've chatted with some folks that in priv seemed to be wanting escape from either a relationship with an enema giver lover or their self administered desires and that conflict seems "Stockholm Syndrome" evocative. eversomuch more with enemas.
I am coldly scared that some folks get drawn into intense scenes to "Please Someone" and inside- it's a scene of building life long traumas or worse. I've also a wild arsed hypothetical query of if we can indeed give ourselves mental traumas. As in during solo play, especially enemas "how do you Safeword YOURSELF? Seriously, whilst we might tell the other person STOP!! at a point long before we might push self to, how much mode risk of defying the "Pain Safeword" by iour sheer stubborn will to get that whole whatever in us?
I have deeply bittersweetly fond memories of evenings in my late teens chasing the elusive Hands Free Orgasm that cramps alone "could" melt me with. And yeah- I'd been plainly stupidly risky in solutions/pressures/retention times etc plus a shedload of other elements glossed over here- Me Sighs, makes note to blog of them, and focuses on this here&now post. .. Al the above sums up to:
Let's be aware that we can be skewing our risk to reward evaluations for the orgasms both mental and bodily. Enemas add literal Gut Resonances plus depths of risk that are what they are. Learning what they are can keep us alive to enjoy this. With a bonus of expanding our enjoyment by taking some worry out of the scene. I don't feel that mortal risk improves a scene so play safe, Eh?