Ball Stretcher

I didn't see it in the faqs. Could someone please direct me to the zity lists of kinks and fetishes that are discouraged on this site? It would be a shame if someone came here looking for information, community, and support and instead were discouraged and mocked by members and moderators. Thanks.

@7deepIrish said

I truly do not understand this place. I thought it would be much more welcoming, understanding and OPEN MINDED. Yet we have several people, on this post alone, (including two moderators) who feel they can reply based on anecdotal information. If you don't have first hand experience with an activity or device, what gives you the right to tell someone else not to do something? On almost EVERY fetish discussed on zity, the general public would go eewww, that's gross. BECAUSE THEY HAVEN'T TRIED IT. Many things considered taboo in popular culture can bring great pleasure to a few. It seems people come here to find information on something they find interesting or arousing. Let the people who have experience answer and keep your negative OPINIONS to yourself. Just my observations. ........

You have made your point, in two posts, but let's have it right.

I don't think anyone who has posted here has exactly told yourself or the others who follow this practice not to do it. But I think what has prompted some comments is that your interest involves causing a particular permanent and irreversible modification to the male body, as @JTMac said in his post. Permanent, and not something that would heal if the practice was discontinued, such as the holes from piercings. That sets it apart from most of the kinks discussed on the site, and there was a discussion on the wisdom of it and whether it would cause problems during intercourse. A few men have posted basically saying this practice isn't for them, and some of the women who have responded expressed a preference for testicles that do not hang low. Those were their own personal opinions.

Also, it isn't necessary for a person to actually try something to know that they aren't interested in it.

But if this is something you wish to do for yourself, that's fine. Go ahead.

What the fuck are you talking about, my interest causes permanent and irreversible damage? read my post. TEMPORARY. My low hangers? Naturally occurring AS I STATED. Ball stretchers are primarily worn for temporary erotic fun. Do some people take this to the extreme? I m sure they do, but from my experience, it is pretty rare.

I think it is absolute bullshit that a moderator can come into a thread and shitpost a secondhand, uninformed opinion from her husband and distract the thread from a sincere query. This is a fetish/kink site and it's ok for moderators to encourage bad information and hearsay? Cock and ball torture is a fetish. Many people partake in it. Body modification is considered a fetish, and millions of people participate, from ear piercing to tattoos to ear lobe stretching and maybe even ball stretching. I think this thread and suzyswitchblade specifically has disrespected those two communities. It's also bullshit that Drz as moderator let's the nonsense continue. That last post about blinders and roller coasters? What the fuck? What purpose did it serve other than to bait me? It worked.

I'm going to stick around, contribute useful information, meet people, and call bullshit when I see it.

@7deepIrish - You need to calm down. By carrying on this way, you are only derailing the thread you claim to be interested in.

It isn't hearsay that if you do something enough, such as ear stretching, you will cause a modification to the body (as you rightly say, it's a question of degree). I have encountered people who have done this, and no I don't understand why someone would want to do so, but my attitude on it is 'each to his own'.

Anal stretching is done on a part of the body designed to stretch anyway to a certain extent, and so that doesn't compare. However, your ball stretching practices are done on a part of the body not designed to stretch. You know as well as I do that some people will take things too far and cause permanent changes. But if you yourself don't do it enough to cause any problems, and you enjoy doing it, then fine. Go right ahead and knock yourself out.

Lastly, just to say that it's not the done thing to go flaming others on this forum. If you want to have a civil discussion, that's fine. Talk about your interest if you wish, and you are entitled to disagree with others, but keep it civil and remove the angry tone from your posts. I won't tell you as nicely again, so just calm yourself down.

Here's a good collection of ball stretchers for those so inclined.

https://www.thechaingang.com/adult-adventure/male-body-jewelry/ball-weights-and-ball-stretchers.html?limit=32&gclid=CjwKCAjwpfzOBRA5EiwAU0ccN9EDVV60uPggiLxtgokDUHQUZKMCvKbp1xrJVEvyh9qlUA49DJAJphoC64cQAvD_BwE

I just got a 1" leather ball stretcher. I like the look and feel of it when I'm wearing it, but I'm not so sure I really want to stretch my balls. So my questions for you aficionados, will a leather strap really stretch the boys?

Chain gang is the best.. Been using their products for over 2 years now.. Great products, fast shipping.

go for it!

Stretch your balls enough and they will sit in the water when you go to the toilet. They certainly will get wet if you flush while siting on the toilet.

No thank you , for each is own .

Continue the debate... I'll give you my experience and let it be..

I wanted some body modification that wasn't a piercing or a tattoo, so I ran across this fetish, kink, or whatever you want to call it..

Started using the guidance at secretleatherforum.. and followed it to a T.. Started with a 15mm ring and worked up.. And became addicted, the feeling is amazing. I feel my balls all the time, vs without a ring.

Started slowly wearing for a few hours, then overnight, then all the time.. as time went on the weight increased (all bought from chaingang). Currently I'm up to wearing 2 1/2lbs around the house and while sleeping. (she loves to pull my balls in-between her legs from behind as we sleep). And currently working up to 3lbs (100mm in length) so I'll wear that for a few hours a day around the house to get a good stretch in! I'll drop down to a 40mm ring for wearing out (occasionally show off with 55mm in the tight jeans). Often I'll forget the lighter weight is even on.

When I started, I was single after meeting my girlfriend she saw the weights on the dresser one day and asked about them.. long story short, she loves them. Loves the fact that my balls hang low, and the SS weights look good. We've found the happy weight for having sex... too much hurts me and her. The right amount taps her in all the right spots. Secondary she loves using the weights as a handle pulling around while going down on me or in a dominate role. How long will I stretch and how low will I get them? Good question. Girlfriend will be the wife soon and she wants this on me https://www.thechaingang.com/adult-adventure/male-body-jewelry/ball-weights-and-ball-stretchers/bullet-ball-stretcher-weight.html plus the current weights so thats a total of 170mm (and 6lbs) So that's that goal for now. Either case I believe it is my "body mod" for a life time.

Questions about getting hurt, or etc..

A. If you over do it like any muscle / ligaments you'll strain and hurt it. If you go slow the muscle will get stronger. I can retract my balls with all the weights on. Just like lifting in the gym don't over do it. The benefit in bed is amazing!

B. The orgasms are much longer and very powerful. The theory is the tubes a longer so the feeling of cumming lasts longer as the semen travel thru. The girlfriend believes it increases the volume of semen too (my ball have gotten bigger). Compared to when I've had breaks and not wearing them vs wearing them full time.

C. There is damage or stretching that you won't recover from.. Well I've only done it for about 2 1/2 yrs and if I take the weights off for a long time (for a break). The scrotal sac does start to shrink. It takes a couple days for my sac get back to the previous length. If you push too fast you'll get stretch marks on your you sac, and it hurts. Like anything going slow is better, I use Shea butter for keep everything soft and help prevent chaffing etc. (she loves my bigger super soft ball sack in her mouth)

D. Is it addicting .. I'd say yes, I love the feeling of my sac swaying between my legs and the gentle tug with the new weights added.

Try it out .. you may love it..

I have to admit I have never heard of this before. I do think that having sex from behind with this on could be good from a slapping the clit kind of experience. My balls are big enough just the way they are thank you very much but this is a very interesting topic for a younger guy.

Love to streach my ball sack. I wear my stainless steel split weight 24/7.

When at home I add more weight to give a good streach. Why? It feels great. The toug is wonderful and the swinging when walking feels great.