My 1st & 2nd Play Exams

I just had my second "exam" ever. The first guy actually did a better job, I think. The first guy didn't "specialize" in medical fetish but just in indulging people's fetishes in general. Other than smelling like smoke (stressed out doctor)? I thought he did a fairly realistic exam.

The second guy, seemed much more genuinely into exam play by our emails, but as soon as he got here he stripped (uh, you're the doctor, dude?) and my 'exam' was much more of a mutual play session by my standards. It felt good, physically, but didn't have the emotional element I was looking for.

So I guess, live and learn! I have rather serious, clinical, authentic play in mind (happy endings aside). Not sure how to communicate this to people effectively.

I think you just did. I got the message.

I'm sorry to hear about the disappointing experience. I always make sure to communicate in advance that I, as the Doctor, will not be removing my clothing at all during the exam. I'm always getting the "but can I suck you off" or "will we still have sex" questions and I am clear that if that is what they're looking for, they should look elsewhere.

As a patient, you should always be sure to set your limits and expectations with the Doctor in advance. Most of us who are experienced Docs ASK that of you, but if he doesn't, you need to assert yourself and say "This is what I'm into and this is what I'm not."

Wish I was closer to you...I'd show you a good exam scene! 😃

There are a lot of guys that claim to be into medical exam role play, but in reality they are just looking for sex. It is always nice when you find someone else who genuinely shares your interest. I think a little more discussion before meeting might help you weed out the fakes.

I can understand your frustration. Of course I want things to happen that wouldn't ever happen at the real doctor's office but, like you, I am interested in a "clinical" experience that involves the doc being fully clothed. My play experiences have all been like this. Good luck finding a like-minded person to play with - when I found a guy that shared my ideas of an examination (but from the doc's role) I went back to see him multiple times.

I spent a good deal of time finding play examiners and then having several meetings with each of them before any exam sessions to be sure we had complete understanding of the expectations. Both of my examiners agreed to abide strictly by the guidelines I set forward. The examiners agreed they would not undress in my presence at any time. I spent considerable time going over the technical aspects of doing the components of the exam before we ever did any sessions. I got some printed material as well as the Bates exam videos for them to study in order to make the actual exam sessions as smooth and realistic as possible. I provided all the equipment for the exam and specified their dress code for the procedure. I have published on this site several exam scripts I wrote to which they agreed to adhere. They agreed that there would be nothing sexual during the exams.

Thanks everyone for your thoughts and feedback.

Another thing that would make an exam more fun is toys! I have no particular fetish for these things, but gloves, a flashlight, and a stethoscope would add a lot of enjoyment I think :-)

As a doctor if I am playing with someone new. I have them start out completely dressed for comfort and it eases a new person into the scene without any pressure. During my exams I will do a complete head to toe physical including a throat culture. I have included witnessed urine specimins. One subequet exams I have included full gyno and rectal exams.

Sounds good, joseph98144. My last potential doc turned me down when I said didn't want a blowjob. But, it's good we talked things out first. I wish some of you were closer to me! I'm sure you would all give awesome exams ;-)

I have two play examiners, one male and one female, both are older than I am, in their early sixties. I had several in depth face to face conversations with each of them before we commenced the exams. Like you, I want to have only realistic exams and laid down the ground rules very clearly in advance. Each of them agreed without reservation. They did, however, want to see me ejaculate, and, frankly, I get so excited during the exam process that I am desperate to ejaculate as well. I am not interested in ejaculatiing under the guise of providing a semen specimen or any other nonrealistic scenario. The way we have resolved this to our mutual satisfaction is that after an exam is completed, and entirely separately from the exam, the examiner masturbates me to completion. Each of them often likes to swallow the ejaculate, so I will let him know when I am at the point of orgasm so he can make the decision to swallow my semen or watch it squirt out. I consider letting the examiner witness my ejaculation to be a reasonable way of providing some payback for providing me with the exam. The examiners know they are never to take off any of their clothing at any time. I don't know if this strategy is one you would be comfortable with but I am just letting you know how I deal with the examiner's wish to have some kind of sexual experience.

I have had a play exam with DrDave and it was very thorough realistic and fun. I Just WISH he would respond back to my second request for a visit again after several request. I guess he's been all booked up or.......what????? I really enjoyed the time he took and his assistant on hand made more warming touch

I have the experience that good communication in advance is very important otherwise there is great chance that someone is disapponted.

It has te be clear what someone expects from the date. Does the doc stay dressed ? Do yoy wanne undresse complete immediatly ? Do you

wanne cum? Do you want sex ? That all has to be clear.

I think, it would be the greatest thing in play exams if they worked perfectly, without talking to each other before. But in real it is necessary to talk to each other to find out the expectations of both, patient and doctor

I agree. I'd rather have a more realistic exam

Still, a bad exam is better than not exam!

I have had a few really good exams. I can be both the doctor or the patient. As the patient, I've been lucky and had some really good exams. Before you do any play exams, its wise to email the ground rules first.

For me I like having the doctor dressed. I prefer the doctor my age or older (prefer older) since I have use of a real exam room set up, I prefer the doctor come to me because I have the set up and the medical fetish toys to give a proper exam. As the patient, I like to chat/email the doctor and let him know my limits.

When I play the role of the doctor, again I prefer to use my exam room set up because I have the exam room and the toys to give a proper exam. Just as I like to be the patient, I like to know what the patient wants done and set up rules and guidelines.

These days, I've been enjoying being the patient.

My first play exam was great. Male doc. He came over, changed into medical scrubs (I have those too but I was impressed he brought some with him) he gave me an exam, started out normal then he examined my penis thoroughly and I came.

The same doctor, 2nd exam. As I got use to him...he did electro and sound play on me for my 2nd exam.

My 3rd exam was with a female and although I am a gay man...I really enjoyed the female exam. I got hard and came to my surprise and she was really good and professional and she made me cum twice.

Its been about a year since that last exam and searching for others to play with. Got a few that contacted me from this site but when I emailed them, for some reason they flaked out?!?!? So if you are in South Florida, you like playing Doc, let me know...😃

I've spent a lot of time watching exam videos and studying procedures to make my play exams fairly realistic and thorough. Some procedures that I may do wouldn't be in a normal physical, but are still medical in nature such as using an anoscope.