My GF's first enema

I think I can get my GF to let me give her, her first enema and I was thinking that she might enjoy it more if she was relaxed. I was thinking about maybe giving up to 2 quarts with possibly about an ounce of alcohol in it to help her relax. She has discovered, through some very patient play on my part, that she is anal erotic and I am thinking I can convince her that she would enjoy an enema. Maybe I am miss-reading her but she has mentioned them a few times so I think she is mildly interested eventhough she has never come out and said, "Please give me an enema"

I am not totally sure about using alcohol but thought that it might be helpful in the relaxation department.

Any thoughts or ideas?

Well you could ask the kid in tennessee about alcohol enemas. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/25/butt-chugging-wine-alcohol-enema-university-of-tennessee-pi-kappa-alpha_n_1913575.html If it was me I would just tell her what you like and the answer will either be yes or no. either way the truth will be known. I have read far too many posts from people concocting some crazy way to get someone to give them an enema, most time this stuff just leads to failure, I have received enemas from 54 different women, and have give almost that many, simply by telling them what I am into, the ones who aren't into it didn't matter nor did they judge me, I really don't know why people who are into this fetish are so hung up on not telling others that they are into it.

Do not use alcohol. Just use plain water at 104-110 F. It will feel great. Deliver slowly. Just use a quart the first time. Teach her how to breath. Stop the flow if she has a cramp. Remember your goal is to do it again. Lie beside her, rub her back, talk nicely to her, tell her what a fantastic person she is for do this for you. I have introduced numerous ladies to enemas and most have given to me.

How about giving her a few drinks by mouth? That was standard for getting a female to relax enough to have sex in years gone by.

I have been thinking about it over and over and i am just gonna ask her if i can give her one and also tell her she can give one to me if she wants. J think if i give her a small really warm enema like maybe a quart while i give her some well.deserved oral, which is how i got her to enjoy anal play, I think she might go for it.

If she is hesitant, you might suggest she give you one first. Once she sees how "excited" you become by the process, she will be more open to trying it herself.

As the others have said, keep it simple. Plain warm water and don't worry about how much. It is the process that counts, not the quantity in this case.

She sounds like she is open to things, and although seems understandably a little shy about openly asking for an enema, if you suggest giving her one in a sexually suggestive way or something, she might be delighted to just go for it. Perhaps for her birthday or a holiday, give it to her as a gift. If she is an anal erotic, add baking soda to her enema, with salt of course might give her a nice, gentle full feeling. Baking soda and salt are totally safe to use. Baking soda would allow her to more easily retain the water and possibly leave her wanting to try more enemas in the future, since her first one would possibly go so well. For a 2 qt. enema, the water should be about 105 degrees fahrenheit, with 1 tbsp (not tsp) of baking soda per quart, (you could do 1.5 tbsp for the 2qt., if you want to go light, but going 1:1 is totally safe) and 1tsp (not tbsp) of salt per quart. If she has medical issues, such as electrolyte imbalance issues or poor colon health, don't use enemas! They can be dangerous. Either way I'm guessing she has given herself an enema before and it went fine and just wants you to do it. Anyways, a safe and anally sexual 2qt. enema should have a total of 2 tbsp of baking soda, and 2 tsp of salt. Best of luck!

Watch out for the alcohol. That actually scares me. I have never tried it but I have read about it.

Yeh people die from booze enemas

@ Tommylee24 ^^^Well it's been 18 months since first post....Curious to know if both took the opportunity to explore further?...Agree with member consensus....moderation the key....exercise wisdom where "other" solutions are involved....Maybe a story yet to unfold ??