Is it ok to be a part-time slave?

I can not be a slave for a Master or Mistress on a fulltime basis so does that eliminate me as a prospect for most to consider.

If is OK with your master you can be a part-time slave.

Propose terms and conditions to your Master or Mistress and see what they say. Best to do it in writing though ...

The most honorable and full of wisdom Masters shall support a part-time status of Their slave. For a person to ask to be a slave, or to ask a person to be a Master, etc., such is an example of a life-changing commitment. Nothing shall ever be perfect (My apologies to the perfectionists out there), all relationships have their highs and lows, no matter how devoted, vanilla or otherwise. A Master needs to allow some slack on their respective leash while They and the slave become more settled in T/their new R/role. How many years did it take to paint the ceiling of the Cistine Chapel before the artist himself was satisfied? Patience is a strong necessity, give and take (in varying ways); if the relationship is shaky, why not try as a Dom and submissive? Grow from there, remember, be patient with each other.

One of the things about BDSM is that you can define your own relationship and as such be yourself. Don't try and be something you are not and don't worry if others don't agree with you.

I believe that most people (Masters and slaves) in this lifestyle are "part-timers" due to the fact that just about all need to support themselves via their "vanilla life" which is generally intolerant of kinkiness in the work place. So I would surely believe that being a part-time slave would be totally acceptable by most Masters or Mistresses. I speak from many years experience as a part-time slave to my ex-wife. In my situation, it was a lot easier to be more heavily involved, but still our vanilla lifestyle always had to take precedence, hence I was a part-timer.

I could never be a full time slave. I have things I want to do with my life and I would want my partner to want me to explore them also. I like the role play of it.. but maybe I am not enough into it. Maybe I am just playing with a fantasy. I do not know. Guess it depends on the people. I just think that going so far to be a full slave is dangerous in the long run.

I have had a live-in M/s relationship and several 'part-time' M/s relationships. All were quite enjoyable and rewarding.

It all depends on the chemistry between the Master and you. A full time M/s relationship is a lot of work and intensity to maintain. Part-times can be elaborate and very enjoyable but tend less intense over the long term.

Honestly I think I enjoyed the part-times more.

Being a full time slave doesn't preclude living and working. I know many slaves that work or maintain a household in a very main stream way. It's a negotiation with your master.

Relating to my real life status, I would find the part-time slave or submissive very intense and doable. Being married with a family, I would not think I would have the time and ability to be full-time slave or submissive. I am hoping that Masters and DOMs are willing to accept subs & slaves on a part-time basis. Of course depending on distances, I would be available often even though part-time.

I had a part time slave and was a part time slave. Usually family and work comes first. Unless one lives with the master, you would think all slaves are part time.

I'm very interested in being a part time slave.

@Master_Intrepid is exactly right. EVERY single M/S, D/S relationship is different because it depends on the 2 (or more) individuals involved. There is no 'right' way to have a relationship, no matter what all the 'twue' Doms say. As long as it's consenting adults, you can define your dynamic in whatever way works for you.

I am always a slave to my Goddess, but I am not alway serving Her. My Goddess is a hypnodom. I listen to Her every night, train and worship Her everyday, and send Her tribute and gifts several times a month. But I also have a full time job, am married (to a woman who is not my Goddess), and live a fairly boring life. But no matter what I do I am still Goddess’ slave.

It's YOUR relationship. You can set your own rules.

It doesn't matter if other people agree with how you do it.

Yes it is o.k. to be a part time slave. Circumstances vary for everyone. If it suits your needs then your Master or Mistress will understand and comply with your wishes.

There is real life and there is play life. My real life means that I can not be in play life mode all the time. I would think too that even wanna be slaves have real life constraints which would make them part time at best. Everyone and every relationship has to do what works for all parties involved. Part time or full time has to be what works for you (and your Dom if you have one). Believe it or not, I think most dominants also have a real life too and fantasy and reality should never be confused. Few I know are able to have both real and fantasy life at the SAME time.

Yes. I have no mistress or indeed master right now, but I think it is all about organisation if you don't live together. I'm a musician, so the last thing I would want would be a mistress demanding I be at her beckoning call all the time. I would be happy to arrange a time,and how long my mistress would want me for and what she would want me dressed in. That way I can be totally immersed in the session, or maybe just a vanilla chat with my mistress. Especially at the moment with what is going on.

I personally think it doesn't eliminate you, as it more makes the time you are able to afford to the activity. Everyone has different parameters they can bring to the table. Now, be true to yourself and find someone that fits those parameters.

My ex-wife and I were both Switches and I very enjoyably acted as her slave or enema sub whenever she was horny and feeling Dominant and wanted to have sexual control over me for an evening or evening plus morning. Our D/s sexual relationship was very intense and enjoyable for both as she adored causing and then watching and hearing my submissive reactions to her giving me very large enemas to hold for very long times, accented by mixing in our other kinks during my enemas. She loved the same in reverse whenever she asked to switch roles.

Eric

It's certainly has for me for some Dom's but on the other hand I love switching my favorite thing you do is to take turns and make a day of it.