Is it possible to cum many times?

What is the best unit that will cause the quickest orgasm, and is it possible to ejaculate more than once in a session?

is it possible to cum many times? what is the best unit that will cause the quickest orgasm, and is it possible to ejaculate more than once in a session?

Obviously you don't cumsalot, or you wouldn't be asking!!!!!!!!!! Sorry, but the dominatrix in me couldn't resist.

You sound like a young guy without much experience. Getting used to cumming quickly won't make you a favorite among women.

The ability to cum a number of times in a session is based on age (youth) and genetics.

Dam that stung! im not talking about a quick nut, then quit. im talking about being able to cum over and over, so i can keep a erection to be able and please my woman for as long as i can. trust me, i love to make my women cum, the only way i can make her cum over and over is with my tounge, my dick only makes her nut once. plus she really like it when i explode.

HA! Women have it over you men in spades. Many of us can cum several times in a session while you men cannot unless you're very young.

Your best bet in satisfying your woman for as long as you can is probably to learn to control yourself and NOT to cum quickly, but rather to learn to hold off as long as you can so you can keep your erection as long as possible.

You would also be wise to remember that TWO THIRDS of women CANNOT cum by sexual intercourse alone. They must have specific oral or clitoral stimulation to do it, so I wouldn't get all upset about that.

That's absolutely true Susie -you ladies do have the advantage.

But it isn't something which we men should mourn. Instead we should take delight and pride in helping our ladies to more orgasms.

We usually do have a refractory period but in my younger days I found that in continued pleasuring of the lady, without the urgency of my need to orgasm, there was a very pleasant result in that I could cum again after a little while - but you're right that it's younger men who most often experience this.

From Wikipedia:-

In sexuality, the refractory period usually describes the recovery phase after orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for a man to have additional orgasms. Though generally reported that women do not experience a refractory period and thus can experience an additional orgasm, or multiple orgasms, soon after the first, some sources state that both men and women experience a refractory period because women may also experience a period after orgasm in which further sexual stimulation does not produce excitement.

While the refractory period varies widely among individuals, ranging from minutes to days, most men cannot maintain or achieve an erection during this time, and many perceive a psychological feeling of "satiation" and are temporarily uninterested in further sexual activity; the penis may be hypersensitive and further sexual stimulation may even feel painful during this time frame.

Incidentally, relating to the Wikipedia reference that women maybe experience a refractory period too, I have often found this to be the case after what I and others describe as a 'whole body orgasm'. They describe it as being sated and continued stimulation has no effect, though thankfully it rarely seems to be for long.

I have also found that where there is no 'whole body orgasm', that continued stimulation can be annoying or even painful for the lady. That is a sign that, whilst a woman thinks she has orgasmed, she hasn't really because she probably caused stimulation to be terminated because the feelings were too acute and she feared she might lose control. It can be very difficult for a woman to let go 'all the way' - but once she has experienced the difference of a whole body orgasm she will never fail to experience one again. I explore this in my blog at 'Cumming - ready or not', dated 16.08.2011. It's a fair way down in that blog page but read it all anyway!

Yes, you women do have it on us. the best i have done is two orgasms in one night, my wife can cum 5 or six times before she makes me quite, but that is oral, i can only make her cum with my dick. but what i am trying to do, which might be impossible, is to be able to cum many times and still keep a erection and drive going. and another reason is my wife seems to enjoy making me cum, she gets off on that kind of thing. when i estim, she is the one at the controls, and she wants me to cum many times also. is that impossible for a man? will you women be the king in bed? thanks for your replys

yes, you women do have it on us. the best i have done is two orgasms in one night, my wife can cum 5 or six times before she makes me quite, but that is oral, i can only make her cum with my dick. but what i am trying to do, which might be impossible, is to be able to cum many times and still keep a erection and drive going. and another reason is my wife seems to enjoy making me cum, she gets off on that kind of thing. when i estim, she is the one at the controls, and she wants me to cum many times also. is that impossible for a man? will you women be the king in bed? thanks for your replys

1- You aren't going to be cuming all night. Have your wife read a medical textbook. It isn't going to happen.

2- Yes, women are the boss in bed. WE HAVE THE PUSSY.

3- It does not matter that she likes making you cum. After a couple of times, you're done. That's how the body works.

4- You and your wife both have unreasonable expectations on how the body works. Get over it.

Your right about one thing, pussy rules! to me, a freshly trimmed pussy is like a mona lisa print. the bigger the clit, the better. but i have seen several videos of guys cumming 5 times in less than 15 minutes. i know there are pills you can take to increase your volume, whats your opinion on those before i try them?

There are no pills to increase the semen volume.

Don't be fooled by the scam artists.

It truly sounds like you need a reality check.

You gonna buy the dick enlarging pills, too? 😁 😁

Why don't you just relax and enjoy what you have?

Hell no, i dont need a bigger dick, my wife caint take it all now, what would i do with more? i came here to ask other people's advice, not insulted. thats why i love to estim, between that and pussy, i can last about 4 hours, unless she turns up the volume on me.

Experts at smartstim say that if you keep your estim unit running, a man can have multiple orgasms -- although there will be little semen after the first time, since virtually all of it will be ejaculated the first time. I've never tried that yet.

Yes, women are amazing. I've had several women who had 20, 30, 40, and even 50 orgasms over a few hours -- from a variety (and usually changing) kinds of sexual stimulation -- especially G-spot massage. I found one gradually developed grey-white face & blue lips, since she held her breath during (the rapidly recurring) orgasms -- and I had to give her a break periodically.

A man with good control can fuck for hours, while only having one or two orgasms. When I was young, I often did that for 5 or 6 hours (all night), cuming somewhere in the middle once, and then quitting after the second, as the sun came up. In the meantime, she had them constantly. (Sigh, the good old days.) Viagra etc can also help a man do this now.

Cumsalot, I'm just playing with you. Seriously you need to enjoy what you have. Your wife does too. You can't force the body to do what it isn't going to do.

You should employ a little cuddling and caressing each other. If you love your wife, you'll be surprised how good you'll feel doing that. She will too. Enjoy your time together. You won't always have it.

Sorry if i seemed upset, im not. we do cuddle a little, but our way to cuddle is first i perform oral on her, then she performs oral on me. no intercourse. she has tried her best to make me cum more than once with her mouth, but once i do, my peni get so sensitive, i wont let her touch it. and i stay hard for at least 20 minutes after. i was just trying to use the estim as a way to train my body into actualy ejaculating many times, not just orgasms, but ejaculations. even she said she wishs i could come more. not to make our sessions longer, as it usually last a couple hours anyway, it just turns her on more. especially when she has me hooked up and i am eating her pussy. sometimes she will cum just as i am. if we could cum together like that all night, that would be awesome.

Hi susie, stil talking? love your opions and your views.

hi susie, stil talking? love your opions and your views.

I'm still here, but not 60/24/7/365.

Have you and your wife reconciled the realities of human physiology yet?

Kind of, i let her read our discussions, and she still wants to try and make me cum more than once, i guess i caint be mad at her hehe! she did get me to cum twice last night with help from our estim toy. were finding out the more excited i get, the more likely i will cum . the problem with ejactulating with a estim unit, is once the cum is empty and the unit is still causing me to try and cum is that with each dry shoot, it gets to intense for me to bear. she usually has my hands tied down so i caint make her stop, but she still trys. will i ever be able to condition myself for that?

Dry cumming? Is that possible? I suppose so, if the muscles keep contracting. I want one!

Dry cumming is wild! gets so intense, you have to turn your unit off.

Yes dry cumming is very possible, i am a multiple male cummer i can keep having orgasms as long as my cock is hard. when i was a teenager and in my twenties i would orgasm over and over, I would run out of cum after about the 3rd or 4th orgasm and i would have dry orgasms after that. I would love to try e-stim if i could do that again.

Once you try it, you will get hooked

If you use a tens unit, what is your setting? sometimes i have no problem cumming, then sometimes i reach that point, then my dick starts to go limp.

The dry orgasms in my experience were in some ways more intense than the wet orgasms.

I have an erostek box. What settings have you found to be the best, especially if you are trying to a dry orgasm?

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I find that Im lucky to cum once littlelone multi.

Can't really say which unit works fastest for you ... for me it's my stereo stim unit ;-) And I think the unit per se isn't the most important factor ... it's about the electrodes and how relaxed you are. Hey, if you still experimenting, the mind (our primary sexual organ, just by the way) is busy with other stuff and not focused on orgasm!

Is it possible to cum more than once with e-stim? Absolutely! But if you can't do it without estim, you probably won't with either. Your body dictates this. Remember, after each orgasm, your body needs a bit of time to recover ... some recover quickly, others take longer. I take about 15 mins. But after that, no problem for a second round of cum.

Dry orgasms are intense indeed. I agree to what was said - more intense than when shooting. But hey don't really satisfy ... it's like your brain is only satisfied when you shoot some jizz :-) 2 months ago a cyberpartner remotely induced 3 dry orgasms on me ... he couldn't stay longer, so I thought to call it quits - no-way, my brain didn't allow me to pack up until I actually shot. Result, 4 orgasms in 25 mins! Foreplay was about an hour.

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