Hey there,
I introduced myself on the new member forum but I thought it would be more appropriate to discuss the fetish here. I have a gyno fetish, not sure why or anything, but I think because of the awkward nature coupled with it being a woman's body - which is beautiful. I think particularly in my specific relationship that I'm in now that it's even more complex because of the intimacy, openness and trust involved as well as seeing someone else who isn't me meticulously go over my girlfriend's most intimate bits. I remember back having this fetish since I learned about what happens at one when I was a teenager, probably around 16 or so. I learned what it was because I had a girlfriend throughout high school and her mom mentioned something one time. Fast forward a year or so, I guess we were both 18, and I had my drivers license and she did not. Well she went to take the driving test to get her license and she had her first gynecology appointment after that. We were on Spring Break and since I had my license I took her to both places.
After she passed her driving test I took her to her doctor's appointment and we waited in the waiting room. I asked her if she was nervous and wanted me to come in but she said no, but that she was nervous. Later on she told me there was a chair in the room (I asked her so many details) and that she regretted not bringing me in with her. I sat in the waiting room for probably 45 minutes, completely tense the whole time knowing what was happening to my girlfriend on the other side of a wall. After her exam she came back out, paid and we left. She was wearing exactly what she was when she went in (obviously) but it was kind of weird knowing she'd been completely nude for someone else, a woman her mom went to as well. Anyways, so we got in the car and she started telling me about everything and she put her hand in my lap (I was rock hard), and I and that's when she remarked that she should've brought me in with her and that there was a chair in there. It was kind of nice that she wished she'd brought me in, she said seeing how turned on it made me would've been worth it. I do remember unbuttoning her jeans in the car and reaching down her pants and feeling how wet she was from the lube that the doctor used during the bimanual. This was April of 2007 and we broke up a few months later after we graduated from high school. We did play around with some related toys and stuff, and sometimes she whispered in my ear about the appointment while we were fooling around.
From there I've had a few girlfriends but none that I've told about this, until 2009. In October I met a girl while at work and got her phone number. We ended up really hitting it off and she's drop dead gorgeous - she looks Nordic, 5'7", 124lbs, very fair skin, blue eyes, natural blond - and that's the girl I'm with today, three and a half years later. I don't remember exactly when I told her about my fetish and when she told me about hers but it was fairly early on. When we met we started having sex a few months later, and it'd been a while for her and she'd only had one partner before that. Well, this girl really gets into it with her hips and she bruised something inside of her (bruised me up really well too on my pubic area) and we couldn't have sex. Her groin was in a good amount of pain and we were worried something might have "broken" or something so we made an appointment for the next morning at the student health center for her to get checked out. I asked if I could come with her and she said yes! So we went and I waited with her and then when they called her back she asked the nurse or assistant or whoever if I could come with her and she was told no. I had to stay in the waiting room ): So I did.
She still told me everything, all that happened was that she had to remove her bottoms and the doctor took a swab and did an internal exam, although no bimanual, only took a swab or something. Apparently it was enough to stretch her out well enough to prove evident that all that was wrong was a little bruising and/or tenseness because we had sex when we get back to my apartment and it wasn't painful for her anymore. She did mention there were no gowns in the room, they'd forgotten to put one out so she sat on the table in her t shirt completely bottomless until the doctor came in realized it and gave her a sheet to put over her lap. The doctor was a stern older Asian lady.
She went back twice more to the student health center for exams and the first time they did the full exam, but she had her top on still and the (female) NP pulled her t shirt down and her bra down to do the breast exam, the second time she got a sheet and a paper vest. Unfortunately because of the first time I tried going with her we didn't even try to go in together again at the student health center. But she's since graduated and found a GP that'll take care of her needs. My girlfriend is somewhat of a hippy/feminist type and wanted a female GP or NP. Her new one is a very pretty African American woman.
So anyways, she found one near us (actually I found it for her because she's not from here and couldn't figure out her insurance website's search engine), and last year I got to with her finally! Unfortunately her doctor said that she didn't have to get a full female exam and that this year she would get one. She still got an Rx for her birth control and had some calluses on one of her feet looked at, just normal stuff. She said something about it being because they're changing the standards to be every three years instead of every year, and it seems they're less strict than the student center - my girlfriend didn't like it over there because they were just sort of weird, too cold I guess. Her new place is warmer.
This year she has to have the full exam! Anyways so she's going to schedule that for next month or for June. I'm very excited, can't wait to be in there when she's being examined - last year the rush going down the hallway with her to the room when we thought she was getting an exam was intense. I haven't had a physical in a few years either and I need a doctor so I might also see if I can schedule with her to get examined, that might add even a little bit more excitement, and I could just get it taken care of then instead of getting it all taken care of another time. It'd be cool for her to be in the room too, seeing me get examined before I get to see her examined. Either way, I still get to go and I can't wait! Well, so there are my experiences with this and how I've kind of come into it. We play with a speculum (a medium sized metal one) sometimes and stuff now and seeing one really used on her is something I can’t wait to see, along with the all of the other parts of the female exam.