We all get carried away with a toy , sometimes I wonder how much is too much?I like to hike bike and work outdoors I wonder if this stretching of sphincter and rectum will lead to problems. My new toy is 13 in x 2.75 doc Johnson hung, was way bigger than what I expected. With some work I got it in but was stretched to my limit. To my surprise I still slid more than half in. After wards my ass was just a bit looser than I would want. I iced it and use prep H followed later with aloe. I use zinc oxide after B M. This seems to work pretty good.Any other ideas? I do like this toy, but it may just be to big.