What do you look at first...?

You would be surprised what you can see through clothing / https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFplHgMDd0I

Ah, a hot weather climate seems to be a prerequisite ... beaches, very short shorts ... that is not for the likes of where I live. (:

Good one Susie! I'd forgotten about that one. Thanks for reminding me. The Beach Boys are spinning in their graves.

Sorry, the first thing I see is that the woman is thin as spaghetti. Then I see her butt. :-)

Among other lovely things like breasts and faces and rears and legs, I have a specialized shoe kink, so I immediately look to see if I can enjoy watching a woman's legs disappearing into her sexy shoes or see her pants or jeans breaking over them.

Her eyes and her ass 😃

I first look at her face, especially her eyes and teeth, I like if she has a nice smile.

If I should see her from behind, I will first look at her butt 😃

I've been so pious and self righteous. Of course I look at her okole (ass). Who am I pretending to be? Good lord. I also look at her crotch.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAhahahaha ah. , okole, haven't heard that years! Ok. I will go sit down now. LadyM

Oh, whole body, if I like that, face, crotch, teeth (smile) eyes, from behind, the butt. I am very particular about legs, the legs have to be right. Oh and hands.

First thing I look at on a man is his face , then right to his eyes , I think eyes can tell alot about someone . I dont know if I am im the minority on this one but I have a thing for shoulders, nice strong shoulders , then it would be hands . For some reason I find a guy with small hands a turn off . Then its the way a man carries himself , I love a man to have a strong but relaxed presence . Oh my there are sooo many yummy things to look at I could go on and on . Lol ! Oh can not forget the butt !!!! ?

I like a man's eyes, smile, shoulders, chest, his arms. He must have a nice bum as well.

My husband scored well on all of it.

If a women is facing me I will look at her eyes first then her smile. I'm not a boob man so next would be her legs. From the rear--my eyes will go directly to the butt, then her hair.

Grooming eyes and smile

Her body figure, then her body language. Body language can tell you alot.

Eyes, feet, boobs and see if she has muffin tops or love handles.

I love a nice full set of hips and the way the lady carries herself....but I'm up quickly to see what she has to go with it as far as face and breasts

I'd like to appear to be a person with class and say I look first to her eyes and smile; but, that would be a lie. First look is at her boobs. It always had been and likely always will be. After boobs, it's the rest of the package in any random order depending upon what appears to be the most intriguing feature she has. Eyes, legs, face, ass, hair, smile - they're all important. A red head with nice boobs always get my attention which must be why I'm married to a read head with big boobs.

I've always tended to notice the whole body. If I like her body shape, I tend to notice legs first before anything else. My wife has an athletic body type overall, and I certainly noticed.

I prefer long hairstyles.

Facially I've always liked to detect intelligence and humour in the eyes, and a mouth that suggests a smile or a laugh isn't far away.

Sense of humour, they need it to be with me, followed by boobs.

Her ass i like it boooooooooooom

What about.... Women, what do you look at first when you see a woman ? Eyes first then lips and then feet.

I look at the ass first last and in between

I look at a man's hair -- or lack thereof -- and face, then physique. Tush sometimes. Package sometimes, if a bulge is visible. Hands.

In a woman, I look at shoes, purse, hair, figure, nails. Of course, face and makeup. By "figure" I mean generally her waist and hips and whether her clothing fits well.

In both men and women, I like smiling eyes and a nice smiley mouth. Decent teeth.

Is anyone compiling a "shallowness" index? I would score high.

If she is facing me, I look at a woman's face and see how she carries herself. If she has her back turned to me, I look at her legs and backside. If I see her from the side, it is usually her legs that get the first glance. For some reason, the breasts are one of the last things I look at, perhaps because the are not always well-defined in her clothing.

I wouldn't have guessed that ladies look at a man's hands as important.. I always keep my nails short and clean. Clean hands

I wouldn't have guessed that ladies look at a man's hands as important.. I always keep my nails short and clean. Clean hands

@jimmyt44, I also look at his eyebrows, ears for any wild hairs, and how well he takes care of his general grooming. My husband works a lot with machinery, and I see that his hands do get cracked and calloused just because of what he does. He does try to keep his fingernails clean, and where I live, clean fingernails during working hours is almost impossible.

I also see how well his clothes fit, if they have seen the washing machine anytime that week, and how many holes there are. That's during working hours.

When it is after hours, I look to see how neatly he is dressed, hair combed, teeth brushed, and how he smells. Does he smell like an ashtray? And yes, does he have a nice "tush", I like a guy who is built more like a carrot than a watermelon, and also his posture. Does he slouch or does he stand straight and tall.

Lila

Depends on proximity.

Close up - face

At a distance - if legs are exposed, legs. If not, overall shape of body

Within first moments, i'll take notice of color and texture look of hair, skin, & eyes. If breasts are obvious based on size and how she is dressed, i will notice them. If she is dressed in a way that doesn't reveal much detail about them, then i won't notice them.

If i see her back side, i will take notice of the size and shape of her ass.

First thing I notice is how he carries himself.

Standing straight with confidence. Then his chest which includes belly. I do like to see a fit man 😃

amber

Face, hair, attitude, sneakers.

Eric

I look for nice kind eyes., windows of the soul and all that.

Peace, Caz

I look at a man's face to try to determine what type of person he is

Hair first - colors not seen in nature = no need to look at the rest of it.

Clothes - baggy, pajama pants, flip flops = ignore entirely

Face - permanent resting bitch face (especially with problem glasses) = deal killer

Then make-up, cleavage, legs and butt for her age. Waist to hip ratio, spare tire size, general curviness and sex appeal.

Tattoos anywhere are a non-starter, insta-Zero score.