No Climax with HFO's

Hi, i am pretty new to estim, i have a tens unit and when i have a hands free orgasm, i never quite climax... i get closer and closer, and eventually my orgasm just stops and the rest of my cum comes out. I had always heard HFO's were intense but i do not see the appeal, i have to have some sort of stroke going on with a finger ( since using a hand winds up burning me ) in order to get off. does anyone else have a similar view or issue?

The solution to the problem getting burned when using your hand is to put on a non-conductive glove. This is good safe practice when ever you are stimming and making adjustments to electrode placements.

As to the less than intense orgasm, that's the way it was for me when using a TENS. It was a way to relieve the seminal presssure but not really all that satisfying as in a rollicking good romp between the sheets.

I got a TENS because my back went out and a good romp was impossible. Pain meds made hand jobs and blow jobs very difficult for my wife. A little conversation and experimentation resulted in a solution. It wasn't the most satifying but it got the job done.

I also an a newbie to electrostim. I have the same problem with one more added. I don't climax or ejaculate, I usually urinate even though I urinate before hand. My bladder seem to get more enjoyment than I do. Is this a placement problem or a power, wave length, or frequency problem or all the above?