Clit size

Numpie, sounds like you have nothing to worry about. Let people go down on you if they want. variety is the spice of life.

I have had one partner comment that i have the bigegst clit he has ever seen - it doesn't worry me as it works just fine - in fact i am thinking of getting my hood pierced 😃

I think there is far too much concern with size, shape, color, appearance etc. All that maters is how it works and what you do with what you have and if it gives you and your partner pleasure.

Always wondered if clit and nipple size were related in any way? A friend of mine has sand dollar nipples and a clit that is very flat, almost non-existant.

Sweetheart you are so wrong. There are always people trying to establish the perfect... whatever. There is no such thing. Vulvas are all unique and ALL beautiful including yours. Please try to learn to accept yourself as you are and anyone who matters will do the same.

As far as the size of the clitoris (which is the topic here--although you'd hardly know it) that doesn't matter either. In my experience women with the tinyest glans are often the most sensitive and responsive.

Jackie

Clit is a part of your body as the nose or the penis. in my career as playdoc i nver payed attention to the size but to the reaction of this wonderful female jewel

As long as I can find it with my finger or tongue, it's the right size!

Size and coloration don't mean much to me as long as the woman gets excited and satisfied from oral or manual stimulation

This URL along with it's U-Tube video might prove useful to many on this site:

http://www.realself.com/question/What-is-clitoral-hood-reduction-Trimming-the-skin-over-the-clitoris

Lol geez i thought it was only men who were self concious about their 'size'

To me all clits are beautiful, and the ones I have had have been sensitive enough for them and for me. Big or small they are all wonderful at the tip of my tongue

Silver_Lining I do not think most women think about the size of their clitoris, at least not the way men think about the size of their penis. Most women are more concerned about the size of their breasts. I guess breast envy is the same as penis envy. I have seen pictures of women's vagina's where the labia seemed unusually large, or misshaped, that might be considered are area of concern. I think it probably depends on who is going to see it. As long as you are getting pleasure, who cares what size it is?

A play-doc I know had the perfect response to my question regarding clitoris size, mine to be specific. He said, "Well in my experience, it's about average. But on you darling, it's just perfection." He missed his calling as a diplomat!

Ladydoc

LD what a perfect thing to say 😃 Indeed I do not think a lot of us give a thought to its size.

There are different types of vulvas. Its seems like women (such as myself) that have larger inner labia, tend to have a larger clitoris, while those that have the larger outer labia tend to have smaller ones. Generalizing of course.

Hey if your clitoris is fully functional, be proud! Some have less

Ply1020

I know I'm going to stir something up when I say this, and I really mean no offense, but I find your response a little strange considering that your profile has you listed as a male.

As I review most of the preceeding posts, I don't think anyone was complaining about the functionality of their clitoris. I know I wasn't. We were commmenting about size in response to the original poster's question. Perhaps women have a similar issue regarding the size of their external genitalia just as most men seem to, we just don't discuss it because for the most part, it remains hidden.

Anyone else care to weigh in on the subject?

Best,

LadyDoc

Most women that I have met are conscious of the appearance of their vulva. It comes as no surprise to me that the same women who have issues with other body parts--nose, eyes, chin, tummy, breasts-- also have concerns about their vulva. I can't say that I've ever encountered another woman who had specific issues with the size of her clitoris, but I think it's more about whether you're comfortable with, and accept, your body or not.

There are some things you can change on your own and if you're worried about them then you probably should.

If your willing to go under the knife you can change anything you want (not necessarily for the better e.g. the late Michael Jackson).

Back to the clitoris issue; the most responsive woman that I have ever known had one of the smallest clitoris'. It was so small that it was hard to visualize at all (but I could feel it pretty readily). For those who say size and sensitivity are related--that is not my experience.

Jackie

I totally agree with you, Jackie. It's not about the size, same as with penises. My clitoris for example and to be quite honest here, needs plenty of care, before it swells or the like. And it has a normal size, I think, though I never measured it. Either you have a big or small or normal clit, take care of it and be gentle to it. :-)

Greets Nicci

Most women who are concerned about the size of their clitoris think it is too big and is unsightly. Most men love a larger clitoris. It this one of those Mars and Venus things? I think not; it is simply failure to communicate. Dear wife is thrilled now that we have been working on enlarging her clit by application of testosterone. She understands my enjoyment of her enhanced size and sensitivity. He organ was so tiny and well hidden by her hood that it created sensitivity issues which we have most assuredly corrected.

Speed

If its big you are lucky, mine is small and I use a pump, it is nice though 😁

All vulvas and clits are different, but all are really wonderful and it is always a privilage to be allowed to examin them.

I have been told my clit is generouse size but its normal size as far as i know . but it does feel good being played with

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Always a privilige mab - never a chore! - big or small - love them all!

They are just like dicks, in all sizes, and all can be sexy and fun in there own right.

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Most women who are concerned about the size of their clitoris think it is too big and is unsightly. Most men love a larger clitoris. It this one of those Mars and Venus things? I think not; it is simply failure to communicate. Dear wife is thrilled now that we have been working on enlarging her clit by application of testosterone. She understands my enjoyment of her enhanced size and sensitivity. He organ was so tiny and well hidden by her hood that it created sensitivity issues which we have most assuredly corrected.

Speed

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I think this clit size thing is silly. The sensitivity is determined by the innervation of the area. The nerve number and distribution of an antomical region is the most similar anatomic characeristic among individuals in a species. When the clitoris is small, the nerves are just more packed together without a lot of connective tissue giving it the larger appearance. All the man has to do is know where it is. The woman can help the man by communicating where it is. In women with a superficially placed, small clitoris, you need to be very gentle when stimulating it or pain will result. If it is more deeply set, you can really rub the area pretty hard. That is one of the reasons why what one woman likes, another will hate.

Along a similar note, large and small breasts have a fairly similar amount of glandular tissue/secretory acini. The larger factor governing breast size is the amount FAT TISSUE between mammary lobules. So remember guys, when you see a pair of lovely tits, it is mostly the FAT you are admiring.

I love to look at large clits....i think its so exciting. I wish mine was a little larger....but i love to have it spread wide open and buzzed with a vibe.

I have noticed that my clit does stand out about 1.5 cms when i am extremely turned on. it pokes nicely out of its hood. it doesn't do this all the time. It definitely does when I am going to the obgyn. I make sure it is well shaved before i go so it will be more noticeble. she has always tweeked it whether by accident or on purpose. I know she knows it is a huge turn on because of how wet i get. i should ask her about the size, maybe it will lead to a good discussion.

A real doc was once looking for mine saying it was somehow hidden although it is not at all that small. I reckon it was just an excuse really and I didn't mind it a bit as he was very handsome and gentle 😄

For the record, mine is 1.1cm (almost 1/2 inch) thick fully erect... but, as we know, sensitivity varies. I'm very happy with it! 😘

Quoting Rennie:

For the record, mine is 1.1cm (almost 1/2 inch) thick fully erect... but, as we know, sensitivity varies. I'm very happy with it! 😘

That is a very impressive size, one that I have only seen on one woman without a program of enhancement.

For the record, 8 months after we ended the application of testosterone to dear wife's clit, it is now 6 mm. wide when erect. This is an impressive permanent gain as her pre-enhancement size was less than 1mm. We are going to start a new course of the testosterone applications through the summer for two reasons. First, we want to see if she gets any more permanent gain from another series. Second, because it is very enjoyable for both of us.

Speed

I've been away from the site for a while.

It's sad when you're semi retired and can't find time for all of your amusements.

I just read switchablesusies entry from earlier this year and my advise is look up everything she's ever posted and read it... you'll learn a lot!

Thanks Susie,

Jackie