Subtle Public Humiliation

Wet-girl, Sounds like a great start to the evening. I know you are often looking for more of this sort of treatment. I hope he continues to explore your desires.

Can you tell us more from that evening? Sore cheeks on the bar stool? Naughty flashes from your short skirt? What did you drink? Did you end up drinking more than you should have?

Also, how did you let him know how much you appreciated the spankings? Did you thank him at that moment? Did you tell him what he did to you made your pussy extra wet? Did you tell him it was a lovely evening and you want to do it again some time soon? Did you promise to never leave the house again with wet hair, smiling and knowing that you absolutely will?

My wife and I frequent the local casino for dinner occasionally, and have a sit down dinner at the cafe.

When she orders for me she uses the phrase "my little baby will have". I'm an AB/DL

Any references to penis size and sexual prowess in public are humiliating for some men. "Do you want me to play with your little guy tonight?" is a subtle one.

I once took a girlfriend to the old style porn cubicle place were you could look at the film selection on a wall before going to the booth. Every straight man in the place was looking at her. She looked a film box cover behind the glass and said "I'd love to have a man with a cock like that."

The implication (if I were overly sensitive) is that I didn't measure up!

At a restaurant, make your sub tell the waiter that she's going to get a spanking for being naughty when she gets home.

My wife sometimes corrects me in public just like her child.she very dominate have 830 or 900 bedtime,she being a lot younger rules the rooster.

On many occasions when the wife is shopping for panties she buys the next size up and when a sharp sales lady catches this and asks her what size did she need as she has two different sizes, My wife without batting a eye looks directly at the sales lady with me at her side and says that the larger size is for my husband to sleep in tonight, don't you think he has the body for such a tiny string bikini like this while holding it up for all to see, She is tiny and very dominant, I've been a bodybuilder for many years and think it's shocking for most people seeing her total control over a guy full of muscle ,it's what creates the magic between us.

VintageE

One mistress that I know at times demands the panties for her partner for the evening. It's like at a restaurant she will lean over and say.. "I think you need to go pee.. and when you are finished be prepared to hand me your panties." And I've seen females rise and go off to the restroom and return with panties in hand. I think I would like that kind of power from time to time.. Yes I know.. you have to earn that kind of respect.

An emate I was with once challenged each other to some public humiliation play.

As a result of the challenge, we both agreed that we would each write down what we wanted the other to do. We would then exchange the scenarios and each of us would be obligated to proceed. The public area was agreed to be a large local mall where we would enter the mall at one end and then walk all the way to the other end and then back again.

She wrote that she would give me a 2 quart soap suds enema using a double balloon nozzle and then when filled she would disconnect the double balloon nozzle from the enema bag. She would dress me in sweats with no waist tie cord. We would then drive to the mall and then walk through the mall retaining the enema and feeling the inflators bumping around in the legs of my sweats. I would be allowed to expel the enema only after we returned to the hotel we were staying at.

I wrote that she was to go to the local Wal-Mart with me in tow. She would wear normal street clothes with no bra and a pair of “boyshort” panties that she liked under a pair of sweats. Before leaving for the store I would install remote control vibrators in her rectum and her vagina. We would then go to the store and select several pairs of Ultra-tight fitting Spandex Shorts, that I was sure would produce a pronounced camel toe when worn without underwear, and a Shear tight fitting blouse that display her nipples quite clearly. She would then try on various combinations until I was satisfied with the selection. When we returned to the hotel from the store I would exchange the vibrator in her bottom and for a butt plug with a flange that spread her cheeks while in place. And she would put on the shorts and top with no undergarments.

After we had each read each other’s prescriptions the was some back peddling but after a bit of re-negotiation it was agreed that in order to keep the length of the embarrassing fitting room play, that I would be given an enema and diapered in a disposable diaper with no butt plugs before going to Wal-Mart. Then when I returned I would be allowed to expel the enema. Once the enema was expelled the double balloon nozzle would be administered and we would head to the mall as prescribed.

She looked amazing in the tight shorts and top. Indeed there was an unmistakable camel toe that was bound to attract attention. When she turned around, it would have been obvious to anyone who had ever seen a butt plug what she had in her bottom.

Her negotiation for the enema and diaper for me at Wal-Mart did in fact keep that trip from going too long, but in spite of my agony I did manage to make her change 7 or 8 times with her boy shorts hanging out each time as I wanted to get just the right combination. I finally settled on light gray shorts with a white top. I was sure that the shorts would display any moisture that might develop in her camel toe.

The second enema, (which I contend she exceeded he prescription or I would have negotiated harder on my side) was made with a heavy dose of Peppermint Castile Soap (PCS) which had me in nearly continuous agony from administration to expulsion.

We a walked (I couldn’t hurry too much) thru the mall together. In retaliation for the PCS, I sued the remote to stimulator her so much that by the time that we got to the other end of the mall she was already showing wetness that made it appear that she had wet herself attracting still more attention. When we finally go to the door of the Mall we were both desperate to get to the car and were laughing hysterically. When we finally got back to the hotel she hit every floor button delaying the elevator’s arrival still more.

We never played that game again but both agreed that it was a wonderful memorable event.

Cheers,

Jag

We were in Wal-mart late one night and about 5 older ladies were stocking shelves in the isles around us. My wife slapped me loudly across my face (that must have left her hand print on my cheek) and said "I told you not to grab my cheeks, we're leaving, when I get you home you'll be singing a different tune over my knee, then it'll be my turn to grab your naked cheeks". As we walk out of the isle and past them, they're all smiling and can see her hand print as I turn beet red walking by trying not to make eye contact with them, as my wife is dragging me by my ear.

The only thing that is close to public humiliation for me is when my partner has a few times made me wear a diaper under a pair of jeans without plastic panties covering them when we go shopping. When I have to go pee-pee she will not let me use the ladies room so I have to hold it hopefully until we get home. There have been a few times when I did not make it which resulted in a bare bottom spanking.

I had ex-wife #2 who would have gladly done this but we didn't get around to it before we divorced. I'd always wanted to have her be Domme some evening and force me to dress in my latex catsuit, athletic socks and high top or extra-high sneakers at home before going out. Then she'd add a good size butt plug we knew I could wear for a long while, or else a rectal balloon catheter. Just before leaving, I'd have to put on regular hooded sweats, covering over the rubber suit and plug. She'd be dressed in sweats like me or jeans and sneakers so we'd look as if we were shopping or coming from the gym.

Then we'd go out for dinner at a casual restaurant where I'd have to sit with her and eat as I if I was dressed normally but with only the two of us knowing I was trapped in a full rubber suit all evening with a plug filling my bottom. If she had used the balloon on me, she could enjoy gradually pumping me up and down during the evening. Or she could even bring other plugs and make me put in larger plugs as we were eating dinner. The whole time we were out she'd be talking very quietly in my ear and frequently reminding me what she was making me endure, how long it would go, and how much she enjoyed watching me squirm and be (privately) humiliated for her pleasure in public. (It's also a greatly arousing idea to have her threaten me with forcing me to do all this while holding an enema while out eating, but probably not practical!)

If we did this a few times and it went well, we could extend it to shopping plus dinner or dinner followed by a movie. Knowing my ex and that we both loved switching and rubber and anal games, I'm sure she would have found doing this to me to be a delightful evening, followed of course by more D/s and eventual sexual relief at home after dinner. However, at home she might very likely make me fuck or oral her to orgasm(s) and then lock me into my suit (and add a hood and gloves) to make me stay plugged, still in rubber and sneakers all night with her. What a nice kinky mind she had.

Eric

My girlfriend will stick a tampon up my butt and have the string hanging outside my pants if possible. Occasionally pulling on it or doing things to make it show even more.

My girlfriend will stick a tampon up my butt and have the string hanging outside my pants if possible. Occasionally pulling on it or doing things to make it show even more.

I always thought shoving a dry tampon into a damp space like anus/rectum would be pretty bloody uncomfortable going in, but no? Any better/wetter coming out? A standard tampon string is long enough to hang out your pants? Or do you just mean underpants/briefs?

Eric

@Tk023 I have a special homemade butt plug on a string, made it from a plastic file handle, added the string and it fits in so nice, I can wear it out if I want and as I get in and out of my truck it hits my prostate just right. No one knows its there except me. There should be a pic of it on my profile...

I wear panties everyday, and sometimes when out with my wife shopping, she will, when we are standing in line, or similar, pull the waist above my pants and comment on the pretty color, or lace.

I’ve always wanted to have a dom require that I am plugged and want to experience bathroom control for an extended period of time. Since I’ve recently discovered my real self I feel like I can actually narrow down my real & deepest sexual desires. I’m moving to a bigger city soon too and hopefully I can find honest happiness.

I’ve always wanted to have a dom require that I am plugged and want to experience bathroom control for an extended period of time. Since I’ve recently discovered my real self I feel like I can actually narrow down my real & deepest sexual desires. I’m moving to a bigger city soon too and hopefully I can find honest happiness.

RoarLiana,

What do you mean by bathroom control exactly? Good luck with your moving.

BTW, where did you get your screen name?

Thanks,

Eric

I wish I had dominant that require wearing a collar, nipple clamps, large but plug and a chastity device with a urethral insert. And be required to allow others to see and touch. Obviously restrained so as to allow even more control.

I once had a friend who, because of disease, needed to wear a mask in public. She said that she got a lot of stares and comments because of it. But, because it was medically necessary, she was kind of used to it. But that could be used in public humiliation, I guess, for somebody of more normative health, who didn't need to be masked in public.

A lot of my bottom wiring is wired into a Tops showing His power, 'ownership', control through penetrating me. How He penetrates me can be in so many different ways, and doing so in public with the fear of being exposed can be a subtle form of humiliation for me.

Affection makes me very open and vulnerable. Waking me up with a loving enema would get me in an open vulnerable place. Then putting a diaper on me and having me get dressed and then taking me out for a walk or to the store still full and unsure if the diaper will protect me. He could exercise friendly control and making it so i had to use the diaper.

i can imagine a similar scenario with a long slink i just got. Again, i wake up to Him inserting it, encouraging and praising how i am taking it makes me open up, loving to please Him. Then, same thing, He gets me dressed in clothes of His choice and takes me out filled with the slink... that i associate with being filled with Him. Maybe even takes me out for breakfast.

My Mom caught me wearing her panties when I was 14. She told me it was ok , she was not punishing me for wearing panties, I'm free to do that. But she said Iwas being punished for taking hers , invading her privacy. I was spanked. But the next day she took me to a department store at a mall, brought me to the langerie dept, and made me pick out and buy 5 pairs of panties. She would comment as I was picking thm out, NOT ENOUGH LACE ON THAT , THE COLORS ARE NOT BRIGHT ENOUGH ON THOES , YOU WOULD LOOK BETTER IN BIKINIS.. all this in ear shot of ladies and girls shopping. There were laughs gigglres and looks as I picked out my panties. I had to stand in line with the same people to pay for them , that were laughing and giggling. .

She would comment as I was picking thm out, .... all this in ear shot of ladies and girls shopping. There were laughs gigglres and looks as I picked out my panties. I had to stand in line with the same people to pay for them , that were laughing and giggling. .

And did you end up enjoying this, not all that subtle, kind of public humiliation? Did you repeat the experience again? I'd guess that for a first time it would have been something of an ordeal, more fun to recall than to experience. But perhaps it became an acquired taste?

My Mom caught me wearing her panties when I was 14. She told me it was ok , she was not punishing me for wearing panties, I'm free to do that. But she said Iwas being punished for taking hers , invading her privacy. I was spanked. But the next day she took me to a department store at a mall, brought me to the langerie dept, and made me pick out and buy 5 pairs of panties. She would comment as I was picking thm out, NOT ENOUGH LACE ON THAT , THE COLORS ARE NOT BRIGHT ENOUGH ON THOES , YOU WOULD LOOK BETTER IN BIKINIS.. all this in ear shot of ladies and girls shopping. There were laughs gigglres and looks as I picked out my panties. I had to stand in line with the same people to pay for them , that were laughing and giggling. .

Did you enjoy and want to do that??? At the age of 14 I would have told my mother to fuck off if she tried to humiliate me in public like that.

For me, some of the most powerful forms of Dominant humiliation are subtle.

If we're going out and a Guy suggests or gives me something to wear. Manipulating and using my desire to please by choosing what i wear, especially if He shows a sort of detached interest, almost like it's an afterthought on His end, that leaves me wanting to comply but not being sure if it pleases Him. Choosing something scary or awkward, like lace panties under. Tight fitting sweats that are soft and maybe a little fem, but sort of revealing, a tight t shirt that shows my nipples.

In public, different kinds of touch and attitude can subtly convey Dominance, especially between two guys. A pat on the head or behind with a pet type of affirmation like: "good boy," can be very powerful because it can simultaneously evoke embarrassment and adoration (in me).

Another subtle form of humiliation could be He has me wear something tight that shows my penis, but then He has me wear something under that contains or makes my penis look very small, so everyone can see this bulge, but it's very small. On the flip side, there are underwear that pad the behind and make the butt more shapely and pronounced, combining the two would emphasize the behind and minimize the penis. To me it would be emasculating and embarrassing.

Going to a restaurant and having the Dom/Domme order all the food..... keeping conversation not quite loud enough for others to grasp everything then when the meal is over the Dominant would hand you your credit card to pay for the meal instructing you to make her you tip nicely and when the card is returned to you ,you hand it back to the Dominant .

Knowing I like "granny panties" my gal would hold up various pairs and ask, "are these what you like?" Even more so was with a girdle purchase. Oh, and then when the sales gal said told her, "you don't need that", my gal said, "my husband likes them"...

Markiee LOVE IT! Should happen to ME!

We have been in Wal-mart a time or two when my wife will say to me "we're leaving now. Just wait till I get you home, you'll be singing a different tune and eating dinner standing up". She usually waits until 2 or 3 women are within ear shot of her in an isle or at the resister as they look at me and I turn red with embarrassment. Other couples must be doing the same thing as, on two different occasions I heard similar things. The first time, I was in a grocery store and around the corner came a young couple, she was very pregnant hand he was a small mousey young man, when she said to him "don't think your too old for a spanking" and he looked down and blushed. The second was at Wal-mart and a couple in their 30s and looking at fireplace tools when she took the long handled shovel in her hand and was slapping it against her palm as she looked at her husband or boyfriend as I came around the corner and we maid eye contact and she smiled at me as I looked down at the shovel in her hands and tapped it again as I turned red and she smiled again as if she knew

I did see / hear a woman, in a grocery store, threatening her husband with a spanking! I was so JEALOUS! I did follow them, to see if there would be more to it, OR even thinking SHE would threaten ME with a spanking for not minding my own business! My wife has threatened to spank me on the side of thee road, sometimes when hearing this I start sucking my thumb ( bad move she gets even madder). So far she has not, really wish she would!

Also we were out to dinner with another couple and I was disagreeing with my wife, when the other husband whispered in my ear " She will give you a spanking when you get home"! Another spanking that I should have gotten but sadly did not happen!

I liked my mate to cum in a restaurant or wherever I decided it. It's nice to be able to drag the edging out for a few days, but I'm not a fan of chastity ... I liked it when others saw that he had a hard-on and was horny. I liked that he couldn't sit still, that everything was too tight until I let him open his jeans and that he had to be silent when I decided to touch him. Sometimes I got up and wanted to leave ... it's not easy to repack everything. It was beautiful ... I liked the face with the red cheeks. He loved it. He liked the dirty talk, we both did.