Reasons to wear onesie to bed. Wife?

I recently ordered a onesie and I'm nervous to wear it around the wife though. She is accepting about me wearing and doesn't mind me wearing to bed a few nights a week. We have a kid on the and I feel she might think it's really weird with me wearing an adult onesie. I always wear a t-shirt and either pajama pants or shorts to bed. So it would only be replacing my t-shirt. I'm thinking of saying that with the onesie i can wear while other guests are staying over and not chance having them see my diaper if i have to tend to the baby in the middle of the night? Am i making a bigger deal about this than it really is or should I keep the onesie hidden?

Well I am not an adult baby, but I do wear a onesie that happens to be fleece, black and covered with Pittsburgh Steelers emblems on it. It zips about half way down the leg and the legs go to my ankles. So it's more like a sleeper without feet. Sexy right? Hehehe, NOT. But around the husband the less sexy the better. Now with Doc, it's naked all the way. Sexy right? Absolutely.

I know this doesn't help you, but I think you are making a bigger deal about it than you need to. Say something like, this will be great because it won't ride up my back at night. We women hate that when our nighties do that or our night shirts. She will totally get it. Just say it casually. Trust me on this. You will be okay.

Mashie

I wear a onesie regularly with diapers over the plastic pants, it really holds them up in place night and day. It has to be snug enough. To mask it if necessary, I wear PJ bottoms (polo style) over it and the onesie looks like a tee-shirt. As Naughty Elf says, it helps keep us warm here in the great white north in the winter. This combination adds just a bit more comfort and security. Feels good!

Great way to keep your diapers in the correct place over night.

Onesies are great! They keep everything in place.

I agree onesies are great

I can never tell when onesie is being used as a name for those footed/non sleepers or the baby shirts that button between the legs. I a footed sleeper to bed when ever it's not hot. I love wearing my footed sleeper to bed. Now if it was one of those shirts that buttons/snaps between the legs. I don't see a reason not to wear it to bed every night.

I ve got a white and yellow onesie I wear to bed, it's got feet and it's got poppers all down the belly and under my butt.

It's so comfy!!

Love

Abi x

Onesie are the best thing they hold your diaper up. If you are worried about someone seeing your diaper out the top of your pants. I personally wear one every day to work. In the real world nothing is worse than a saggy diaper as it fill up. Leaks happen then.

Mashie, where did you get the fleece onesie!

Onsie really make the full diaper experience great. They really feel comfortable

I've worn a onesie (diaper shirt) everyday for over fifteen years. It not only keeps my diapers relatively secret, it also holds my diaper close to my torso. The close fit helps to distribute the wetness to more areas of the diaper. Without a onesie, my diaper sags between my thighs as it gets wet and heavy. The bulging, sagging diaper then chafes my thighs. The chafing is painful and can lead to diaper rash.

A well-made onesie lasts me about two years-roughly 100 washings.

I've worn a onesie to doctor appointments, hospital appointments, YMCA locker rooms and other semi-public places. Only once did someone take serious note of what I was wearing and ask me why I wore it. That lead to an interesting opportunity to help someone understand how prevalent incontinence is and the various ways incontinent people cope with staying socially continent. Onesies may look life a baby garment, but they are a great way for an adult to cope with the practical problems of wearing a diaper.

I can never tell when onesie is being used as a name for those footed/non sleepers or the baby shirts that button between the legs. I a footed sleeper to bed when ever it's not hot. I love wearing my footed sleeper to bed. Now if it was one of those shirts that buttons/snaps between the legs. I don't see a reason not to wear it to bed every night.

Babyboy raises the exact same question I had: Onesie being a diaper shirt, or a footed sleeper? The word seems to mean both, and can leave everyone a bit unsure of what was meant. Personally, I think both are great, but a footed pajama is easier to explain to some people than a diaper shirt.

I think we should stop using onesie interchangeably and say pajama or diaper shirt, for clarity's sake.

Whichever you meant, though, I wish you many happy diapered days!

When I said a footed pajama is easier to explain, what I meant was that it would be easier for another adult to accept you wearing that versus having a visitor see you in a diaper shirt.

I do love footed pajamas, and they do go a long way in hiding a diaper, though a very thick diaper's outline will show if your pajama is tight, or when you bend over etc...

If you mean footed pyjamas, I'm pretty sure that's just normal bedwear and she'll accept you as is!

Onesies are great. To be honest, you just need to be open with her. Listen to her thoughts and concerns and be realistic. More often than not I am thrilled to find my fiancé is open to a lot.

While I like onesies, I prefer a short T shirt that fully leaves my diaper exposed.

I have three--a white one, a pink one and one with a pink-themed sissy baby pattern. I don't usually wear them to bed, though, because I typically sleep with no clothes on (or, if I go to bed diapered, I only wear my diapers and plastic pants). I do like wearing them over my diapers around the house when the situation allows it. My wife is just fine with me doing this and will sometimes even help me put them on (she pulls it down and snaps the crotch snaps for me).

But I need to see if she can get out the sewing machine and take them up a bit. When I ordered them I wasn't exactly sure which size to get, also I'm kind of short and stocky, so, they fit me well from the shoulders down to the waist, but they're a couple of inches too long and because of that my diapers slip down a bit too low.

I love wearing a onsie to bed. I don't wear them often, but do at times.

Adding my vote to those that are confused by the two different meanings to a onesie. I thought the OP was referring to a "diaper shirt", or what I was about to call errantly a "baggy leotard" (that's what they look like to me.

I'm not AB/DL, etc. I do like the look of a young woman in footed pajamas. I'm not into wearing those or the diapershirt kind of onesie. So, my eventual wife will never need to worry about that kind of thing.

I've also heard "onesie" for those ones WITHOUT feet that do have a hood and usually some ornamental stuff to make the whole thing look like a cartoon animal. In Japan, those are called "kigurumi", I think. I think those are cute for a girl to wear about town, but they seem invariably too thick to wear comfortably to bed.

I have wore a onsie in the past. I have wore the plain ones while out in public so my diaper is not visible over my pants or shorts.

I have also wore the baby print ones at home. I love the onsies and it does bring out the baby in you when having someone check and change your diaper.

Id say go for it - it really is just a tshirt that fastens up underneath and your doing no one any harm . and if you have people over you can always pull on some shorts

I think wearing a onesie to bed is probably wise. Onesies are actually my summer pyjamas.

Onesies (with legs and arms) are the only pyjamas I own for discretion reasons. Onesies (without legs) are most of my t-shirts and undershirts.

I love wearing my onsie to bed. It helps keep my diaper saging during the night. Plus my wife loves seeing me in one.

A long-running thread! And interesting.

Having never worn a onesie to bed I've never considered reasons to do so. But the thread got me thinking about it. I can think of two reasons - wearing one with or without a diaper is comfortable, and wearing one to bed would also increase the AB experience.

However, I think folks who do not like snug fitting clothing might not find them all that comfortable.

I own and use a diaper shirt, and I love it! It can be seen in my current avatar. As already pointed out it holds a diaper, especially a wet one, snugly against the skin and prevents sag but not to tightly so as to cause chafing.

To clarify things for those who don't know the difference, though, a onsie is what many call a diaper shirt with snaps in the crotch to facilitate changing. It can also be considered a leotard. Footed pajama is the term for those one piece pj's with the foot coverings. Both can be considered baby wear. However, "onsie" is a trademark, so maybe we should call them the o-word to match policy for the B-word? LOL!

I love the feel of a onsie. The way it pulls my diapers up nice and snug makes me feel like I have been condemned to a sentence of forced incontinence. Resistance is futile. (YAY)…

The reason I don't normally wear a onsie to bed is I love the feel of my plastic pants too much. The only thrill of touching my thick plastic pants covered diaper is a little feel where they stick out from the sides of my overfilled onsie. I have a couple plastic onsies to wear over my diapers but they get so hot at night that I have to take them off when the heat gets to be too much. Try to explain that to the paramedics when they come to get you for heat stroke...….

I feel getting snapped into a onesie over my diaper and plastic pants helps make me feel like a toddler for sure as I am a real adultbaby

I like wearing a onesies for all the reasons previously noted. But another reason I like them is the fact that a onesie creates one more obstacle to getting to my penis. In the winter, to get to my penis my caretaker has to remove my snow suit, take my shoes off, pull my elastic waist pants down and off, then unsnap and lift the onesie, then pull my "rubber pants" (which plastic pants have been called since the 50's) down; and finally unpin my diaper. The process makes checking difficult so my caretaker usually waits until sure that I am sufficiently wet and in need of a change.

I am at around 400 onesies long leg/sleeve, long leg/short sleeve, hawaiian, boat neck, snap shoulder snap crotch, regular leg/long/ short sleeve, polo, snap shoulder plastic (the only way anything is coming out is at the neck) fake dress shirts.

Endless variety of colors and style depending on weather and what I am doing,or how I am doing.