Are There any parts of the body NOT suitable to be spanked

Once again curiosity has got the better of me.... I have often wondered if there were any parts of the body not suitable to be striked or spanked. I know for example when feet are spanked this is often referred to as "Bastinado." I am also aware that both a woman's breasts and vagina can be spanked as can an a man's cock or CBT.

Well I think almost anything can be spanked because the most popular body parts people spank are the bottom or sex organs. You can't get much more extreme than hitting those areas! You can spank ones feet, hands, face, and back but the question is what has the best effect? You want it to sting or feel good depending on the situation.

To answer your question though, it's probably not a good idea to spank the eyes, the mouth, the neck or the back of the head. I would say ears but if someone can find a careful way to spank only the outside of an ear then okay.

That's just me though 😃 good question, I'm curious to read what others will say.

Areas with a lot of muscle or fat layers to cushion the blows are safest for spanking or other corporal punishments with paddles and such. Anywhere bone or connective tissue is close to the skin is not a safe place for spanking. The buttocks and the backs of the thighs are among the safest.

The soles of the feet are another area that can take a fair amount of punishment with relative safety; classically this was called bastinado. This was usually done with a cane or rod or belt rather than bare handed.

The upper back is a time honored location for whipping or flogging, but care must be taken to avoid the spine itself as there is little more than skin to protect the vertebrae and the kidney area and lower back should be considered out of bounds.

The genitals of men or women can be gently spanked but full force could result in damaging delicate tissues and no one wants that.

Some women very much enjoy having their breasts slapped or spanked, but care should be taken around the nipples and deep bruising can cause lasting damage to the mammary glands.

Any joints like the backs of the knees, ankles, elbows etc. should be avoided. The neck and head should also be off limits. Face slapping looks great in the movies, but can actually be dangerous if not done by someone experienced.

Non-standard areas that could be safely spanked would be the upper arms, front or back or the calves. If the sub or bottom tenses stomach muscles, the tummy could be spanked also.

Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional. Any new area you are trying for spanking or similar start light and build up slowly. Keep communication open and have fun.

Penis spanking is acceptable, as long as the testicles are not spanked. Therefore, it is best to spank the penis with a hand or a small ruler.

I spank the penis with my hand. The effect is mostly mental, in that he has to wait for it. Just a few quick slaps.

You can spank or slap just about any part of the body. The most erotic areas for that are, of course, the buttocks and thighs, face, soles of the feet, genitalia, and the female breasts.

I met a woman who could not have an orgasm unless her breast were slapped quite hard when she was extremely excited. I was amazed; she came every time I slapped her then. Over & over again -- and loved it.

Another time I surprised her. When she was extremely excited and ready for her (large) breasts to be slapped, I sharply slapped her clit instead. Wow -- did she have an orgasm !!!

Since then I've done it on a few women. If you're careful and buildup slowly with light slaps first (so as not to totally shock them), they usually have a big orgasm.

To me, the only place to be spanked is the butt, and just below the butt. I can't think of being aroused by any-other parts of the body, to be spanked. This is just my preferences, and arousals. . .

Shay7 Thank you for your reply.

Somehow "spanking the sex organs" I think is more practicle on a woman than a man, well in my mind at least BUT just how does one go about it and what implement(s) are practicle?

Spanking the face, I presume you are referring to slapping the face. As for teh ears I think giving them a bit of a pull or even flicking them!

TS1970, Thank you for your reply.

When spanking the penis, I imagine it would be spanked / striked once erect?

Laurabbush, thanks for sharing.

Now what items are your favoraite when their applied to your breasts and genitalia and I am presuming your referring to the vagina?

Bluestripe, thank you for your detailed reply and moving the discussion along. I have a few more questions.

"The genitals of men or women can be gently spanked" What with other than a hand? I know a lot of men participate in cbt. I am not referring to this here but what can a penis be subjected to?

What would be suitable to attend to the "Non-standard areas" such as "upper arms, front or back or the calves?". As for the stomach, i think I will take a rain check on that one.

Also be very careful with, i.e., stay away from! heavy "thuddy" type implements close to the tailbone.

School type paddles should only be used on the lower meatier part of the bottom, or the most prominent peaks of the bottom cheeks.

Daniel1, I guess the penis can be spanked whether or not it is erect. Although it would be easier to spank a penis that is erect than a penis that is not erect. I have also heard of using a small penis whip. By the way, I have no experience whatsoever when it comes to penis spanking. I am only speculating.

TS1970, Once again, thank you for your reply.

I had no idea there was such a thing as a "small penis whip". The mind boggles.

Well if men can find a way to strike women's intimate parts, even when aroused, I'm sure women can spank a mans sex organs too. It can be done but not excessively. Like always, practice safely and communicate. Yes you can flick or tug on an ear but you said spank or strike....😃

I was never hit on anything but my behind and my hands, and i was slapped acorss the face too, but never on my breasts or my vagina or my feet.

My basic rule is that the only areas of the body acceptable for firm discipline are the shoulders, the buttocks and the backs of the thighs. For lightly percussive play we have a nice selection of very light floggers which I love on my breasts, tummy and inner thighs (and sometimes neck, calves and soles of feet). For genital/anal area (especially clitoris and labia) we use "clit whips" which have a mass of very light rubber thongs-- extremely stimulating, and of course readily cleaned. I sometimes use the clit whip on my partner's penis, mostly before he's fully erect. Any whipping of an erect penis must be very light indeed.

Anne

Can you post some more info about "clit whips", please?

I'd be very interested in acquiring something that my wife might enjoy being deployed in that area.

A number of kink supply places do carry clit whips, though in my experience it's much more satisfactory to make them for yourself (much cheaper too). All you need is a bit of bungee cord (shock cord), those elastic things with hooks on them that are designed to hold stuff onto your car's luggage rack until your speed rises above 30 mph when they automatically release. A bungee cord essentially comprises a bundle of very fine rubber stands (each strand is about 0.5 mm diameter) enclosed in a braided cover with a hook at each end. Just remove the hooks and slit open the braided cover, and there you have a mass of thin rubber strands. The strands tend to be lightly bonded together to form strips, but they readily peel apart. We've used a number of different handle designs, but perhaps the easiest and most practical is to use a short (say six inch) length of plastic tubing. Decide on the length of thong you want, add the length of the handle, and cut the rubber threads to this length. Thirty or forty threads make a reasonable whip... but of course you can use many more-- it depends on you patience. Slide your bundle of threads into the plastic tube and secure at the top with a big dollop of five minute epoxy. It may not look terribly elegant, but it works, and it is very readily disinfectable. Hubby and I had a clit whip making evening a few years ago, and made fifteen of thong lengths ranging from six inches to just over one foot. And they are all still in service today. You do have to be a little careful in using the longer whips-- not that there's any physical hazard (the threads are too light to cause any damage no matter how hard you swing the whip) but getting the thongs to land in the right place can take practice. But let me assure you that this kind of implement used anywhere in the anal/genital area can be almost unbearably arousing. And I am assured that used lightly (please emphasise "lightly") on the penis, especially around the head they can be electrifying (in the nice sense of the word).

Wow ...really an interesting topic....I just spnk my inner thighs... perianal area....and not to mention my Sexy bare bottom with intense force

Penis spankibg with a ruler...and clit spanking with thongs...interest is growing

Not really. HOWEVER, spanked to what degree? Some areas can be lightly spanked while others can be heavily spanked. It also depends on what you are using to do the spanking. A boat oar may be fine for the butt, but not for the lower back or most other places for that matter. A ruler may be suitable for hands, feet, balls, vulva, cock, clit, inner thighs, arms or upper back. A hand can spank just about anywhere, although some places will require a lighter hit than others.

Well I would go with the obvious....head, kidney area, genitals (unless very carefully planned and very gently), any part of the body that could be permanently damaged. The Creator made the bottom for spanking and in my opinion that's where it needs to be administered.

Anne

Thank you for the instruction to make a clit whip it sound easy to make and I think I will try to make one

Dr Bob

Kidneys...definatly the kidneys

I think the bare butt is the only place for a spanking/paddling---Its like nature made it for that purpose-However, as one who got his bare butt paddled thru high school---nature must have put alot of nerve receptors or pain receptors---on a guys bare butt----as my butt sure felt it whether 7 or 17---IT HURT LIKE CRAZY

To me the buttocks, with their large volume of fat over muscles and no apparent bones no sensitive organs, are ideal. With the thighs one must already be careful (less fat).

On the vulva I only do light spanks.

I've only been spanked on the bottom myself and I think its probably the safest area of the body to spank, not to mention sitting down afterwards is not easy if your bottom is still sore. I wouldn't object to a few swats on the top of the backs of the thigh though.

I think a person's bottom is the most proper place to spank. However, the upper thighs just below the bottom is appropriate as well and can be pretty uncomfortable when sitting down. Other places are just not for me.

TS1970 said

I guess the penis can be spanked whether or not it is erect. Although it would be easier to spank a penis that is erect than a penis that is not erect. I have also heard of using a small penis whip. By the way, I have no experience whatsoever when it comes to penis spanking. I am only speculating.

If you have no experience and are speculating, you should not be making these suggestions.

It turns out you can spank a NON-erect penis (using s certain amount of restraint on part of the spanker) but DO NOT spank an erect penis. The danger of fracture is real, with treatment requiring immediate surgery and can have life-long consequences.

In general it is wise to stay on the heavily fat padded and muscular areas of the body. Especially, stay away from the sensory organs in the head and face--eyes, ears, nose. Also, stay away from the back/spinal column and the throat. Unless the recipient is a boxer, I would also stay away from the chest as constant pounding against the chest cage and heart can also cause severe injury.

Is having your boobs slapped considered a spanking?

Genitals should absolutely NEVER be spanked. I don't like the idea of spanking boobs either.