Do you enjoy watching him masturbate?

Hubby and I almost always incorporate masturbation into our foreplay now. At one time, it was more likely that we would get to sex very fast but today, it takes longer for hubby to get fully erect. We are in our sixties.

Watching each other pleasure ourselves is a turn on and then we move on to oral and then to the main event.

I do love to watch who I am playing with masturbate.

Its great on cam or when we are together.

"Thanks" to ED at my age, penetrative sex has been over for a few years now, so my wife always watches me masturbate. This has become a longer and longer process as i must pound away furiously on a half-hearted erection. Luckily my sweet wife assists by penetrating my ass with dildos, cucumbers, fingers or whatever. She doesn't have the strength/stamina to do the actual pounding. Watching me eventually cum, I can't say she's enjoying it erotically, more like she's just glad her part is over, and glad that I got to feel good. The only other person to ever watch me masturbate was my sister when growing up. She was fascinated by my ejaculation and insisted on watching each spurt closely. Talking with her many years later I found this had translated into almost an obsession with getting her dates and later husbands off orally. She came to enjoy the control it gave her over their pleasure.

I love to watch Doc do that, lol. But I really only like to see it when we are having fun time over the net. Because our lives have gotten so busy as of late we only get to be in the same room together about 4 times a year. While I would still love to watch him when we are in the same room, our time is too precious. He can please himself anytime. When we are together it's my job, but more importantly it's my absolute pleasure to take care of his needs and my desires, lol.

Mashie

I enjoy watching any gender masturbate especially a man. I love to see when they spurt especially if they really shoot their cum out in strong squirts. I find it very arousing.

I agree with ginnie, watching anyone masturbate is enjoyable, and sexually exciting. 😃

C.

If my man wants me to watch him masturbate, I could and have nothing against it. But it doesn't excite me sexually. Dunno, the sight of a man pounding his penis furiously looks like he is butchering his penis. Many times I caught myself wincing and asking if it hurts him. I think in general, everybody will say that it is more interesting to watch a woman touches herself to orgasm. I am sure many will disagree, but to each his own.

I like to watch my hubby wank off and I'd also love to watch my gynecologist wank off too and give him a hand and help him cum really good 😃

I'm the one who makes my sub masturbate. It's under my control and because I have allowed it. So yes I do enjoy watching him masturbate.

Hell Yes!

I love watching a guy going at it, no inhibitions... I like to see their techniques, their choice of hand, their facial expressions, their orgasms. It's so hot to see a guy stroking.

Just looked at this topic for the first time, and I'm amazed at the number AND response from the women

I did this just once with my -ex. She asked if I would, and I did, but to aid "me" with my self-consciousness (jacking off in front of someone!!), I got going by narrating an evening we did with another couple. I was explaining how a man would feel as he was playing with her, and what I was thinking while he kissed her, put his hands up her shirt, put his tongue in her, and watched her suck him, and as I described him taking her deeply, I 'emptied' pretty hard, and (I guess) she enjoyed it. Some days later, she did herself for me. Can't believe I did that, but she was that special, and I'm glad I had the courage to participate.

My wife does like to watch me masturbate and she like me to watch her masturbate the one thing I can't get her to be truthful about is her masturbating by herself she will say something like I don't need to do that you will no it for me, I said I am pretty sure everybody masturbates some more than others.

I like it when he's aware I'm watching it's like free porn

I prefer to masturbate him ...

This is one of the sexiest things two lovers can do. Face one another, totally nude, and as you each begin to masturbate, the trick is to talk to one another. I swear this works. Talk about what you are thinking, the best sex you ever had. Ask questions. Encourage one another to come. Talk about what you would feel if you were making love ... her swollen nipples, the sweat on his chest .... the trick to mutual masturbation is uninhibited and contestant conversation. When you sense you opposite is nearing climax, encourage them to hold it, let's have the biggest come ever! ... and you will

My wife likes to start off touching herself as I kiss her shoulders and neck. When she gets wet, I know it's time to move down to her thighs and then finish her to a powerful orgasm. When she recovers, I will slid up beside her and start stroking myself. If she is in a good mood, I will get to finish, if not she will tell me to "stop and save it for another day".... Frustrated, I always do....

My g/f loves to watch me as well as listen to me (when on the phone)!!! It turns me on more knowing she does - although being intimate with her is ALWAYS better :-)

Watching your partner masturbate is an extremely erotic and educational experience.

I most definitely enjoy watching him masturbate! But I get turned on and have to be involved. He looks so vulnerable at the moment, that it naturally triggers my dominant side. While he continues to jerk off, I take charge of manipulating his anal plug and talking dirty. He seems to love that, particularly the creative dialog.

Watching your partner masturbate is an extremely erotic and educational experience.

This goes for guys watching a female partner, too!! Helps so much to realize what is needed to help put that smile on her face. Plus, it is such of an erotic turn-on!! 😃 Mike.

Its a turn on for me to see her turned on by watching me masturbate. she can help by playing with my nipples and/or rosebud....greatly heightens the sensations.

Ladies- If you want to heighten your man's sensation while watching him masturbate, put your arms around him and tease his nipples. More times than not it will take him over the edge in a short time. If he is lying on his back you can get on your knees above him so he will have a nice view and something to taste while his nipples are teased. you could give his bird's eye view a show by masturbating right above his face. You won't have nay complaints!

Nobody has ever watched me masterbait before. I have also never seen a woman do it before either except in porn. I would love to see a woman that I know play with herself. I also would like a woman to watch me jack off also.

Yes I love it

My wife, Pam, has five close girlfriends who are all married, and I'm good friends with all their husbands. Once a month, Pam hosts a dinner party just for her girlfriends at our house. I always leave for few hours to let Pam and her friends enjoy girl talk or whatever they do when no men are around.

I have a fantasy involving Pam's dinner party. As the party gets going one night and I'm leaving, Pam asks me to stay for a minute. She asks her girlfriends, "Would you like to watch Bill strip?" "Hell yes", they all say. I'm always the exhibitionist, so soon I'm taking it all off. Then I become their naked waiter, and I serve them drinks and dinner.

During dinner, Pam says, "I love to watch Bill masturbate. Would you all like to watch Bill masturbate tonight?" They all say yes. We're all giggling excitedly for the rest of the dinner. I'm obviously excited as I serve them desert. When they finish eating, we all go back to the living room. All the girls crowd onto the couch, I stand facing everyone a few feet away, and I masturbate in front of them.

I recently told Pam about my fantasy, and she laughed. "That might be interesting.", she said, but I don't think she took me seriously. I'd like to get some other female opinions here about my fantasy.

If you were one of Pam's girlfriends and this scenario started playing out, how would you react?

Well, as a mater of fact, I do enjoy watching my guy masturbate. Since we live so far away from each other, I get to watch him pleasure himself when we talk on Skype.

When I do it I sure wish I had someone to watch!

I get very aroused watching my husband masturbate. It is quite different for me to watch and not help him because I don't have to think about taking care of him. I think I become aroused because I like to see what is happening inside me when we are doing it. As I have said in other place on ZB my own orgasm is typically triggered by my husband's orgasm. I often have a mini orgasm just watching him do his thing.

In reading through the responses about women watching men masturbate I didn’t notice any women commenting on enjoying watching the man ejaculate? Is observing the man’s stimulating himself, watching the man attain orgasm or the actual ejaculation or all of the above what women like to observe?

There is a separate thread on women watching men ejaculate

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