Partners and ages

Hi ladies,

I know there are already topics on partners but what i want to know is:

1. how old were you and your partner when they first accompanied you to your check up and how offten do they come now.

2. How much of the procedure to they see.

3. Who's idea was it in the first place.

thanks

RJ

I think I was 27 the first time my husband accompanied me to an exam. My husband has accompanied me a couple of times. My husband stood behind the doctor and a little to the side, and watched the whole procedure. My husband and I had been my discussing my annual Gyne exam off and on for a while, and he sort of invited himself, and I agreed to have him present. My doctor did not not have a problem with my husband watching. I felt it highly erotic having my husband standing there watching, and he enjoyed it immensely.

Your husband got the best view in the house, except perhaps from up close and personal.

Good to hear you enjoy it also.

Thanks bargyn, my husband said he had a great view, and the doctor didn't mind giving him a closer view. Yes I thought it was highly erotic as well.

I am 38 my wife is 36. I have gone with her for her exams for the last 10 years.As far as whose Idea.It was consensual she did not like going by her self.We got on the discussion one night.I offerd to go with her for support.I have been lucky to go ever since then.As far as the view I unusually stand at the foot of the exam table off to one side and have a great view of the entire exam.

It is my fantasy to find someone to go with me to the Doctor and view the whole exam as my "husband."

Heather in Oregon

I have been with my wife for ultrasounds and "checks" during her pregnancy to see how dilated she was...

I have been with my wife twice and still haven't seen anything. The first time she was in the hospital and the doctor came in to examine her but didn't pull the sheet down, he just put his hand under and checked her. The second was when she had a vaginal ultra sound. I was at the end of the table on a chair but wrong angle to see anything.Some day I might get to see the full examination. This was just a couple years ago and we were both 58.

I have seen my wife over 10 years. I have seen a regular vaginal exam, vaginal ultra sound, no rectal. Usually, i am positioned where i can see a bit but not the best view.

I have taken my husband several times beginning when I was about 25. My doctor is his friend so he let my husband have a good look at the entire procedure including inside me. We have both talked about it in our social circle and a year or so ago after many requests, I let several of my other male friends accompany me to examinations with a different doctors so they could see what goes on.

I was 31 the first time I went with my wife who was 29 for her annual exam. I've seen her undressed with a gown for a breast exam, vaginal ultrasound and could see through the sides of the drape for the pap smear and pelvic exam.

My girlfriend when 19 when she had her first exam and I was present.

I saw her receive a breast exam and pelvic exam.

It was both our ideas to have me come.

I'm 53 and my partner is 58. We've been together for a little over a year and I had an annual exam and mammogram scheduled for the same day. He came with me to the appointments for several reasons; I no longer drive so someone has to come with me, I find it's better for me to have another set of ears along for the ride, and he comes with me to all my medical appointments, so why not this one?

The doc we saw was terrific. She's an OB/GYN but her secondary specialty is infectious disease. This will be great for me since at some point I will be on immunosuppressant drugs and will be more susceptible to infectious organisms. She was "cool" and I suspect when it comes to kink she's seen and heard it all.

Anyway, my partner was positioned behind her shoulder but when it came time to perform the pelvic exam, she had him scoot his chair to the side "no reason to ruin the romance" said she. It was my partner's first time at an annual exam, I'm so pleased that I could fill in that educational gap!