Anal Dilation or Stretching

If like me, anal dilation is your kink then the best way to stretch out is by using non tapered butt plugs and riding them fir a good 50 to 100 strokes a day. Do it gently, use lots of lube and take your time and enjoy the ride. Do this and in 2 years of disciplined and fun play, you'll be able to go past 3 inches wide easily.

Reach behind yourself, insert 1+ finger(s) of each hand on either side and pull open. You will feel when enough is

enough :-)

This is also a pretty good exercise to maintain your body's flexibility and posture when doing it in different positions.

There is a German gyn tool that is used to stretch vaginas before childbirth. i think the name is epi-no. It would be a good toy to actually stretch the anus, and not just fill the rectum. It starts small, and goes to 10 cm or so. Pricey ($70 or so) but is excellent qualilty.

I find that sometimes the information that the toy store web sites include in the description is inaccurate. This is how my story from last night started. I ordered the "colt driller" which when advertised had a maximum width of 2" . i have taken toys that are 2" before and was not really looking to try anything much bigger. But it arrived and it was huge. I did not think it was possible for me to take it all. Now I know that there are people out there who take things anally that are much larger, but not me. I am just not that stretched out.

Nonetheless, I was up for the challenge. I wore a plug for most of the day yesterday and then I lined up several toys and a big bucket of anal lube on the night stand. I knelt on the bed with my ass in the air and my wife went to work. She started with her fingers and lots of lube. After she had worked in several fingers and rubed my prostate for a while, she went from one toy to the next in ever increasing sizes until finally she was fucking my ass with the largest old toy that I had. Then it was time for the driller. The driller has three progressively larger knobs and each knob has a ring of bumps around it. My wife had no trouble pushing in the first tier. She worked this in and out for a few minutes before slowly pushing in half way up the second tier. With half the toy in my ass I could feel my asshole stretched wide and I was in heaven. She asked me if she should keep going and I moaned. She slowly pushed in all of the second knob and I thought I was going to scream with pleasure. She started pushing the toy in and out and as she pushed in she went even further in. Eventually I could feel the bumps on the rim of my asshole, which meant that I had taken the entire width of the toy in my ass. This was the largest thing that I had ever had in me. I was about to explode when She started to pull the toy out almost to the end and push it back in quickly. Then she had one more surprise for me. When the toy was all the way to the bumps on the third knob, she started to twist it so that the bumps rippled the edge of my hole. A came immediately, I nearly exploded.

Stretching was never a goal for me but that was insane. My ass is sore today but I will be doing that again.

After a while you will more easily accomidate that toy and will try something larger to get that same max size fullness stretch.

That was a hot experience, World. But stretching your hole gets addictive. Eventually, you will be able to take your new toy comfortably, so you will buy something a little bigger, and so on and so forth. I have reached the point where I can't get any bigger because the bones of my hip won't let anything bigger in. But what I get in there fills me so full.

Sounds wild but it is a great feeling to be sore after working the ass like that. Each time you sit you remember the working in in experience. I once had a HUGE dildo enema nozzle that I never did work inside me, but it was alway nice trying. It was probably 4 inches around...

Any concerns about fecal incontinence with chronic stretching? I've heard of it.

Stretching is totally addictive

I'm not totally aware of what the mystique of stretching is but I keep finding myself going back to my Titanic nozzle.

Stretching is addictive. I've been doing it for years and I

can can a pretty big toy up my ass. Biggest one so far is around three inches thick.

So far no problems. On the upside, since my butt is more relaxed,

I can take the larger toys easier.

I've been stretching my ass since I was 24 and I have never had a problem with bowel control.

Now, at 40 my ass is stronger than ever due to the stretching. I can take dildos up to 4 inches wide and do not suffer and "leaking" whatsoever.

Anal stretching is not something you jump into and those who do are the ones who will complain about fecal incontinence. If done slowly and gradually over the course of YEARS you will be fine. Try and go from 1 to 4 inches wide in a month and yes, expect to be buying adult diapers for the rest of your life.

Outside of butt plugs and dildoes I haven't done much stretching and haven't had any anal leakage and my farts sound normal, but, I have experienced difficulty in thoroughly wiping my ass after a loose bowel movement. It seems like the space between the inner and outer anal rings has been altered. Anyone else have this experience?

To really stretch the spincter a procto-scope or three prong anal dilator is the answer. It's tricky to handle once lubricated so better to have a partner held you. You can also use a tapered rubber butt plug fastened to a horizontal surface to lower yourself onto.

Some of the gay websites sell them in sets, however take care not to overdo it. Anal tears are painful and usually require stitches to fix.

How about a curling iron? I put a condom on my wife's, stick in my butt and use the flap that grabs th hair to open my ass...

I won't try without a condom because a) I'm afraid to cut my rectum and b) the smell of crap would be hard to get out of the metal.

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How about a curling iron? I put a condom on my wife's, stick in my butt and use the flap that grabs th hair to open my ass... I won't try without a condom because a) I'm afraid to cut my rectum and b) the smell of crap would be hard to get out of the metal.

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OMG I thought I'd heard about everything MedFet Kueeng - but that takes the biscuit I guess.

You missed two reasons for using a condom on the curling iron though. It would melt the condom if it were still plugged in, thus indicating 'hot' and saving your ass - and it means your wife won't find crap in her hair!

Honestly, splash out with a couple of bills from your wallet and use the correct instrument.

I want to be able to fist myself (or a female) but I just can't get the opening I need

Help much wanted

XecclesX

How about a curling iron? I put a condom on my wife's, stick in my butt and use the flap that grabs th hair to open my ass... I won't try without a condom because a) I'm afraid to cut my rectum and b) the smell of crap would be hard to get out of the metal.

The idea to use a curling iron to dilate your anus is reminiscent of the last words of the dare-devil, "OK, everybody watch this. . . "

With things like dildos of all sizes, anal dilators, your fingers, different sized vegetables, candles, etc. you would choose a curling iron????????

Insert finger and rotate till you touch the side of your bone, go all around pushing with slight pressure. amazing

Butt stretching has always been a favourite activity of mine. The first guy I every fisted was really into getting his butt hole stretched. I would lie on my back and he would mount me so that his dick and butt hole were above my head. He would give me the best oral sex I have ever had. He gently but firmly inserted increasingly large dildos up his butt. When he could take a seriously large one - after many sessions - I started stretching him with my fingers and Crisco. After several more sessions, my fist slid into his rectum. It was a fantastic, almost spiritual, experience for both of us. We enjoyed many sessions together. Then one day I got a call saying that he had died the night before ... he was 34 years of age.

I do some stretching, love it and have never had any negative issues. The muscles tighten back up again after an hour or so afterwards. I'm able to easily insert a 2.5" plug within a couple of minutes. I'm slowly working up to 3".

I am not sure if some day I will have a problem with the way out , but so far I really enjoy getting my ass fill up, I think the max has been 2" spray can, and I am willing to go for more.

I am trying to make my ass stretch bigger, and i need advice. and its not only the entrance but farther down too. im not talking about like 20" long things, just like a few inches long but really wide, maybe like 10" long as the biggest one i want, and its probably 3"ish around. and when i get something kinda far up, for me thats like over 6", my bowels feel weird, and theres a little pain but not sharp... any suggestions?

I have a toy that is easily insertable for me, except for the lenth. It's five inches long, but I can only fit about three inches in. Can I train myself to take more in? (The toy is rubber, BTW)

It's all a matter of practice and finding the inner dimensions and directions properly. Patience and appropriate lubricant are always helpful. A partner with both is especially nice.

Ok so don't rush and enjoy yourself.

So you are using plenty of proper lube not ky drys too quickly.

Have a poo beforehand later you will need to enema . You need to be clean it makes it smoother don't eat nuts for the day or so before you play.

Get warm comfortable and hopefully no unexpected visitors unless they are going to be helpful. Use no drugs they do not help your bum relax ! Neither will alcohol .

You need to feel what you bum is telling you if its painful STOP.

Splits in your bum take ages to heal and can need some explanation x.

So start with the one you have and say 30 min or so less if it hurts . Then in a few days try again surprisingly soon it will slip in no probs. Nect time it will be too small. So off tothe shop go up 10 _20 mm on the circumference not dia . .

Enjoy xx

You can train yourself very easily.

For s toy/dildo that is five inches long, all you need to do is be well lubricated and firmly push in and out until it pops inside.

It looks like ass stretching is a fantasy for guys and not women as you can figure out from the people commenting the subject. Too bad :-(

i am trying to make my ass stretch bigger, and i need advice. and its not only the entrance but farther down too. im not talking about like 20" long things, just like a few inches long but really wide, maybe like 10" long as the biggest one i want, and its probably 3"ish around. and when i get something kinda far up, for me thats like over 6", my bowels feel weird, and theres a little pain but not sharp... any suggestions?

I think you're hitting the sigmoid entrance. In my experience, over 2.5" diameter makes it tough to enter the sigmoid.

Hi MissBehave,

Normally, they shouldn't be any problems by wearing a plug for some hours. Of course, the hour following the removal is a bit special but afterwards everything comes back to normal. You can read the testimonials of everybody here.

So, why don't you try it once?

Please, don't hesitate to come up with your questions if you have any.

Rgds,

Rodin