Do you prefer male or female REAL doctors

I recently got a complete exam from an attractive female doctor about my age, and it was an absolute turn-on for me...

Male for me

Female for me.

For me it doesn't really matter the sex of the doctor as long as they are comfortable with me being gay or bisexual. That being said I sometimes do feel more comfortable being examined by a female doctor because they (unless she happens to be lesbian) can relate to knowing what it's like to have a penis inside them either orally, vaginally or rectally and they share a similar interest in the male body. I can even joke with a female about sex and even be more descriptive about ejaculations, enemas, watersports, fisting, etc and etc...

I have had one or two male doctors that made me feel comfortable when I discussed being the recipient of anal sex, one doctor called it rectal sex which at the time sounded dirty but then I realized that anal and rectal sex are the exact same thing but at the time I guess it sounded dirty. I didn't think about it enough I guess, I knew anal sex meant inserting an erect penis through the anus but I guess I didn't realize that the next place to be in it's anal adventures was to explore the rectum thus calling it rectal sex. Now I actually get turned on by saying to a guy "I'm going to bury my cock deep in your rectum and shoot my cum deep inside you!" There's something about saying the word RECTUM that really turns me on when talking about sex, kind of similar when saying the word ENEMA, a word that turns me on immensely more than any other word out there I believe... Although unfortunately most of the time I feel uncomfortable talking with a male doctor when questions about sexuality come up because the majority of male doctors are heterosexual and only a few of them are actually comfortable talking with a gay guy about anal sex, semen, ejaculation, watersports, fisting etc, they just don't get it...

I've had both, and I do prefer female doctors. I've found them to be more matter-of-fact during the physical exam. I've had more male doctors seem awkward about the genital and prostate exams, and even in the telling me how much to take off when undressing. The females just don't have that awkwardness, they just do the exam.

And, I've never had a male doctor who seemed to understand how I was feeling better, just because he's also same gender as me. Females seem to get it about whatever I'm dealing with just fine.

Thinking about other health care professionals, I think it's similar. I've had male nurses be like on egg shells when I'm just in a gown, and try telling me I only need to take off this or that, like it's a really big ordeal to undress. Female nurses mostly just tell me to get undressed, everything off, because they and the doctor will need to check me all over, when that is the situation. Beyond that, I think the care I get from either is about the same.

Doesn't bother me at all.

Sort of tween years I would have said female but actually male drs that I have experienced since are more concerned with modesty, explaining what they are doing and probably a bit more gentle but that is generalisation.

It shouldn't matter but.. do you prefer male or female doctors for your gyne examinations? Do some situations matter, and other don't? Would you be more inclined to discuss sexual feelings, or preserved embarassing issues with a female doctor more than a male doctor? Do you find male and female doctors act differently around you. Do you notice subtle differences with the procedure between males and female doctors? What about access in your local area, is it easier to visit a male doctors than female?

Let me know your thoughts about how your presonal decisions were arrived at.

Thank you.

Well I have said on other threads a bit like this but I would not want a female gynecologist, I chose a male private gynecologist and I would not want to change from seeing him. I think a lot of women get in power struggles with other women and I think practice nurses who do cervical smears are too rough so I am not going back to them. I have got to travel to my gynecologist when I have a check up with him most years so he is not local but it is ok. I would not be happy if I had somebody else choose for me and think because I am a girl I would prefer to have a female gynecologist, some ladies want that but I am one of the ones who do not. I have always liked male doctors.

Female is my preference. I've never had the idea of going to a male gynecologist.

My wife has always preferred male gynecologists. Although she has seen an occasional female gynecologist, she always reverts back to a male. She told me once that if she is going to have to spread her legs for a stranger that she feels “more comfortable” with a man between her legs.

I’ve had good and bad with either gender. On the whole I find male doctors to be a tad more gentle but not always. My current gyn is a female and is possibly the best I’ve had. My first gyn was female also and quite wonderful. My second OB was a male and a saint of a man. Can’t say enough good about him. My GP as a child was not good at all (male). The gyn who did my ablation was brutal (female).

The only 2 I’ve discussed sexual issues with were female - it just worked out that way but yeah, I guess it was easier to have a frank discussion with a woman.

I’ve had good and bad with either gender.

That is so true... of any type doctor whether it be a dentist or a podiatrist... or a gynecologist. It's all a matter of finding a doctor with good "bedside manners" who is kind, gentle and takes great care of ALL his or her patients.

There are plenty out there.. and I am sure they highly outnumber the bad ones.

Doctor Geoff

I’ve come across many threads similar and almost identical to this one.

I had my first pelvic exam only last month and it was performed by a female doctor. I didn't consider whether I had a preference for either male or female gynecologist when I made an appointment. I was just very curious about the procedure and wanted to do it as soon as possible (preferably that same morning). Yup, I went by just fine without an exam for all those years, but then I suddenly decided I want it now 🙂

Unfortunately, the doctor who examined me wasn't that great. Probably that was the reason she wasn't all booked that day and I could go see her straight away. She seemed rushed and even annoyed. She didn't explain to me what she was doing, I had to ask her questions, to which I got rather abrupt answers. Also, she probably messed up with my vaginal swab sample somehow since the test results didn't appear in the electronic system weeks after they should have. I cannot ask her about that since she's on vacation now.

Anyway, I did some research this time and found a male gynecologist in my city who seems very professional and kind, judging by all the positive reviews online. I made an appointment and will see him on December 31 🙂 Can't wait!

I had my first pelvic exam only last month .....I made an appointment and will see him on December 31 🙂 Can't wait!

@soma, So you will have 2 exams inside of 2 months ?

My cute little 29-year old girlfriend went and saw a young male gyno for the first time this last summer after previously going to a woman. It came from our play of me enjoying showing her off. She had heard good things about him from a coworker and knew the idea of him seeing her cute little body, all of it would drive me wild. She ended up liking him, saying it was the most gentle pelvic exam she had experienced. And I of course enjoyed the gown open in the front selfie she sent to me while waiting on the table for him to come in. Just a little private game for us that lead to some incredible intense sex that afternoon.

Female doctors have been rough and mean and they stay In the exam room less time.

Female

At the doctor, I value competence, regardless of gender. However, when I have to undergo an examination in which I will have to expose my private parts, I prefer to be examined by a woman, preferably older than me.

I always prefer a male doctor regardless he will examine my private parts or not. The reason is, I find myself easier to talk to a person in the same gender about my body situation. As an Asian, men are always perceived confident and strong. It is hard for us to expose our vulnerability in front of a woman. I can’t say it on behalf of everyone, but at least, I am…

I personally prefer female.

Definitely a female I find they listen easier and are easier to talk to.

I prefer a female PA over anyone. They are thorough, enthusiastic, and the best listeners. I see a lot of different medical providers, and I see them very often. I feel I have an extensive and accurate overview of the field.

Female PAs get shit done.

Male.

I did prefer a female doctor when I had one last year but I got switched to a male one and I feel more comfortable with a male one. Took me a bit to like my new doctor but he's great

My current doctor is a female and we have a very good relationship. I have seen a few specialists on occasion (male). I really don't care if the doctor is a man or a woman. I care about competency and professionalism.

Female doctors only. I only feel comfortable with a female doctors. This is not just true for gynec. (That's almost a given). Any doctor I see is a female.

I prefer female doctors. Luckily for me my wife picked the family practice we use, and one doctor and one physician assistant are both female. :-) I talked about my last two physicals in a story I posted on Zity, when my prostate was examined with my feet in the stirrups.

To be honest in real life I prefer a female doctor, not sure why but it does give me a bigger sense of trust. Again… not really sure why is that so.

And currently I have a male doctor, of course. So… I'm a contradiction in terms… lol.

For me it does not really matters. I want to keep all sexuality away for doctor visits but of course I take something from the visit. For that female doctors are better but what I really want from that visit that I got professional who can help me