What do the ladies want and not want on enema chat room.

Is the chat room safe for members who want to be anonymous? It seems safe to me. Rather few ladies chat or am I going to the room at the wrong times.

I and others probably would like the opinons of ladies and to learn what they would like to chat about.

There's a few threads here that talk about something similar to the question you asked. See this thread on Site Etiquette http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=27111.0. I'll look for some of the others.

It's my opinion, after nearly three years here, that the ladies would like to get to know someone first before getting into explicit or graphic or sexy and hot talking. This is the time for the guys to be sincere and flirty and complimentary and fun. As I got to know more of the men or members, then some of the hot talk would happen.

Just have fun!!!

As in any other setting, there is no specific set of subjects that are up for discussion, that's why it's called a "chat" room. As a female, I would appreciate it if someone asked me how my day was, what was on my mind, if anything particularly amusing had happened recently. As Petal says, more in depth conversations are generally best left for other times and places. I wouldn't carry on a racy discussion in the chat room, I'd go elsewhere, YIM or Skype for example.

I resent it when a guy comes into a chat room and the first things he whispers is "Hey, wanna examine me?" or "When was the last time you had a nozzle in your butt?" Really knocks me off my stride.

Sometimes, there are few women in the enema chat room, you might try the Kinky Lounge, generally around the dinner hour and later (if you're on the East Coast).

Just my experience.

The kinky lounge is usually the more active room, but you can check when you go into chat who is in what room (sometimes reading a profile can be helpful into what a member is into). Chat is as safe as you want it to be. You need only give out the personal info you want. Take it slow, be polite, and maybe even get to know some pretty good people.