Ever meet someone on the internet?

I met one person from this site for a highly pleasurable fetish exam about a year ago. Trying to meet up again but having some trouble with our schedules getting in sync.

I have found 3 very dear play mates on another site. All were very good choices

I've used craig's list a couple of times with fun success. I met one guy who uses it quite a bit and last summer he met up with two guys that choked him and when he woke up he was in process of being raped. The thing is...... he liked it , go figure.

I have met several women from on line had some great sex and some not so great. I met my wife on line

I met my wife online. What started out as a few dates and some hot sex, ended up with us eventually getting married. I think it's safe to say that we beat the long odds. I also think the fact that we are very sexually compatible and that we get along like best friends are the reasons why.

I've only met a couple from the internet, from IRC many years ago. It wasn't for sex, just guys I'd chatted with and we decided to meet for coffee.

Years ago, I did meet some guys from a chatline when I lived in a very large city. It was fun, I dated one for a while. A few of them "played doctor" with me. (a couple of them were doctors)

Haven't met anyone from Zity, though I would definitely consider it if I clicked well enough with someone.

Yup, I sure did, and I married him!

I met my husband on the internet, we had a wild night of sex and slowly became friends, lovers and then, after it became legal we got married in an open relationship. Also, I meet other guys on the internet a lot, I mean A LOT. Houston has a very active gay community and I am finding LOTS of sexual opportunities. I am an experienced fister and there are an amazing number of younger guys here who are looking for daddy to open them up. I gladly help them out there, several regulars.

Love to talk to others about the internet and certain sites, and anal experiences by both females and males. Let's play!

I met my present girlfriend and I think love of my life on Facebook. We both responded to an anti Trump post and started flirting. Then she asked me to call her and I did. It’s been ecstasy ever since, even though she lives in Texas. I talk to her six times a day! We met in the flesh in November and it was even better.

Yes. I meet with a Zity member a few times a year for LUNCH, STRICTLY! She's in a dedicated relationship, so I'm not going to interfere with that. We are good friends, kinda like a brother/sister.

I'm really happy for the many people that have found the loves of their lives on the internet here! I think that's great! My best to you all and enjoy your special mates! I like upbeat information like this. The world is still a safe place. Carry On!

^I think for the most part, meeting someone is safe. But, it is very wise to take precautions. Tell a trusted friend where you are going and give him/her all the pertinent info you have on the person you are meeting ie. name, phone number, description. If you are nervous, arrange to have the friend call you during the date to make sure you are okay. If you meet at your home (and only do this if you really trust the person), for sure have the friend call.

I have met many patients/play partners on the net. Only one was a washout, we met in public and I knew it was not a go.

I actually met my wife online. In a chat room - nothing sexual or anything. Just a normal chatroom. We talk about everything and anything. She had just broken up with her boyfriend and was not ready for a relashionship. We wrote back and forth for 4 months - met. And here we are 11 years later 😃

I have met two here , one that I visit at lest once a month for a few days or more and one that lives in another country that I would like to meet in person .

As the question pertains to this site, I've met three play docs and all have been perfect gentlemen.

I've also met countless other people from other discussion forums (wine, guns, sports, etc.) and I've yet to have a bad experience. Some I've chosen to not reach out to again while others have become lifetime friendships. But I've never been robbed or assaulted by anyone I've met online.

Of course!! The internet is the only kind of meeting women I've done since I split with my wife in '06! I work from home in an industry that's 80% male, so there's not a lot of new people to meet.

Over the years I've met and had real relationships (some long term dating, others play partner friendships) from people I've met on Match, PoF, OKCupid, FetLife and Zity. There's no stigma anymore with meeting someone online like there used to be.

I met two girls from another site. We are still friends. One the chemistry just wasn't there. She looked nothing like she said and the attraction just wasn't there. The other I spoke about yesterday. We lived together for two years. Her ex-husband filed a lawsuit against her for the kids. I could not just up and leave my job and home.

Not yet but, perhaps, one day.

Yes! I’ve used Ourtime and Bumble. Dated a couple of great guys long term. I’d say that’s successful. You have to be smart about it and be careful. Harm can come from stupidity. Meet in a public place, in daylight, etc, etc. I am over hanging in bars. It’s how I met my ex husband. And well...he’s my ex.

I've met several women from here and a couple of other kink sites over the years. For the most part, the meets were successful and fun. I've only had two that I would say were not fun. I cannot stress enough that you need to be careful and follow common sense rules to avoid being a victim. That goes for guys as well as gals: just because she's a woman doesn't mean she isn't psycho or a criminal.

Once with from someone here.Was married and should have had my butt kicked to the curb,but it was what it was at the time.Now I'm a widow and miss him immensely.I don't have any desire to meet or date anyone again except as friends without benefits.It's just not worth risking my life again.I'm happy for the ones who made it work.

Yes on a few occasions some disaster that should be made into a movie, others were good.

I met someone on the internet and he invited me to his house for some fun. He was naked when he answered the door and I quickly shed my clothes also. As I watched his cock get hard, mine began to grow. We went into the bedroom and stretched out on the bed holding each others hard cocks. After some unspoken shuffling we began to suck each others cocks in a 69. After a bit, he pulled away and said "fuck me". I was happy to oblige. He knelt on the floor and bent over the bed so I could fuck him doggie style while playing with his cock. As I entered him, a woman came into the room just wearing panties. She came behind me and spread my ass cheeks and began to rim me. I was deep in his ass and playing with his cock when I something pressing against my asshole. Strangely, it felt like a hard cock and I pushed back to take it in. Suddenly, it was buried in me and felt so good it made me cum. The cock came out of my ass so I pulled mine out also., turned him around and sucked him until he came and filled my mouth with his cum, which I swallowed. I turned my attention to the woman who was now naked with a gorgeous hard uncut cock between her legs, a Trannie. What a surprise! We spent the rest of the day and night together sucking and fucking. The next morning I sucked and swallowed them both for breakfast and made arrangements to meet again before I left.

I have never met anyone on zity or any other kinky or fetish site, although I would be quite happy to meet someone who I had chatted with and became friends with. However I would only meet in a public place first , and for a first meeting I would want to meet for a drink or dinner, or something like that first.

I did once join a few on line dating sites.

I went on a few dates, but not that many, as I had stated that I was pre op trans on my profile. Obviously this drastically reduced the number of people who wanted to meet me.

Most were ok, and I went on 2 or 3 dates with , before one of us , or both of us decided that it was not a match.

There were a few who I only went on one date with. Either they were just time wasters, wanted sex from the first minute of meeting, or were not what they had described on their profile, and when we had chatted.

There was one particular one who was very nice, a perfect gentleman and I really liked him. We went on many dates, and I thought that it might go somewhere, but eventually, with each date he became more controlling, he would make comments like " you look very nice tonight , but you should have worn a different colour nail varnish", afterwards it would change to " I wish you had worn higher heels" , I wish you had worn a shorter skirt", I wish your top would have been a bit lower, so I could see more cleavage" , " I wish you would wear bright red lipstick" , " I wish you had worn stockings and suspenders with that short dress", and comments like that.

I was used to these requests when I was doing escort work. Then the client has the right for special requests, as he is paying for them, but I hated being controlled this way in real life.

I think that he kind of wanted a fantasy figure that he could control and dictate to.

Again in my kinky life, I am happy with this, but not in general everyday life, and especially as we were not in any proper kind of relationship.

So in some ways sadly I didn't continue meeting him.

Hmmm, about 5 times so far. None were "bad" although two were cases where the guy claimed to be a Dom but really seemed to be using that as a "hook" to get more responses, as in person they were not dominant at all. I'll be writing these up as stories, so not a lot of details. There was one in Brainerd Minnesota, I was supposed to have a guy come to my hotel room, but when his last email said he was about two beers in, I forgot to send him my room number. Between that and his tone, alarm bells went off. So three successes, one draw where it wasnt what I expected, but turned out pretty good, and one flop in FL. Not a bad track record.

I met my wife on the internet on a dating site I was getting tired of the internet dating scene I came across her profile and decided I will try this one more time and I'm glad I did

I, also, met my wife on the internet, in a Yahoo chat room - back in the day before dating sites/apps.

I've also met a few other guys on Craigslist that I've hooked up with. Since that went away, I've been trying on DoubleList with no success so far.

I sometimes get a real bug for being with another man. If any gay or bi guys wanna hook up with a bottom in Spokane - hmu! 😉

I met a woman on an adult chat site. We had things in common, shared pictures, got close, became intimate on line... The usual experience from what I've heard from others. I tried to convince her to meet me but she wouldn't but still professed love for me. It turned out that her picture was from an add. Her story was a total lie. She shaved about 8 years off her age and made up a story about an abusive husband , even a fictitious friend that saved her from him. It really was the typical experience.

@TomO

Yeah, probably the best decision would be to meet as soon as possible because someone online could be completely different person than what would you expect.