Fisting without really meaning to

How many have ended up with your "paly docs" hand inside of them without really trying? First one, then two fingsrs, etc...but when it gets heated up and things are lubed up well, I've ended up with my hand inside of two patients...they just couldn't seem to get "filled up" enough and they just kept pushing harder and harder against my fingers. If you curl your fingers up right, it's like a wedge that drives itself in...OR...the pussy just pushed against my hand so hard, it just went in....damn, it is so hot!

Fisting is an intense and highly emotional process for both parties in my opinion...but yes...at the right time, in the right situation it can happen almost unintentionally...I wonder if anyone's had a similar experience with anal fisting or if that requires far too much preparation for it to occur in that way

That's not the sort of thing, either vaginal or anal, that is going to happen without practice and/or intention and/or lots of force.

How does one "accidently" fist someone? Maybe I am just tighter than most perhaps?

The question I have now is "accidently" fisting sort of like, "Ooops, Doc, see, I accidently slipped in the shower and fell on the Coke bottle?" Seriously, yikes!

Mashie

I have tried fisting with my partner. However, I can never get past the fourth finger. I just don't think that it is going to work with me.

Lady Teddy, Pacific Northwest, USA

I came in to it by just seeing if I could add one more finger. The girl was usually curious too.. One time, I ran out of fingers with a woman, tried the thumb and that ended with my hand up in her.. Wasn't starting out to fist her, just happened as a matter of progression.

Yes I have encountered situations where she just wants more fingers and eventually the whole hand is in

It's more than a little surprising to me that the women responding are saying fisting isn't going to happen accidentally, and you guys are saying it does.

Keep dreaming guys.

I think that both lovers where playing and enjoying fantasies,

both very curious and aroused but also having some pleasurable experience of anal play,

and step after step, fantasy after fantasy, the receiver was fisted,

and no one of them thought to fist when kissing for the first time that day.

When passions, trust and confidence are shared at a huge level,

nothing is really surprising between two lovers I think.

Once with a young 24 years old patient during a prolonged bimanual with her at knee rests, the vaginal touch ended with 4 fingers inserted. The patient was obviously very aroused by the examination

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Once with a young 24 years old patient during a prolonged bimanual with her at knee rests, the vaginal touch ended with 4 fingers inserted. The patient was obviously very aroused by the examination

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That's NOT fisting.

4 fingers sure, fisting? If someone thinks they can 'accidentally' fist their partner then they've either never actually fisted someone or their partner was a horse.

Vaginal fisting wouldn't happen accidentally there has to be intent, and there's a big difference between four fingers and the whole hand. Women often find fisting too uncomfortable and painful even, and cannot take it. In my experience, women that have given birth naturally are more likely to be able to receive it.

There is a book available from Amazon which might be of interest...'A hand in the bush...the fine art of vaginal fisting' by Deborah Addington.

Dr Philip - The UK Play Doctor.

Things a Fistee does not want to hear:

That's odd, I thought I was wearing a watch this morning....

Seriously, insertion of a full hand including the thumb up to the wrist takes time and patience, and a vagina that has been dilated that far before. It does not happen by accident.

Considering, I have, for a FACT, done it that way Switchablesusie, I find it a little ignorant and arrogant on your part to speak like you know what happened. I was there. I did it. If you don't believe it, then fine, but don't sit there and pontificate like you're the all knowing goddess of the Universe.

SpecSteve, with all due respect here kiddo, I don't think Susie was talking to you or about you. You stated in your post that you

"I came in to it by just seeing if I could add one more finger. The girl was usually curious too.. One time, I ran out of fingers with a woman, tried the thumb and that ended with my hand up in her.. Wasn't starting out to fist her, just happened as a matter of progression."

You said, you were not starting out to fist her, but it just happened as a MATTER OF PROGRESSION. Which means that you probably took some time prior to your hand going completely in her to stretch her out, one finger at a time and with enough lube. We under stand that fisting her wasn't your initial plan, but happened because you progressed up to that slowly.

Maybe what Susie means, and again, she probably wasn't directing her comment at you, is that a guy just can't matter of factly start fisting a girl. It is a process that takes time, it's not easy. Some of the OTHER poster made it seem like fisting just happens and happens quickly, easily, and without prep work. Again, you didn't say that, so again, I don't think Susie's comment was directed towards you.

With all that being said, and with absolutely no respect intended, guys if you find a woman that you can spread her legs open and insert a fist easily, quickly and without intent on doing so, she has problems, and you had better have a horse dick. Just sayin....

So back down killer, it's all good.

Mashie

I know being a mistress if a person has been fisted enough either vaginally, or anally fisting can be easy to do and slip in. but if you have never been fisted before takes time and also depends on the size of the hands. I've only had woman fist me so far and takes a lot of gentle movement to get part the fingers. but that is just with me. there are all different vaginas, maybe you found someone more relaxed to accept the fist too, as is also a mental state thing as well. being relaxed and going with it defiantly helps 😃

I truly can't imagine getting a fist in there intentionally, never mind by accident! Although I am quite small (my gyn has even commented on this during exams several times), so maybe that's why it strikes me as being very, very beyond the possible.

Or am I being too closed-minded? Is fisting something anyone can accomplish with enough...determination? Practice? It just seems to me that I don't have the space to fit a whole hand in my vagina, and certainly other tiny women, too. But maybe anything's possible?

I only wish someone could fist me "without really trying"!

Even with persistant trying it doesn't seem that it will ever happen.

I think it's great your patients are on board with it. Also glad you

understood the 'need' for it and let it occur.

I had a friend with benefits and after having sex one time, I was on my knees and elbows and she was rubbing my back. Well, she migrated down to my ass and started fingering me. I kept pushing back so she kept pushing harder, and kept adding fingers until her fist was all the way inside me. She was amazed that she could fit her whole hand in my ass. It felt so good I jerked off and had the most amazing orgasm ever! When ever we get together now, the first thing she does is see how far she can get her fist up inside me.

It would seem unlikely to accidentally insert a fist inside someone rectum or vagina.

Of course for the guy an anal penetration can provide prostate stimulation and massage which helps along with masturbation.

For the ladies it is clear that vaginal fisting can bring sexual stimulation of a different kind. Anal penetration will give different benefits to different people and none at all to some.

'Doc' Nigel

Fisting isn't accidentel . it is a wonderful feeling . it takes time. but it is worth it .