Why is bondage so prominent in enema videos?

Enemas are used for embarrassment and humiliation in BDSM. It is VERY effective. Not only is the sub "forced" to open up to his/her most intimate body parts, but those parts are used to show him/her that they are totally under control by the Dom/Domme. Ain't it grand?

Here's one way I dominate my husband with enemas:

I tell him, "Give me a nice warm enema you fucking bastard (as I slap him in the face)! Give it to me nice and slow and gently suck on my clit as you rub your tongue over my entire pussy and while your at it, rub my belly ever so tenderly as the enema goes in, you scumbag. YOU BETTER MAKE ME CUM before all the enema solution flows inside me. If you don't, I'll make sure you don't feel a pussy for a month."

And that's how you dominate and get an enema at the same time. 😎 😎

I'm the kinkiest?? Telling someone how to lick yourself when you're getting an enema is rather tame. Shouldn't I be getting it the way I like it?

You did give me an idea, though. I never considered not cooking for him if a request of mine was denied. I've thought of not giving him any pussy, but then thought, why should I suffer?

Doing it in the parlor requires no one going to be home. A few years ago, I was flogging my naked husband in the music room, and our daughter, then 15, came home unexpectedly at 2 am when she was supposed to be at a friend's house for the night, and walked in on us! That was the end of our children not knowing all our kinks because the 15 year old told the 12 year old what she saw and then both daughters insisted on seeing our equipment room, and since the subject of that room had come up a year before, we showed them because we had been caught in the act.

I love D/S type of enema scenes 😉 Bondage is very sexy. Be it a little bondage or plenty of bondage. & yes, I found the Skylar Price video very sexy.

I think enemas are prominent in BONDAGE videos,

NOT

bondage is prominent in ENEMA videos

Here's one way I dominate my husband with enemas:

I tell him, "Give me a nice warm enema you fucking bastard (as I slap him in the face)! Give it to me nice and slow and gently suck on my clit as you rub your tongue over my entire pussy and while your at it, rub my belly ever so tenderly as the enema goes in, you scumbag. YOU BETTER MAKE ME CUM before all the enema solution flows inside me. If you don't, I'll make sure you don't feel a pussy for a month."

And that's how you dominate and get an enema at the same time. 😎 😎

Very nice technique. I've been curious for some time how you incorporate Dominance into some of your enema playing for your own (receiving an enema and orgasm) benefit. Thanks for the insight and story. Looking forward to your details eventually about your upcoming mummification/enema marathon - I'm sure it will be erotic to read.

Eric

. . . . . Looking forward to your details eventually about your upcoming mummification/enema marathon - I'm sure it will be erotic to read.

Eric

You forgot my colonoscopy that will be 24-36 hours before the restraints!

Sure, it's always erotic to watch someone else suffer! 🙄

Because being bound during an enema just accentuates the feelings of helplessness and perhaps humiliation at having your intimate space invaded and relentlessly filled with water against your control. For me, being dressed in tight rubber adds a similar feeling during an enema. Both or either make the enema that much more exciting and sexually satisfying.

Eric

Susie,

You could always volunteer to have your husband run a full length colonoscope up your colon during your upcoming experiment after you've been mummified in rubber and thoroughly cleaned out with enemas! I wish I currently had a partner to put me through a multi-hour (24-48 hr) rubber mummification/bondage/enema holding session like you're planning. It's been way too long since my last similar if shorter one which I adored and will never forget. I would be looking forward to hopefully multiple times during the session where I'd be very vocally moaning, complaining and begging about how hot and sweaty I was, how totally immobile and humiliated I was to keep having large amounts of water pumped into me and the sexual indignities perpetrated while so confined and filled. All so she could blithely ignore me and keep on with whatever else she was planning for me until I had shown her adequate humiliation and servitude to her needs.

Eric

You forgot my colonoscopy that will be 24-36 hours before the restraints!

Sure, it's always erotic to watch someone else suffer! 🙄

Of course. I wrote a recent post on another thread about this in a fantasy I'd like to experience about me being essentially taken captive aboard a coastal SCUBA Diving charter boat I've used before in order to be the sub or victim of a girlfriend and group of SCUBA women. They would make me perform many public acts of rubber and sneaker bondage, plugged SCUBA Diving, enforced enemas and other humiliations in front of a group of Domme diving women to enjoy watching me be dominated by my girlfriend over the course of several days diving on the boat. A good time would be had by all.

Eric

The enema itself is a form of restraint.

An enema of 2 qts or more forces you to stay in one position and work at retention for as long as 15 minutes.

With no other restraints at all, just the enema inside you!

In effect the enema dominates you. It's all you can think about during retention.

To take an enema you must submit, and make your body do something it does not want to do.

One of the first skills we all learn in life is control of our bowels. We learn it in the first couple of years of life.

An enema takes control of your bowels away from you. In that sense it infantilizes you!!! You are completely at it's mercy.

What could be more S&M??

It does feel a bit like a form of bondage during an enema, especially large ones like 3-5 quarts where you really feel the weight of the water inside you almost holding you down. I always enjoy the struggle to overcome the water weight and inertia when trying to roll over for position changes or even more to get up at the end to look at my belly in the mirror or go to the commode. It really does feel like a form of restraint, but from inside, not outside bondage. It can add a nice additional element of submission and humiliation to taking the enema if you enjoy that sort of feeling. For me with my fetishes, adding on a wetsuit or latex rubber suit to take the enema in also adds a nice little extra feeling of confinement or bondage as the rubber in addition to smelling erotic also puts a bit of pressure on my enema belly, further accentuating the enema effects.

Eric

Enemas put one in a very vulnerable position, not in control of one's self. The embarrassment and humiliation of the loss of control makes it a nice addition to the bdsm play. The discomfort adds to the punishment aspects and the reliance on another dominant person to allow the release adds to the fun too.

Here's one way I dominate my husband with enemas:

I tell him, "Give me a nice warm enema you fucking bastard (as I slap him in the face)! Give it to me nice and slow and gently suck on my clit as you rub your tongue over my entire pussy and while your at it, rub my belly ever so tenderly as the enema goes in, you scumbag. YOU BETTER MAKE ME CUM before all the enema solution flows inside me. If you don't, I'll make sure you don't feel a pussy for a month."

And that's how you dominate and get an enema at the same time. 😎 😎

Susie,

I've enjoyed sexual enemas for over 50 years, still going strong at 66. I'm so glad you and others enjoy your enemas and orgasms so much that you like ordering them for yourself when being a Domme as well as in a sub or equal role. I've never ordered myself an enema while being a (switch) Dom with my partner, but I'll have to try it sometime. Thanks for the suggestion and technique.

Eric

I agree with manybags, the Return of Kaz vid from the Collector is a great example of how an enema vid should look. Her body language is perfect and the entire vid keeps your attention. Let’s face it, after insertion, there isn’t a lot to watch if the person just lays there. Perhaps except for the bag emptying. I guess that’s why all this other stuff gets added. Oh, and keep the milk stuff, ok?

A part of me understands why bondage, punishment, humiliation and pain is a part of many enema videos but I'd love to find a source for videos and photography which portrays this ritual as pure erotic, sensual pleasure--both giving and receiving, and especially between male and female. Anyone know of any?

The enema is somewhat of a control issue so it has a feeling of slight bondage. But the expulsion viewing is a bit of control but also nice to watch. A chocolate milk enema, well, that is something that a women introduced me to and it certainly brings back fond memories.

Because so many are not willing to submit and take one.

But so many other are @tommyqwerty …. lol ….. btw where is the waiting line ??? I want one! 😉 Just need a lady to help!

Za

Its the art of surrender and a turn on for me.

Enemas ARE a form of bondage.

They tell you what you can do and when you have to do it!!

“Take it bitch” comes to mind. 😂

Would definitely love to do a bondage enema at some point. The thought of being strapped down and a big long nozzle being inserted…

Because so many are not willing to submit and take one.

@tommyqwerty I disagree. They have to agree to both the bondage and enema - so I think they are willing to take an enema - the bondage part is just an enhancement, or vice versa the enema is an enhancement to the bondage.

Unless someone is physically forced into bondage without consent and then given an enema - well, that's just not good fetish manners!!! 😄

The OP asked: “I ask WHY is every video so damn WEIRD? Bondage. Masks. Bathtub expuulsions.”

@ohohseven stated it very well. https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=469001

Because it's porn. That's what sells - or at least they think what will sell. There are sites like enema erotica etc. that make enema flicks that are medical, enjoyment, pleasurable etc. as well.

I agree with this, granted that I do enjoy seeing bondage with enemas as I love the loss of control it gives but many of the videos I have seen tend to be heavily rubber themed and the enema volumes seem so small or poorly illustrated/filmed that you cant even get an idea of if they are taking anything. I once saw a clip of a mistress giving another an enema and she kept pushing the bag which just overflowed the bag causing it to spill, which I thought was pointless.

But as to the main question I think bondage is so popular is because its porn but most the times as I mentioned above, when bondage or other kinks are present the actual enemas can be overshadowed by how much is going on in the scene and poorly represented.