You know guys, lets think about things here for a minute before we stone the man to death. He has not posted his story, so how can we judge it? He simply asked a question as to what the implications are, is it possible. He clearly states that in his story, the woman who just gave birth wanted to have sex. He never said anything about her being forced to have sex.
Also what we have to realize is that BDSM means different things to everyone. Bondage to me is soft medical restraints, bondage to someone else might be to be put into a small dog cage. Doesn't mean either of us are wrong, just different.
Again, we can say the same things about people definition of sane. People who hang from hooks in my opinion are neither safe nor sane, but that's just my opinion. I have done things in my medical play that I know by law are not considered "safe", and people who know how I have played probably don't think I am sane, but I beg to differ. It's all relative.
Persi, with all due respect, please keep in mind that really BDSM is different things to different people. Remember that publications like 50 Shades are NOT written for us, they are written for the vanilla housewives who don't know any better. For them it's a pathway into our kinky world. It's a way for them to take the first step, maybe discover what they have been missing or have wanted but didn't know where to go, what to say, or who to ask. If they read the books and think it's something they want to explore more, then they will. And once inside our kinky little club house they will make and find BDSM things that suit their needs and desires, thus making it again, their own. While books like these might not be exactly how we would like to present ourselves to the world, baby steps my friend, baby steps. Smacking them in the face with what you might feel is real BDSM would most likely scare folks away, which in turn would shove us even more underground than we already are.
I have said it before, and I will say it again. 30 years ago our gay population was still in the closet, afraid to come out. Slowly they came out little by little. We as a nation started to become desensitised, and eventually became accepting. I for one would love that to happen to us, no matter what kink we have. Just sayin.......
Mashie