Vaginal Lube for Prostate Massage

I tried the wildest trick on my husband this past weekend. We were messing around Saturday night, both of us were getting pretty worked up. He loves prostate stimulation, and I try to do this for him ever so often because it's healthy for guys to have it done. After a little gentle caressing of his behind as he layed on his side, I wet the middle finger of my right hand with my own vaginal lubrication. The twist is I let him see me do it. Then I reached between his legs, and gently penetrated him anally for the prostate massage. Vaginal lube is very effective, my finger slipped in a couple inches with the slightest effort. He let out a sigh of disbelief. He face was flushed red, he got goosebumps all over his body...he was in total ecstasy. I milked him as vigorously as I could without hurting him, along with pressing on his perineum with my thumb, and a handjob. He didn't last long, not even a fourth as long as he usually does. He had an extremely intense orgasm. I often don't see him cry out loud during ejaculation, but he did that time. I just kept milking him for all he was worth until his anus clamped down and he erupted. His body was so drained after that. I think the psychological aspect is what made the difference. It's an erotic rush for most guys just having their female companion penetrate them in such a forbidden place as the rectum. By using your body's own lubrication, you're putting part of you inside him, which to him can be viewed a show of love. He'll also be on fire because that little slippery digit that feels so good in his rearend just came from a part of your own body that gives him so much pleasure.

Do this for him just once, and he'll be wrapped around your finger....literally! But don't forget hygiene by any means. Make sure he gets an enema before putting your fingers up his behind. If not, wear a vinyl glove.

And most importantly....DO NOT HAVE YOUR HAND ANYWHERE NEAR YOUR VAGINA AFTER IT'S BEEN IN HIS RECTUM!

Be kinky and have fun....BUT STAY SAFE.

NURSE NIKKI that's so hot!

An extremely well written account Nurse Nikki - thank you - especially for the caution expressed about Vagina before Rectum and not the other way around.

Would that some of the so called nurses and doctors who feature in video clips were aware of it!

Well written. I love it when my little woman takes control. Nothing better to get your prostate messaged.

He is a lucky man!

That's a good way to give him some lube, but YOU CAN ONLY ACQUIRE PUSSY JUICE ONCE FROM EACH HAND UNLESS YOU KEEP CHANGING GLOVES, which my husband and I never use. Each time you change gloves, YOU LOSE WHAT EVER LUBE IS LEFT ON THAT HAND/GLOVE and a new amount of pussy juice is needed just to get back to where you were just to wet the new glove, so you will run out of pussy juice pretty fast, and I don't care how young and wet the vagina it comes from is.

Therefore, you are eventually going to need supplemental lube from a bottle if you plan on any type of extended play.

Sounds soooo hot......and I bet he will never forget that either!

What a lucky guy!

Well written! And at least one lucky guy we know now!!!

Yes have been massaged a number of times by my partner with vaginal lube. Have always found it to be extremely arousing and very clean and natural.

How emotionally sexy. to have the love juices of your partner used for your pleasure by that partner. I often would scoop up and use her own juices to massage her clit. unfortunately with age there is not so much lube to go around as there once was. for regular play even we have to resort to additional lubes. The only good part to this is the ablity to find quality lubes with different warming agents like menthol. kind of an adjunct to the great Dr. Bronners peppermint soap for enemas they give that hot and cold feeling depending if they are blown on or covered. I'm shivering now. Where is that wife?

That really does feel good, both physically and emotionally. Having the LOVE OF YOUR LIFE penetrate your "forbidden place" is to me an ultimate show of love and trust. But when she uses her own body's lubricaton, it makes it even that much more special. And just like Nikki said, you'll probably get goosebumps and cry out loud when you have that unavoidable explosive orgasm. My second girlfriend did it to me twice. But I would love for my wife to do this for me sometime soon.

When I was 20, I dated a 25 year old chick named Andrea. She was the kinkiest partner I've ever been with to this day. One evening she was sitting on the couch naked, and asked me to walk up to her. She pulled down my shorts and underwear, then had me slip them off the rest of the way leaving me completely naked. She started giving me a handjob and it felt good. I looked down at her, and she was masturbating with her other hand. She looked back up at me and said "I'm going to give you something new and special baby." I didn't know what she was getting at, but she started picking up the pace stroking me. I was super aroused, but not quite ready to come. I was looking up at the ceiling, marveling at how good her hand felt. All the sudden, I felt her other hand go between my legs, then a slippery finger went between my cheeks and plunged far up my rectum. I gasped out loud...."NO HONEY!!" She said "easy baby, easy...I know it's a little uncomfortable now, but you're gonna love it, trust me". I had involuntarily tried to block the insertion by closing my legs and squeezing my cheeks together. Too late for that, her right index finger was up me as far as she could get it. It really didn't hurt that much, thanks to her own vaginal lubrication, which is as good as K-Y. It happened so sudden, and I'd never had a finger up there before. She slowly used the soft pad of her finger to massage me internally, withdrawing a little at a time until she was inside me up to her second knuckle. Then the magic happened. She arched her finger back toward my penis, directly up against my prostate. I gasped even more this time, but with pure joy. I'd never felt anything so intense. I relaxed immediately, and she got more vigorous with that finger. She literally milked me. I'd didn't know that us men could anatomically do such a thing, but lots of clear fluid started oozing out of my penis. And I hadn't even ejaculated yet. Andrea looked up at me real sultry and said "feels good doesn't it hon." I couldn't answer, I was in total ecstasy, but she could tell she was doing the job on me by my breathing. She jacked me furiously, and with one last firm pull of her finger I spurted all over her breasts until I nearly lost control of my legs and collapsed. That was amazing, and I've loved prostate massage ever since. Through anatomy studies, Andrea had learned that a man needs to have his prostate drained every so often to help prevent cancer and urinary problems. And other than the experience being physically fulfilling and intense for the man, it also helps bring him closer emotionally to his female partner. I'm inclined to agree, and my wife now does this for me from time to time. I'm very thankful for it each time she does it.

Having sex in the missionary position, when I occaisionally have trouble "getting there," my wife gathers a little of our juices on her finger and reaches around behind me to tease or penetrate my asshole. When I realize what she is about to do, I feel a surge of arousal. Once she does it, I cannot hold back for more than a half minute or so. Definitely wicked!

Karma Nurse Nikki. He is a very lucky man, wish we were all so lucky as to have a woman like you in our lives.

I;ll certainly suggest that to my girlfriend this weekend. She always wears a glove, and lots of lube for the prostate massage. The 'different' lube might make a big difference!

One thing I forgot to mention is to make sure he's ready to be entered first. Sometimes it really doesn't matter how well lubricated your finger is. If your partner isn't prepared both mentally and physically to have you penetrate him rectally, it can hurt, or still be an uncomfortable experience. It helps to first gain solid trust with him. He may feel more comfortable first letting you massage his anus externally, or perhaps just gently massage his perenium. If he enjoys this, then he's probably going to be ready for you to stimulate him internally. If he shies away from your finger during external stimulation, or acts negatively toward you touching his anus, then you probably ought not try putting your finger inside him. Some guys just don't like having their butts played with, but most do. I've also learned, that by giving him a warm enema an hour or so beforehand will help to make him more receptive to penetration if he's never had anything up his behind. He will be over the anxiety of being rectally penetrated, and the enema will help to relax him and make him feel better.

But in any case, guys are just like girls when it comes to being penetrated by the opposite sex. You have to be prepared. For the man who's never been penetrated rectally, a female's finger can still feel really big going up inside him, especially if she isn't gentle.

Awesome, I love this. It has been a long time since my wife has done this but ohhh man is it awesome when it comes around. I wish it was more often but that is the way it goes.

The only thing hotter I could think of would be period blood as lube. It's not the "most" lubricating thing of all but the emotional ride..hotness.

What a lucky husband

Ass touch and especially penetration is always appreciated here!

So I would like to be spoiled

Very hot, as he is a lucky guy. most females I have with definitely would not that the lead in that regard.

This i the best when it happens.

Somewhat off topic, however, since it was mentioned in the first post regarding prostate massage being healthy. I've read conflicting material. Some say it is and others link cancer to it. Myself, I started experimenting with various toys and attempts to massage my prostate. And after a couple of years I had an x-ray (un related) in which my doctor found a dark spot on my prostate, which involved blood work. The results were fine, but I backed away (pun intended) from this activity until I know more about it.

The big issue with prostate massage is that there really isn't any good data either way. There are some preliminary-type studies showing that it can be beneficial, and some studies showing in certain cases of prostatitis massage and antibiotics doesn't seem to be better than antibiotics alone. I have heard from some medical people who seem to have their head screwed on straight that it could very well be good, but that there (again) aren't any quality studies, especially about prostate massage as a preventative.

The "dangerous" parts seem to be pretty well defined from what I've read. Don't do it if you have active prostatitis unless a doctor specifically recommends it, as it can spread the infection and cause big problems. I didn't listen to this one, and can assure you that it does apply to chronic bacterial prostatitis flare-ups as well as acute bacterial prostatitis, though fortunately it only caused small (but quite painful) problems for me (significantly increased pain and a fever - BUT I was ALREADY on Cipro, things could have been worse if I wasn't).

Second would be if you have prostate cancer, as vigorous massage could potentially cause the cancer to spread and metastasize.

It would be nice to see some quality studies, but I can understand why they aren't forthcoming. Participants may be hard to come by, and I would imagine few doctors would consider being associated with prostate massage to be a guaranteed career-builder, even if they came up with some solid answers.