Who likes to be an ADULT who likes to wear diapers?

I love wearing my nappy and plastic panties and even a sissy dress in my fantasy world I am a sissybaby Samantha too

Per my "ABDL scene" experience the vast majority is just adult Diaper Lovers i.e. vanilla clothing fetishists. Many post pics of their hairy legs sticking out of a full (plain white adult) diaper. Others enjoy intercourse in a partly worn or temporarily removed diaper, as well, as oral sex with it on. Whether there are nursery print onesies, pacifiers, bottles, or other baby paraphernalia, is hardly relevant, because the fucking/sucking action itself hints at the 100% adult-themed sexuality.

I am a minority, as I like "pure" age regression fantasies without any sex or, believe you or not, diapers. A hypothetical scenario of peeing your pants after being regressed to the preschool or early school age offers more humiliation potential for me. As well, as baths and wet/dirty pants changes. Diaper changes too: imaginary public ones. But just wearing diapers, smelling the baby powder, and listening to them crinkle doesn't turn me on.

Being diapered isn't an AB thing for me. It seems like there are far more ppl into the AB fetish which makes me wonder if I'm missing out on something fun.

Have had wear for over 25 years now and find that by "embracing" the whole nappy thing makes life so much better and easier to cope with which could be a big unpleasant problem under normal circumstances.

Count me in! I'm simply a DL, as opposed to AB. Diapers provide a carefree, natural way to release urine that feels so comfy and warm as it flows into the diaper, where retention of body heat adds to the soft fiber-soaked mass in such a sensitive area. The best of modern disposable diapers are treated to inhibit diaper rash and odor of urine to a large degree and the feel of the soft warm plastic under outer protective pants is so incredible.

A diaper-clad female, whether AB or DL is incredibly alluring.

I have urge urinary incontinence and must wear a diaper 24/7. I have learned to enjoy the diaper that I need, and that makes wearing them much easier. However, I always think of myself as an adult.

For me, I have urge Incontinence and I have to wear diapers, 24/7/365. I learned that diapers make my life a whole lot easier to deal with and I have one less thing to ever worry about in life. Diapers simply make the adult world much more bearable and stress free,

I started wetting almost 30yrs ago and was returned to diapers to keep things dry due to being a diabetic.I since have adjusted and feel very secure in diapers but not a ab.

ME! Being retired I sit in my very wet diaper EVERY morning for 2-5 hours watching CNN or Looney Toons, and drinking from my Ba Ba, or sucking on my binkie! So I am a Adult baby as well as a diaper lover!

I'm pretty much entirely a DL and love just wearing them as much as possible, in as many circumstances as possible.

I don't own any AB stuff, and I don't want to be treated like a baby. However, I do have some fantasies about being a 10 year old boy who's a bedwetter being forced to wear nappies to bed.

Me? I'm both an ab and a dl. I got home from work for a good pampering. I took a nice shower, shaved my legs, took a nice coffee enema using the douche nozzle while wearing a diaper. I thought of touching up my nsil polish, but my turquoise toenails look fine. Now, I am going to masturbate.

"watching CNN or Looney Toons" ...and there isn't that much difference between those two channels nowadays! :-)

I wear diapers 24/7 for my incontinence and consider myself as a DL. I do enjoy wearing them after accepting the need to wear them which took time at the beginning. However I dont wish for people to see or notice that I'm wearing. I'm very private about my incontinence and wearing diapers.

Throughout my life I've pretty much covered the entire "spectrum" on this one, but the bottom like is that I mostly just love wearing diapers--thick cloth, soaking wet, pee-reeking and sometimes loaded diapers--and I like being someone old enough to know better and know that it's "wrong" but I still do it anyway because I love it.

That being said, part of why I love it is because it makes me feel so childish and babyish and throughout my life I've had a fascination with seeing anyone in diapers who is way older than the usual potty-training age but still in them anyway--either because they refuse to give them up or because their parents make them wear them for various reasons.

I really love the "I know I'm too old for this but I'm doing it anyway because I love it" aspect of it. It's very similar to "I really shouldn't eat that big piece of chocolate cake, it's not good for me, I'm too overweight and don't need it, but I'm going to do it anyway!" Back in the 1980s there was a gourmet brand of ice cream and they ran commercials featuring a very pretty lady sitting there with an empty pint of ice cream telling everyone "I ate ALL of the Fruzen Gladje. And I don't feel the least bit guilty!" Very similar to that (and in fact when that was on TV all the time I'd go around telling myself "I'm 25 years old and I'm wearing smelly, soaking wet diapers! And I don't feel the least bit guilty!"

So is that an AB thing? I personally don't think so, for me the AB thing involves having someone else care for you like you're a baby, changing your diapers, dressing you in baby clothes, the bottle, the paci, playing with baby toys, etc.

But, that being said, I did experiment with that part of it for several years with an ex-girlfriend who for a while let me enjoy my diapers--until she didn't (that story is told elsewhere on the site) and then my wife (mostly in the years before she was my wife). We did the bottle / baby formula / baby food / baby toys thing for a while and while it was fun, I learned that it wasn't what I really enjoyed about this. And several years later when we had kids and REALLY DID have a baby in the house, I then discovered that--for me--all my "fantasies" about being a baby again weren't realistic. Kind of like when you think you're in love with someone only to later get to know them and find out they're not who you dreamed and fantasized that they were.

So since then it's been all about the diapers. Wearing them, using them, getting off in them, filling up the diaper pail with them, smelling them, enjoying the way they feel and smell--along with the notion that I'm a full-grown adult but I still just love wearing DIAPERS!!

But I also have a Nuk 5 pacifier which I love, several baby onesies, very babyish plastic pants, a t-shirt that says "I (HEART) WET STINKY DIAPERS", and other "baby" items. I also sometimes enjoy an occasional visit to the "sissy" side and have a ruffly pink diaper cover, a pink "PAMPERS" shirt and a few other sissy things. It all just depends on what mood I'm in.

And sometimes I'm not in the mood for it at all. It's very much a mild version of the "binge and purge" thing with me (though years ago I learned that when doing the "purge" just box up my "stuff" and put it away, don't get rid of it, because there WILL be a next time). And I find that when I'm stressed or emotionally exhausted I'm drawn to my diapers way more than other times (like right now, dealing with very old parents, I think I've been wearing / sleeping in my diapers 4-5 nights a week because they relax and comfort me).

So, sorry for rambling on and on but I guess the point I'm making is, there are so many different aspects or "flavors" of this wonderful fetish, it's kind of hard to fit some of us into "this category" or "that category". But for the most part I guess that yes, I mostly do like being an ADULT who loves my diapers. I enjoy doing adult things when wearing my diapers. And I enjoy thinking about the humiliation I'd experience if everyone else knew I am an adult who chooses to wear diapers--not because I need them but because I LOVE THEM!

Diaper wearing is something, which makes me a feel helpless and embarrassed, especially when I use them like a child. I stand still for a moment and unload and feel very nasty. But I love pretending that I am forced to using them, even when I am alone. As a sissy there is also a special touch to the anal issue especially with regard to cleanness. You soil them and you have to clean them. They do smell and you still keep them in your sissyroom to feel the humiliation even longer. You know you should be clean but you mess them over and over again.

Diapers weren't on my radar anywhere until I lost continence at around 25 .

I didn't choose them they chose me .I don't decide to use them or not to,anyplace,anywhere nothing is sacred . I have Neurogenic bowel & Bladder ,incontinence and functional incontinence , the last one simply means that even if I had warning I needed to go ,it would be impossible to physically do it ,my body used to enjoy pulling my chaining giving me enough warning that I could (as my doctor says) heroically attempt to use the toilet ,only for my diaper to get it ,i have been known in the past to shatter a toilet or two by hitting it with my chair ,and there is just no way now for me to remove my harness ,remove clothes and diaper , transfer to toilet and use it,and then redo it in reverse and get myself back into my chair , thats what i have an aide for ,to do what I can't.

Unfortunately them using the toilet doesn't do much for me ,except as diaper to floor interface . I am always an adult diaper user ,there was a time in my life i wasn't and happily used a toilet ,now it can't be done ,and like every area of aquirring a disability later in life ,accepting your "new normal" is mandatory ,trying to fight to do what used to be easy is pointless stubborn hardship you force yourself to endure .

I'm not an AB.......I'm a regular guy who has no bladder control.... I did enjoy diapers before I was injured..so wearing diapers 24-7 now is no problem for me. Dan

Never done any AB , not in to baby stuff. I guess I do age play of a sort in my head, ages from 8 to 14 bed wetters or diaper lovers. No sissy stuff either.

I've had something of a compulsion to wear cloth diapers and rubber pants since I was a teenager. I never felt like I wanted to be a child, or regress in some manner, just have diapers on and be able to wet them whenever I felt like it. Diapers have always offered a sexual release as well, I first got off wearing diapers and for years that was the only time I did. For years now, I love having diapers on, especially when they are wet, and be around other people who don;t know and risk the possibility of being discovered. Or as has happened several times, tell someone, always a women, that I wear diapers, that I wet myself, even mess myself, and hope she will still want to be with me. Eventually that wasn't enough and I met a woman, fell in love, told her I loved to wear diapers for pleasure and now I wear diapers nearly full time, get to wear them around her and the family, and while sometimes embarrassing, always at least a little humiliating, I can't stop, love when my wife changes my diapers and have sex with me while she changes my diapers.

To answer in two words, I do.

I, like all diaper wearing adults, will sometimes rumble an AB thought, image or scenario around in my head, but that is not really me. I just love to wear diapers, wet or dry. I love the feeling of wetting of an already wet diaper, I love the feeling of a fresh dry just-pinned-on diaper. I love the look of a thick fluffy cloth diaper around my behind and crotch, I love the look, sound and feel of a pair of rustly plastic pants over top that diaper. In short, I belong in diapers!

I often think about being seen in a diaper by the outside world, and just the other night I went for a short diaper walk in a quieter part of downtown Montreal. I wanted to be seen, but I have to admit, am a little less comfortable about this now that 20 years ago. I will do it again when I can, and if I can't I will find some other way to tempt fate and be that diaper wearer I have always wanted to be.

100 percent DIAPER LOVER (DL) here. I don't like wearing diapers, I LOVE wearing diapers 24/7. Being seen wearing diapers in public isn't my thing. A little diaper crinkle in public is just fine with me.

I was born with a neurogenic bladder and some other nerve damage and have very little control over my bowels. So I’ve been in diapers and plastic plastic my whole life and actually love my diapers and plastic pants and having to wear them all the time and every where I go and even if they could fix me I would turn them down because I love every thing about my diapers and plastic pants and having no choice but to always wear my diapers and plastic pants, and I know that someday soon I’ll meet that special lady who also wears her diapers 24/7 and uses her diapers for everything and just like me loves her diapers too!❤️🧷🧷🧷🧷

Definitely DL here. I hate having wet pants or waking up in a wet bed. The only way I can avoid that is with diapers.

That said, I do enjoy many of the AB diapers. Many brands work very well and provide some variety in my 'underwear'.

I like wearing diapers. I enjoy not having to worry about wetting the bed. It also brings back memories of wearing diapers as an older child. I don't consider myself an adult baby but I do enjoy wearing colorful printed diapers and feminine colors just like I do with regular underwear. I wear high capacity diapers and extra pads and plastic pants. I like the bill between my legs and I like the feel of a heavy wet diaper during the night and morning.

I do like wearing diapers while doing adult things. The thought of having a diaper on and being checked while doing adult things excites me. Even sucking on pacifier or drinking from a bottle while doing adult things

Being an adult who likes to wear diapers and plastic pants is an apt description for me. While wearing I often hark back to when I was seven and eight and was diapered and embarrassed if someone knew that I was wearing diapers and plastic pants.

The DL side of ABDL seem to be under so much of the shadow of the AB side. But yeah, for me it's only the comfort, utility of wearing. Nothing to do with the baby side.

Yes, that's me and also who I'd love to meet as far as a female into this. I'm not into the ageplay aspect of it at all, so the whole "daddy" thing that so many women are into, while not a total dealbreaker, is not my preference. I'd like to wear or meet a female who likes to wear for the enjoyment of the diaper, the taboo nature of it. I once met a female in person (just to chat) who I think fit this; she described herself as a DL but had dabbled in AB stuff a bit. We didn't end up playing, unfortunately. It's difficult to find women into the fetish in this way as most wear to fulfill an ageplay fetish.

The DL side of ABDL seem to be under so much of the shadow of the AB side. But yeah, for me it's only the comfort, utility of wearing. Nothing to do with the baby side.

Hi Meddream, that is an interesting te read. Can you tell more about this?

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Hi Meddream, that is an interesting te read. Can you tell more about this?

ABDL diaper company, make a vast majority of babyish design. aren't that many plain white or "medical style". Your kind of stuck between the medical side and the AB one.

Or What I would said, online community are more focused on Adult baby, than the diaper lover. Don't get me wrong, it not only baby stuff, but more a majority.

I guess it kind of the difference between rational and emotional. Or what we see is most likely the "vocal" part and not the whole reality.