Prostate Stimulators

'Hands Free' orgasms in prostate stimulation are not universally obtainable. Most will need manual stimulation to go with it. However, it's usually quicker and more intense than masturbation alone.

Some men can ejaculate from prostate stimulation alone but it's almost invariably different from a masturbatory orgasm in that, rather than the ejaculate spurting along with intense pleasure, it's more of a slow emission over perhaps a minute instead of a few seconds, simply caused by the mechanical pressure on the prostate gland and often referred to as 'milking' or even 'orgasm denial'.

The same applies to e-stim.

Regarding the Aneros...

Try lubing the tip only for easy insertion - too much lube and it just plops out. Another method wear a crotchless panty and interlace the leg bands into the exterior curves of the Aneros. If that doesn't work then find a tight fitting compression panty (bike pant) to keep pressure on keeping the Aneros in place - Note you will have to cut a hole for the business equipment to be available and accessible. A panty girdle would work also. A (locking) chastity device or sorts could also keep the Aneros in place on a more consistant basis very similiar to a butt plug being captivated by a leather or metal harness. It is helpful to have the anal track cleaned (enema) or vacated beforehand so that fecal matter is not causing more intense pressure to force out the Aneros device.

Give it a go and see if this helps ! BabyLock

Hi all,

Not sure if I am posting this in the right place but here goes.

I have just watched a video of prostate milking. Now this is what I don't understand, I thought that when your prostate was 'milked' that there was an abundance of fluid. What I witnessed was just the same or thereabouts as a normal ejaculation.

I myself have never had what seems to be a proper milking so can't really comment as I do not know.

Hi all, Not sure if I am posting this in the right place but here goes. I have just watched a video of prostate milking. Now this is what I don't understand, I thought that when your prostate was 'milked' that there was an abundance of fluid. What I witnessed was just the same or thereabouts as a normal ejaculation. I myself have never had what seems to be a proper milking so can't really comment as I do not know.

What you witnessed is what happens in just about everybody. The way to get maximal fluid is to have an orgasm. Milking will result in what you saw. If milking is done for an hour or so (tiring for the giver) you can get more fluid, but under normal circumstances, what you saw is what is typical.

Did I say it enough times for you guys to get it???

Stop worrying that some guy is getting it better than you because they aren't.

Besides, most guys lie like a rug.

Thanks for the clarification Susie. I wasn't worried, I just didn't know. But do now so thanks again.

I'd discovered my Prostate way before any medical or sexuality readings. There were these plastic "Drink Stirrers" in a box on the kitchen sink that we used to stir powdered drinks. And another one on a shelf in the medicine cabinet next to a bottle of yellow powder that mom said was something ladies used that boys did not need to. I'd wondered if she meant the powder or the stirrer or both. This was before discovering anything about enemas or douches. She had been treating me for constipation with Castoria or suppositories.

I got the idea that since having a thermometer put in me by a babysitter felt good, one of the sitrrers would too. It did. I'm still unsure of what age I discovered what or in what exact order anymore but that stirrer had square edges which felt GOOD at first. But, it left me frustrated as they just seemed not all they could be.

I tried a tool handle's smooth plastic end and on the first try- it soon hit a spot that felt..VERY good.

Arguably, that's how I ended up here.

Both this thread and Zity:} I soon innocently asked my mom " that stuff in the jar you said that boys don't need-is it a not need like gramma's makeup we play with anyways or? " She laughed, said it's for women like a sort of makeup that gets used to make them feel better about themselves. And then she laughed about my curiousity to try things could get me in trouble if I wasn't careful, I thought that the powder somehow would make more of the good feeling and soon I discovered "the bag" that smelled of when I'd seen the powder on the sink. and what was on the end of the hose looked like it could feel good.

I gave myself my first enema with COLD water and the bag hung directly from the showerhead. It hurt so bad it was almost my last. BUT! it also made the same GOOD feeling at the same time! Prostate again?

I've come from cramps alone several very memorable times in my life and it's an elusive fetish to have as prostate stim that way. So I use various crystal wand devices or vibes and dildos sometimes with a powerful back of the hand vibrator.

The hardest part of a good prostate milking session for me is the stupidly silly GRIN that stays o my face for a long time.

I love a good PM. My first time was quite by accident in an Asian massage parlour. The therapist (sic) gave me a pretty good massage then started the soft touch and lightly brushed my anus with her finger nails - I loved that and responded with lifting my ass for her slightly. She started rubbing around my anus, before lubing up a finger and slipping it in (somehow she put on a finger puppet glove thing without me noticing). As she penetrated me further I lifted my ass up for her until I was on all fours, doggy style, and she was fucking my ass! She then slowed down and told me to relax. She pushed deeper and woooow! Prostate heaven... After a five minutes of massaging I came hard - the first time ever without direct simulation of my penis. Got to love those AMPs... An education and the start of a more heathly relationship with my prostate!

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It's been a couple of years since I had my first prostate massage. I had been having some problems urinating so I went to see my Doctor about it. He wanted to put me on one of the prostate medications but after he told me about all the possible side effects I asked if there wasn't something else I could try instead. He said that a prostate massage might help but that he didn't perform them and didn't know of any doctors in my area that did.

I told him I would see what I could find and would be back if I decided to take the meds. I did some research on the internet and found a professional male masseur that said he did prostate massages. I made an appointment for the following week. Upon arriving at his studio I was quite pleased with the layout. He introduced himself to me and asked me some questions about my problems and what I wanted to accomplish in the session. He then took me into the massage room which was dimly lit and had soft music playing. He had me completely undress and lay on the table. He asked if I wanted a drape but said it would just get in the way so I opted not to use one. He started out with a nice soft massage of my back and shoulders using a very nice oil. He then skipped down to my feet and legs. By this time I was extremely relaxed and enjoying the massage immensely. After finishing my legs he moved to my buttocks again softly massaging them with the oil. Very gradually he started to move more down into my crack and then very subtly over my anus. He did this for a while letting me get used to the feel. Then he put on a latex glove and added a lot of oil to the glove and to my anus. Very slowly and gently he began inserting his finger into me. It was the strangest feeling but kind of nice. He slowly worked his finger back and forth going a little further each time he went in. He eventually reached the prostate and began the massage. He explained to me what he was doing during the entire procedure. He said there are different quadrants to the prostate and that he works each one of them individually. He said he could tell it was swollen. When he started massaging it I instantly got an erection. He said not to worry about that because most men do. I wasn't sure what to expect. He said some men have an orgasm while others just release the fluid in a continuous flow. I was the latter. I could feel the fluid seeping out of my penis while he was doing it but I never had an actual orgasm. It did however feel quite nice. After about 5 minutes he removed his finger and said we were done. and he wiped off the excess oil. When I got up from the table I saw a small puddle of the fluid under me. I was still semi erect but didn't really feel aroused. The massage helped my problem a lot and I now go back about twice a year just to keep it regular.

Lov the feeling of massaging the prostate, its kinda hard for me to do it myself, my hand gets tired. I would like to find a guy that would like to take turns massaging each other. 😄

I enjoy PM I use Aneros devices and e-stim to massage my prostate to release the fluid. I also have exchange massage sessions with my friends were we massage each other's prostate.

Its fantastic

I too tried the aneros but unable to insert it. I went to there web site tried many diffrent ways still unable to insert it. Was wondering if any one else had this problem. I tried to my finger in the anus but unable to find my prostate. Im over 6 foot tall was wondering if prostate is located further up?

When we moived my wife told me that I needed to find a new doctor and to make sure I had my prostate examed. She went with me and told the doctor that I needed the prostate felt. Before we went , my wife gave me an enema.

My SO treats me to this a couple of times a month, or whenever I ask. She uses a latex glove, which makes it more enjoyable for both of us. It's not an every day kind of thing, but the experience is very intense for me when it happens. A lot of the pleasure comes from the level of trust we have for each other.

@Thypuc I have been milked to the point where I was unable to ejaculate. I think it is a matter of personal anatomy. It takes time and some skill on the part of the milker. I have never been able to ejaculate by prostate massage alone without penis stimulation. I understand some males are able to pump their load by prostate stimulation alone. We are all a little different in our anatomical detail.

I would love to find myself an almost local "medical professional" to massage and milk my prostate for me... Any volunteers?

Switchablesusie has the right idea on this, just as she does with most topics. Her guy is one lucky dude when sexuality is the issue. I have found that prostate stimulation is addictive and enhances the overall sexual experience. I also try my darndest to provide a satisfying G-spot experience for my partner. They seem to be quite similar in many ways. Unhurried and methodical effort seems to be critical.

I find that my old fashioned enema/douche nozzle with the rounded/bulbous head is an excellent tool for prostate massage. If my partner would rather use that than her fingers, I'm totally good with it. While I really enjoy enemas and using this nozzle, it works great for "dry" prostate stimulation. By dry, I mean that the enema tubing and solution isn't used. Any good lube is sufficient. It will stay inserted if desired, for the total sexual encounter. It helps this old fart maintain a firm erection and usually negates any need for Viagra or Cialis.

The nozzle is just long enough to provide sufficient pressure on the prostate. Constant or steady pressure is sometimes very effective. Other times, some slight in and out movement or rotation is heavenly. It cleans up well after and can be removed if desired and set aside in some tissue.

I haven't tried the commercial prostate tools inasmuch as the nozzle works very well. I also have a flexible "barium" nozzle that seems to do the job. In any case, for the time of your life, get over the embarrassment or other hangups that keep you from enjoying what had previously been a well kept secret.

For the ladies who are inclined to indulge your man, you're truly a blessing from the gods of sexuality.

I am really wanting to massage my boyfriends prostate this weekend, I am a complete novice, but am quite excited to hopefully make him feel jolly nice indeed. Can anyone please tell me how long it roughly takes before the fluid starts coming out, and also if men that have had it done prefer their penis just to be milked or played with at the same time? I have no idea if it will make him feel lovely just having it done or does it not feel like you have orgasmed this way? I am going to dress up as a nurse and give him the whole massage to help him relax first as he is also a bit nervous of having anything in his bottom. Any handy hints from anyone saying what feels nice will be gratefully received. I really want to please him. many thanks.

Can't say for sure what your boyfriend prefers but I can tell you that smooth gloves, plenty of lube, short fingernails are important. I like having my penis stroked while being massaged. As far as for how long it will take, it depends.

Hi folks,

I can only fully support sse4fun's contribution. My experiences were similar to his. Even better when performed by professional females.

My wife and I have tried prostate milking unsuccessfully.

But it's my hope that we will get it right eventually.

I was diagnosed with chronic prostatitis in my late 20s. I went to an HMO and was assigned a female doctor about 35. She was pretty although a little plump. During my sixth or seventh visit, each time getting a prostate exam and having to give a urine specimen, the doctor told me she needed to obtain a prostate fluid discharge in order to determine if there was bacteria. She explained that she would get the discharge by doing a prostate massage. She handed me a sheet and said, "disrobe completely, sit up on the exam table, and place the sheet across your lap. I'll get what I need and be right back." I had no clue what a prostate massage was. I undressed. A few minutes later, Dr. Aten returned, followed by a young lady wearing scrubs. She was pretty and couldn't have been older than 18 or 19. Dr. Aten introduced the young lady, indicating she was a student nurse at the nearby college. "Okay son, I need you on your hands and knees on the exam table." She took my gown and I climbed into position, totally naked. "Laurie, stand to the patient's right and use your left hand to spread his buttocks. Grasp his penis with your right hand and hold it up against his abdomen." "Okay dear, rest on your elbows and spread your knees to the sides of the exam table. You're going to feel a cold and icky goo and then my gloved finger will push up your bottom. You may feel some pressure and may feel like you are going to urinate or ejaculate. Then I will start to massage your prostate," After what seemed like forever with the student nurse holding my dick and the doctor twisting her finger inside of me but was less than a minute the doctor withdrew her finger and took my penis from Laurie. She sort of milked my shaft three or four times and then squeezed open the tip. "Darn, totally dry," the doctor said. "We'll try the massage again at your next appointment. Refrain from masturbating until after that appointment."

I've mentioned my newly found massage place and therapist who's now given me three happy endings. The last time as she pumped me, she kept touching my anus eventually pressing a fingertip barely inside just as I came. I got up the nerve to ask her about inserting her finger. She said she understood men loved anal stimulation. I told her I agreed and described all the things my wife has put up my ass - enema nozzles, dildos. candles, her fingers, suppositories, carrots and large cucumbers. She acknowledged she had given clients prostate massages before, but wasn't expert at it. I assured her that didn't matter. I asked if I could get a prostate massage on my next visit. She gently squeezed my cock and said we'll see. I asked if she'd prefer not to use her fingers would she use a dildo if I brought one next time. She said that might be OK. When paying I remembered to have her stamp my card. One more visit then my next massage is free! She agreed that she'd make my free visit very special. Just last week I had my last paid visit including another happy ending, during which she did insert a gloved finger. It was fantastic. I'll write again after my "free" special visit!!

I was diagnosed with chronic prostatitis in my late 20s. I went to an HMO and was assigned a female doctor about 35. . . . . needed to obtain a prostate fluid discharge . . . by doing a prostate massage. . . . I will massage your prostate," . . . the doctor withdrew her finger and took my penis from Laurie. She sort of milked my shaft three or four times and then squeezed open the tip. "Darn, totally dry," the doctor said. "We'll try the massage again at your next appointment. Refrain from masturbating until after that appointment."

That sounds like a play clinic.

When you have prostatitis, you are encouraged to masturbate.

Nothing really clears out the prostate like real ejaculations--not massage.

I've had prostate massages multiple times - in both a medical setting by the doc checking for prostatitis and by a masseuse at an Asian Massage Parlor. they've all been great experiences but for different reasons.

My GF is starting to learn how to do prostate massaging... So hot! She likes to use this stone pestle to press down and circle around it. It feels amazing!

It's one of the best feelings in the whole world and i am very lucky to have found a woman who is not just willing, but excited to perform them. Now we just need to wok on her technique! Practice makes perfect!

Having your prostate massaged is the best.

There is nothing better than anal masturbation and prostate simulation. I just warn you before you try it, be ready to lose interest in regular sex or jacking off. The orgasms you get from getting off anally are 50 times better than regular ejaculation.I never thought id do that in a million years until about 5 yrs ago my ex gf and i were having drunk sex and doing wild stuff and she ended up fingering my ass until i came 3 different times in a row, and basically drained my entire body of energy... there is nothing else like it.. once she used her fingers a few times, she brought up the idea of fucking me with a strap on and that was by far the hottest and most pleasurable expierence of my life.. once we broke up i bought a vibrator and used it ever since

Prostate massage is amazing . i wish to find women for the prostate massage and fist me 😢