Do you like being tied?

Maybe you guys can help me with this for understanding...

I once tied up my partner, foreplay before sex... I had always wanted to do this... however, once in the situation, my mind started thinkinking about things- I started to cry! I couldn't help but seeing him in a helpless situation... I guess I didn't like it? Which I thought I would- from that point on, only I can be tied up. I can't handle seeing my partner that vulnerable-

Any thoughts?

TMI?

No. I prefer scenes based in reality. Medical restraints have a chance....

I recently did a bondassage/med fet session, and, with the right play partner, that can be a really enjoyable scene. This one involved, sounds, enemas, intense prostate massage, and a bit of electro stimulation...

My yearly cysto coming up next week will be pretty tame by comparison ???

Maybe you guys can help me with this for understanding...

I once tied up my partner, foreplay before sex... I had always wanted to do this... however, once in the situation, my mind started thinking about things- I started to cry! I couldn't help but seeing him in a helpless situation... I guess I didn't like it? Which I thought I would- from that point on, only I can be tied up. I can't handle seeing my partner that vulnerable-

Any thoughts?

TMI?

I think you would be ok if you considered that situation from another approach. Consider the situation of your partner tied up as a sign that he has placed his trust in you to take care of him, to have full control over his body, to bring pleasure, not pain, to both of you mutually. And if he is willing to have you tie him up, he is happy as he is willing to let you have this control. He is happy & trusts you. You can now consider his body in a state where you can derive pleasure for the both of you. Consider if as if you're the driver and he is the passenger, and you're going on a ride together.

For now, just keep torture out of the equation, at least until you get stronger minded in your dominance predicament.

Thanks JTMac 😉

Interesting question, mild bondage keeps the activity as med fet play, getting really restrictive/'punisment' level tips it over more into S/M rather than Medical, for me.

I like both, mind you, just that there is a fairly fuzzy interface between the two and the degree of bondage is one delineator for me.

While I haven't had the pleasure of experiencing a real play exam, all my fantasies involve light bondage, to add to the sense of helplessness but also keep it somewhat real. Having my hands tied down and my legs strapped into the stirrups would be ideal, especially when reinforced by words from the doc such as "this is for your own safety" or "the next part may get a little intense, and we wouldn't want you falling off the table, would we?"

I do. I like to be restrained and forced to endure an exam

Not strictly MedFet, but I adore being bound and covered in rubber and forced to take anal probing or enemas. Fantastic.

Eric

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For those of you who saw the subject of this topic and clicked on to read, i'm wondering if any of you allowed yourself to be tied up the 1st time you got together with someone, & why you felt comfortable with that. And so, i thought it would make for an interesting topic starter in the psychology portion of the BDSM section

So i started a discussion there. Feel free to participate 😃

Yes I prefer to be restrained really tight, so no movement is possible. Love when my doctor has a full control over my helpless body. Being spread-eagled with my feet in stirrups would be a really great experience for me.

Yes: So humiliating, yet submissive.

I took a course in Ottawa , Canada at a leather work shop ....binding techniques

Personally I don't have the patient restrained. I like them to be compliant even though they are perhaps a little reluctant due to their embarrassment. Perhaps as though they were undergoing a mandatory examination.

While I am usually the top, just last week I got a HUGE enema with my wrists firmly secured in Posey's and a sufficiently big retention nozzle to retain. Super, super fun!

Yes. Very much so.

Love being restrained while being examined. love the control over me

I love it, but I have not had it done for a few months.

I love being physically put on the table, restrained both by my wrists and ankles and then have my clothes cut away leaving me naked

Then people (I love a few people there), I am abused first by being roughly examined and then a penetrates me or a woman masturbates me. For the latter I try and get someone that has never had a lesbian experience before but wants to try it out.

I love the idea to be tied ... 😃

Of course i like being tied or restrained on the surgery table. I want Doctor and nurse take control my body and give they advantages to give any type of treatment or surgery.

Not tied, but gentle ankle restraints to keep me still and make sure my legs are spread as wide as possible.

I don’t like being tied - it takes away from the experience I find. The more realistic the better!

I enjoy the change of not being in control when I allow my sub to tie me to the exam table. It gives such a helpless feeling but also such great sexual feelings too.

I like to use that self adhering tape (like crepe paper) to fasten her ankles to the stirrups. I started out securing the hands over the head, but changed to securing the wrists at the side of the table so if she pulls, her rear end moves towards the end of the table and not away from it.

Yes, restraints are a must, for “patient safety” of course. Who ever came up with that line was either a genuine, lawyer or completely into bondage lol.

In this world however I feel it greatly adds to the vonablility and supence. Plus I dislike being interfered with when I work. 😃

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I have used restraints when being the kinky doc....it does add to the scene.

as toshe says

Love being restrained while being examined. love the control over me

I have no problem with being restrained during any type of play with the right person that loss of control and that feeling of who is in control I love it.

Personally I can't think of anything worse. For me it takes a away from the experience. I'm only looking for realistic medical exam experiences

I have restrained my late partner during exam type scenarios including an enema. Naturally care must be taken or you can get more than you bargained for.

Personally, being restrained would only diminish the authenticity of the exam. However, being restrained in a NON medical setting is a completely different scenario that I may be interested in.