How Many Play Partners?

I have a question which will apply to all kinks, all genders. I want to know, do you play with only one person at a time, or do you like to have multiple patients, or multiple doctors? And why? If anyone might so be inclined. I don't mean at once, at the same time, or in the same room. Here are my thoughts.

The answers could be very vast depending on gender and your reasons for play. It's actually a pretty complicated couple of questions. In life, it is in our genetic make-up for men to want to spread their seed to as many as possible, thus ensuring his genetic line continues in his off-spring. We women want to carry the seed of one man, the man that we find "most attractive" due to his strength and abilities to provide for us and his next generation.

So this reasoning could be applied to our kinks as well depending on what your main goal of med fet play is. From most of what I read here this applies about 75 percent of the time. I noticed that men "doctors/patients" usually do not committ to one female patient/doctor, but prefer to be open and available to multiples, where as women tend to want to only see one doctor/patient and don't usually seek others unless they are not getting what they need. Make sense?

As a woman, I feel this way. Yes I am in a solid committed relationship which makes a huge difference, and I am totally satisfied, so I have no reason to go looking else where. And because of this relationship both of us would be very hurt and unhappy if the other ever went looking for someone else, and we probably could go as far as to say it's the same as cheating, not quite, but close. While we no longer play at all, we probably wouldn't go else where either. So, what are your thoughts?

Mashie

One at a time, at least for the time being.

Only one. Gosh couldn't even begin to contemplate more either individually or at the same time thank you lol.

As a play doctor I've always been happy to arrrange private appointments for any adult women who want an intimate play examination and consent to it.

Personally I'm not looking to meet a woman for a permanent relationship, and I don't use this as an excuse to meet women for sex. But of course you do make nice connections and friendships through this.

And from my own experiences I do know it is a fact that some women do meet with more than one play doctor, but they tend to be low profile on the board.

I guess if you are using this as a method to meet a partner, then perhaps it's a different story?

Dr Philip - The UK Play Doctor.

[color=#000000] I'd have no problem seeing multiple playdocs - sounds fun! Different styles and personas and more opportunities to play would be my reasons for seeing more than one doc at a time. As Dr. Philip says, the bonus of nice connections and friendships etc. (!) But that has to suit your personality and lifestyle.[/color]

[color=#000000] That said, it's not easy to find just the right match - most consider themselves lucky to have found even one playdoc they can't wait to meet for an appointment! [/color]

Nice comments from mima57...Different styles and personalities make each experience unique and can enhance the pleasure. Of course the same works for us docs too seeing different women.

That said, it is still exciting though to meet with the same woman several times. You can always do things a little differently to ring the changes. Use some new roleplay or perhaps have her wear something different each time. At one appointment do the examination upskirt, and at another have her undress completely and wear a gown or nightdress or something. You'll probably get to know what particularly turns her on, and she might be more relaxed and able to respond more readily when she is familiar with you.

The first time does have that extra edge to it though...

Dr Philip - The UK Play Doctor.

I appreciate more than one doctor (or a doctor and nurse) if I am the patient, as the sheer number of 2 vs. 1 puts even more fun into the power and humiliation that can come with being vulnerable in the exam. If there are two in full clothing and you naked, I find the experience much more intense. I also find that they can play our more procedures with two working on the one patient.

Only one at a time personally but then again only had one play partner

I have found it often tough to play with more than one partners, but in our life style it is almost unavoidable to end up with multiple partners at different times. Monogamy as a goal and standard in a culture of erotica that this site represents (and for which we are here) is a fiction when it is not a compulsion. I know there are people out there who live that and promote that and even flaunt that, but for the very many I don't find it realistic.

I agree with Mashie that the answer to this question depends on your reason for play. In my case, I am only looking for realistic medical roleplay, and the "commitment level" is roughly equivalent to that between a real doctor and patient. Therefore, I don't have any certain limit on the number of patients I would be willing to see, and of course my patients are free to get as many "second opinions" from other doctors as they wish.

Now if you are going about this with the aim of forming a serious relationship, that's entirely different.

I can only be with a play partner, it takes all my attention , to treat them ,the way they want to be treated.

All that is on my mind, is their needs and wants.

When they go to sleep. that night, i want them to dream of our time togrther that day.

I have two current examiners but i only see one at a time and neither knows about the other.

I consider myself a poly girl, yet there are many ways to have more than one partner. You can have multiple Friends With Benefits or one primary partner and one or more partners varying from one night stands to life long (secondary) relationships. You can be in a triangle, or swinging together with your primary or even be in some kind of "hippie free love group"; the possibilities are endless. Personally I'd think I'd want (at one point in my life) a primary relationship but with the freedom of having FWB and one night stands. I don't think I would have that many sexual encounters outside of my relationship, but I just want to have the possibility. I don't believe lifelong monogamy is a realistic option for most couples, maybe serial monogamy but even then... What I think is cool about polygamy is that there is less pressure to be the 'perfect one" for your partner and vise versa. I also think you are more appreciative of what you have if you can't have it all the time and that experiencing differences between people will only illuminate how special each single individual is. I'm quite curious what will happen if I'd ever fall in love again. Will I be jealous and wanting monogamy after all or will I be really be able to give my partner the freedom I'm describing now? I'll have to get back on that lol.

Wow did I actually write polygamy??! lol I mean of course polyamory... Polygamy; not over my dead body... --which I guess puts necrophilia pretty much out of the question too. Sorry Gnarls! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UUjet_nEHOs

The more the merrier. ?

Despite looking and talking to many people, I have yet to find a current partner. The ones that claim interest never follow thru.