Well, I love nothing better than cloth diapers with plastic pants, but because of full time work commitments, I tend to wear two disposibles each night, the first one punctured in several places, with another one over the top, then over these, a terry cloth nappy securely pinned using four pins, then plastic pants, I generally tend to wear my normal PJ's over them, well, I say normal, that is for an overgrown kid, superman/star wars, lounge pants with an equally childish print T shirt, in winter though I do have all in ones, which became readly available through Primark stores recently.
Whilst my wife is happy with little boy me, she is also aware that I do have (like most males) a little fem side, but she isn't to gone on that, so I have to respect her limitations, meaning that I can only do fem if she is away on holls or at her moms for a few days, then I love to wear a long girly Tshirt type nighty, I have one in lemon with a teddybear on the front, under this I have my usual thick diapers and plastic pants, but then I have lovely thick white ribbed tights and a pair of lemon rhumber panties.
There is no secrets as to whats in my layet, in the special draw, but as I say I reserve my fem side for when I am alone.