Doctor Male or Female ?

Personally I have found female providers to be more engaged, more willing to listen rather to assume and prescribe, more thorough, more caring, and more gentle. Admittedly, that's from my experience and is not meant to be an indictment of male providers.

I’ve always been examined by a male doctor except for one time when a female specialist checked me for scoliosis. I had to undress down to my underwear for that but they stayed on the whole time. It might be interesting to have a female doctor in the future but I’m fine with either.

Female

Male definitely

All of my doctors are female and during a few operations there have been male nurses that I have told to leave . I know its harsh but that's just me , the only male doctor I allow to touch me is my dentist

I prefer a male doctor. When I was about 12 my doctor was Changed to my parents Dr. and I was no longer seeing a pediatrician. He seemed very old to me. Later I found out he was in his late fifti when I started seeing him. I remember enjoying being alone with him in the room. No parent present. He did an annual physical on me. I remember how big his hands were and him touching my abdomen while I laid on the white crunchy paper. He always sat Doug an a stool with wheels suing my genital exam. I remember pulling my pants down to my knees before I would pull down my under pants. He’d push my pants to the floor and sat “now your briefs son”. I’d go’s as far as my mid thigh and he would pull them to the floor. There I was standing with my pants around my ankles and the old man with his big hand touching my penis. Naked with my pants around my ankles always made me feel like my penis was sticking out. I felt very exposed but not uncomfortable. I remember his one hand on my thigh while the other felt my penis and testicles. Then he’d switch hands. His large finger would slide between my inner thigh and testicle sack up into my groin. He’d have me cough a couple of time before repeating on the other side. He would always pull my under shorts and pants up just about me thigh before turning to write on his clip board. It was only after he finished writing that he would turn back and look at my penis again before telling me I could pull the up all the way. I somehow new I was supposed to wait u ti he finished writing.

Im 57 and would like to experience that exam again. some one pulling my pand and under pants up and down for me and me waiting Obediently to be told to pull them back up.

Female doctor

Male or female both are fine by me now.

However during my puberty there was a marked difference. When I was 14 the female school doctor examining my balls did not result in any form of erection. However the following examination after her referral by my male GP led to a raging hardon even before he pulled down my underwear.

Had both growing up. prefer female more thorough.

For most of my life I have had male doctors. They always performed a complete physical including a hernia check, genital check and DRE. Several years ago I had to change plans and decided to try a female based on research of female physicians. Since then, I have not had a physical like those I had with prior male doctors. I have not completely disrobed and the physicals are brief and cursory. One doctor had me remove my shirt. I thought it may be the protocol of the large west coast nonprofit HMO I currently go to.

At first I thought it was due to male patient female physician. I talked to a friend of mine who has a male physician in the same HMO. His physicals are equally brief. Here on Zity I learned that it is a trend to do less and less during physicals. If you disregard the physicals I have found that there is not much difference between the sexes, but rather the individual doctors. I have changed female physicians a couple times for various reasons. If it were a male doctor I would have changed also as it did not have to do with the sex of the doctor.

No preferences. They must be professional.

All my life always had a male Dr. Never thought a female would make a difference as they have to act in a professional way to maintain their license and status.

Always male

I feel that it is strange to say this, but I prefer male doctors. I had the same doctor from age 9 through age 18. He basically saw me grow up from a kid into an adult. I felt very comfortable with him. Perhaps since he started doing annual exams on me when I was just a girl, and before puberty started, I didn't feel that uncomfortable when he examined me as I started to develop. I'm not homophobic or anything, but I remember when I was about 14 that I wouldn't want a female touching my private areas.

Female. Might as well get a little something out of a bad situation.

For play exams, I prefer male.

For real exams, no preference

Female for sure. I see a dermatologist annually for a checkup, she touches the areas she is looking at very gently. I always look forward to that appointment.

Always prefer male doctor. Have been examined a few times by female but always ask if there is a make available.

On balance, I always feel more comfortable in advance with the idea of undressing in front of a guy, since I'm not used to doing it in front of a woman! And admittedly I prefer the chance of him being cute (I'm gay).

But either is fine, and I've had my underwear down for urethral and anal swabs taken by a woman before and I don't recall gender feeling like an issue.

The one time I have felt uncomfortable was as a recently out young adult, having to answer intimate questions before STI tests to an older male doctor about my sex life, why I hadn't had a sexual health screening before etc. He seemed stern and potentially judgemental, but that was more about my state of mind and assumptions about him than anything.

I would prefer a female over male but you will be embarrassed when you have a erection.

But the reason is since she doesn't not have a Penis she will be more focus on your penis on what problem you have. But for male, we both have penis he won't be so focus on it. But he also may have experience the experience you feel.

For a play scenario I'd take whatever I can get. IRL I tend to choose female docs because my experience has been they listen better and have a better rapport than male docs.

In real life it doesn't matter to me. The same male doctor that delivered me did my first pelvic exam on my when I was 16. After that I found a regular on/gyn. Over the years I have had only one really bad experience with a gyn who was not good. He was retired Army and an ass.

Now in play, I really love a male, but a female would work. I like to have fingers and dildos and plugs inserted as part of the “exam”. with lots of inappropriate touching and probing.

Have had both at different times in my life. My preference really depends more upon the personality of the doctor than their gender.

Prefer female

I think male ist for me better. I have the feeling he can understand my problems better.

Female

Female

Female

I have had same female Doctor for 6 years . She is really down to earth. Easy to talk to. She comes. In has a seat ask how your doing. Her assistant stands at the counter with laptop buts in ur info. first exam I pretty much stayed seated most of exam. then she asked if she could do a hernia exam check for any testicular problems and a rectal exam including prostate. After that time she skips the rectal exam every other year. I have had male Doctors exam before to me just doesn’t feel right

Definently prefer a female doctor. I'll be getting my first annual physical with her in March and that physical will include a genital exam