Sometimes my Daddy spanks my bot and other punishments. At first these punishments were difficult to take. However now I have got used to them and I would like Daddy to be more firm with me. He really doesn't want to as he doesn't want to hurt me. Any tips of persuading him that it is something I need? Also Daddy only punishes me when I indicate that I want him too. I would like Daddy to take the inititative more often while still respecting I have the right to say no?