What really happened is I went to shop and had spanking on my mind. Every girl I saw, I thought wow I'd like to spank her or man, I'll bet she would be a top! This went on a goodly part of the time. I noticed a larger girl (BBW?) and didn't pay a lot of attention but started rubbing my butt. I had on shorts and panties underneath. It was by the eggplants I remember. She said something and smiled but I couldn't hear it. I just smiled and kept going along. I fantasized that I heard her say "you rubbed your butt like you want a spanking". Embarrassed I said well, what do you mean? She said "I saw you rub your butt and could see the top of your ass crack (I think her seeing it might be true)". Well, wishful thinking I guess. What are we supposed to do, walk up and say "nice butt, I'd like to give you a spanking" or "I want you to top me and give me an OTK, bare bottom spanking". We have more-complicated lives is my point!