Males posting as Females

Is it me or does anyone else find it annoying to get contacted by someone,who has a female profile, but they are actually a male? I mean really just be yourself.

Obviously it's never happened to me, but it is a very annoying phenomenon. If I were a male and were contacted by a poser on this forum, I'd block him and report him to a Moderator. We tend to frown on such folks.

One of the difficulties with your complaint fleetenemaextra is that you were apparently contacted by some private means such as PM, email, IM etc. It means that you are the only person affected by that deceit but it also means that you were the only person to see it - by virtue of that no action has been taken.

If you, and anyone else affected by it, were to report the problem to a Moderator or to info@Zity.Biz we can look at what has gone on and if its proven we can probably take some action.

The other part of this problem is when we notice inconsistencies in posts which make us suspicious of the stated gender of the contributor. That is much harder to prove, but we have a good success rate.

If you'd like to PM me with some details of your complaint I will look into it. You can also email me direct at karlstone@talktalk.net

Hey if you can't be yourself here then where can you. If your a person with a dick you are a male. Just say it and do whatever you want.

Thank you Big K, it was more of an annoyance than anything. although it did take me back to the days of yahoo groups. grrrrrr. the biggest thing I love about ziy is that most of the people here are honest about who they are. 😃 I was wanting others opinions on this more than anything.

I had a complaint like this over at Fetlife and I was flamed by transsexuals.

Hi all,

Haven't posted for a while. I don't see a reason for posting or posing as someone you're not. What's the point? Maybe I'm a little slow. It's a full time job just being me. I wont pretend to be someone I'm not, male or female. just my 2 cents!