For Couples Only: How Often Do You Play With Enemas?

I am really curious about how often our zity couples play with enemas, (sorry, solo play doesn't count) and how does enema or anal play affect your sex life? Is it always part of your sex play, or do you reserve 'special days'?

We don't have a special time set aside for play of any kind, and enema play is no exception. We just go "with the flow" when the time and interest exists!

Soapytim........

That answers the second part of the question. But the first part remains undisclosed........ how often do you and your spouse "go with the flow"??

It just depend on the mood and what type of role play we are up for some times its two to three time a month

Once a month or so. Most often I receive balloon in place and then we have intercourse.

I would say we do extensive enema play about once a month. We need more time and to not have the girls at home (with rare exception) when we do that and other S&M activities. However, we may give each other an enema once a week or so in the bathroom while we oral each other at shower time. I do about two or three enema sessions a week by myself.

I try to remember that sub needs an enema at least once a week. But a couple nights a week keeps him "happier". Enemas have made the sexual encounter more enjoyable. The orgasms that sub has when filled is bigger(stronger, noisier, and such fun to watch happen), which can affect how mine are (not always though, because sometimes he is being thought about first). Enemas don't always happen during sex. My sub has to be stimulated in other ways, so he can, at times, think of my needs and not be feeling his filling tummy.

Not that often! I would say once a month or so. Our sex life is active, and we are trying to conceive, so we don't want to upset things too much, but some of our foreplay sessions DO get that intense. He seems to get more aroused giving me an enema than getting one from me. I don't really get that much arousal by giving either.

We each get our scheduled enema once a month. Most months, one or the other of us will get one or two more.

My wife has developed IBS in recent years, so receiving for her is spotty. She needs to have several days in a row without any symptoms before she's willing to risk it. She's always eager to give to me, and our preferred method has always been during intercourse.

Really hard to pin down a schedule, as with most things, we play with enemas in cycles. We may be running hot one month and do them several times, and we may go for as long as 3 months without doing them. We're in a hot cycle at the moment partly due to the outdoor "sex grotto" we've assmebled on our patio, as I describe in another thread in this catagory.

Work getting in the way of sex has been an issue with us for a long time now. When our shifts used to coinside more often we used to have sex several times a week. And an enema session would be once a week. Consisting of about 3 enemas a session. Now that our days have become nights aswell at work most often then not, we are lucky if we have sex once a week. & if we do, it encludes enemas.

For us it averages once a week now. Earlier in our decades long relationship is was closer to two times a week, but I guess we've settled down a bit. It's always a thrill!

In are over 30yrs together the longest we did not use a enema together for fun was about 10 days. we may solo in that time but always play together with enemas at least 3 times a month

Unfortunately, I can not answer this question as my wife is not into any of my kinks. I wish I could, but I can't. She will take enemas, but all by herself.

Bill

I would say that an enema probably comes int every 5th or 6th foreplay session.

We impliment enemas about every three months or so, but sometimes wifey wants one sooner, fine with me!

ENEMA SCHEDULE

We are empty nesters and now have the opportunity for more conventional sex which may or may not include enema play. If our working schedules allow it, because we are both are required to travel, we enjoy one and if possible two enema play weekends a month. Separated by at least one week.

A planned play weekend usually begins on Thursday evening with a light supper and sometimes giving each a suppository (rare); Friday morning before going to work we have a light breakfast and also a light lunch and supper. An hour or two after supper we shower together then give each other 2 mild soapsuds enemas followed by a third which is non soapy. We start with what we call a “Mimima” which is a pint of warm water with a half teaspoon of Dr. Bronners Liquid Castile Baby soap in it. Having two bathrooms, we usually give them to each other simultaneously in the 69 position but without any “adult culmination”, this helps to extend the build up for a grand finale during or just after our third enema The Minima is not timed but held for as long as it is comfortable to do so. An hour or so later individually give each other the second soapy enema, 1-teaspoons of the baby soap per liter, from a 3-liter EZEM bag. This enema is given slowly at a rate of 10 to 15 minutes per liter, it’s an enema not a race, and only as much as the recipient can comfortably tolerate. I usually take about 2-liters and my husband 2 & ½-liters. The enema is not held because it’s been doing its work for at least 20 to 30 minutes and provides a good preparation cleanout for the next two days activities. To assure that there will be no follow on soap irritation the third enema, a saline or baling soda, is given from any of our collection of bags. This enema culminates in a full “Adult” experience either during or after. Then it’s bedtime.

Sunday and Sunday involves 3 or occasionally 4 enemas a day, none soapy, all with some form or another of marital play, spaced so my husband can “recover”, and “firmly” continue to participate. Some are given simultaneously like we do on Friday evening, others individually to each other, others solo, usually me, with him watching but not permitted to speak, help or touch, we call this “The Fly on the Wall.” It’s a great turn on for him especially when I’m wearing sensual clothing, i.e. garter belt and hose, merry-widow and hose or just thigh high hose, or it may be, any of our several scenarios.

Our variety of activity and equipment is large collected and developed over 37-years of marriage. The only enemas that remain constant are 1,000-ml ones taken simultaneously, from clear plastic bags that we’ve marked at 100-ml levels, for easy visibility of the enemas lowering in the bags providing additional sensuality. They are taken in the 69 position Saturday and Sunday evenings after showering and just before bed time. The nozzles are inflatable EXEM types to help with retention. Saturday evening it’s diluted red wine 1-oz wine to 3-oz water. Sunday it’s either Chamomile or Catnip tea. These enemas are taken slowly, only 100-ml at a time with several minutes between stages to help with retention. The diluted wine is safe to take and does provide a mild buzz; either of the teas are relaxing and remove stress. All provide a good nights rest so we’re ready for the new day.

Marlene

Not often enough - damn. My partner just does not enjoy the kink! So... I flow solo which is not as enjoyable as with another player. When I have enema dreams I know it's time to get the bag and have solo play time.

It seems like we do enema play about once a month or so. For her, I like to put a vibe on her clit or in her vagina to enhance the experience. Seems to do the job pretty well. She's cum a couple times while taking on water and really enjoyed it (be careful with that because the spasms of orgasm can result in water spraying out from you know where. Just have a towel handy to cover up her bottom). For me, she will stroke me at times or at least rub my bottom and balls. I have never cum at her doing while being filled because I usually want to have sex with her soon and don't want to have to wait until Mr. Winky is ready to wake up again.

My wife does not care to receve an enema, but she indulges me and my needs from timE to time. This involves her "prepping" me with either a bisacodyl suppository that I must retain while i lick her clit until she comes - or with a Fleet Extra that I have to hold until she comes a fewtimes with her Magic Wand. After my prep, she gives me one or two slow and warm saline enemas using an ordinary 2-qt bag, gently stroking my penis as I accept the flow, sometimes fondling herself as well. After the enemas I return to the bed and lie on my back with my legs back and resting on pillows. She sits between and with two latex-gloved fingers of one hand inserted in my rectum, massages my prostate while masturbating my cock. Paradise!

It's great to hear of other couple for whom enema eroticism is a major part of their love life.

My wife really isn't into receiving, but is a great giver. She gets off on inducing deep desires in others and understands quite well the psychological component of administration. Since I like giving as well as receiving, she has on occasion allowed me to visit another woman whose heart skips a beat at the sight of a red bag. For us, it's normally a once a week enema session at home. And when we travel, hotel enema sex is always thrilling!

Not as often as I would like .

MRS L doesn't care for sexual enemas herself

I do know she gives her self enemas every now and then sometimes she asked me to prepare them for her what she doesn't mind giving them that's all that counts LOL !!

Usually about once per month, but no set schedule

Given the vast number of complaints I've read on this site form both the male and female halves of couples who could not interest their spouse in enemas, I'm glad to read here that we do, indeed, have some enema couples on this site. Now we wish you all were all in DFW, TX and could join us 😉

Once, twice , three times a month if we are lucky. She is the receiver.

I work on average fifty hours a week so not as much as we used to.

Now she gives me enemas usually at least every other weekend and frequently combine it with other BDSM activities. Sometimes though its just (enjoyable) preparation for anal.

About every three months we will go to a hotel for a three-day week-end of enemas and kinky sex. we have done mini-sessions at home but going away for a tryst makes it so much more erotic

I was re-reading this post that I started about 7 years ago (wow, time flies!). I am still curious about how many married couples enjoy enema play as part of their love-making. For Diana and I, we're going through a period where enemas are part of our play two or three times a month. We sort-of take-turns (not that either of us is counting) giving and receiving, but it has been years since we've administered to each other simultaneously. I prefer focusing on Diana when I am administering to her - I love looking at her beautiful bottom, lubricating her nearly perfect anus and sliding my finger inside to feel her heartbeat and throbbing as I massage and stretch her to prepare her for the enema; and then I love to lick her clit and slide my tongue into her pussy as I slowly fill her.

When I am on the receiving end, she will massage my bottom, spread my cheeks and thoroughly lubricate me inside and out before inserting the nozzle and starting the flow. As she fills me she'll stroke my cock and sometimes lay back so I can lick her and then we have intercourse with the nozzle firmly in my behind.

Afterwards, we sometimes watch each other expel, and masturbate to orgasm. Such naughty and intimate lovemaking!

We had been doing it just very occasionally. No set schedule. I'd say maybe once every 10th or15th time we had sex. Usually just a single 2-qt bag.

Just about a year ago now, I finally told him that, while I don't mind the occasional foreplay enema, it's HIS turn to be the receiver, at least ONCE. I'm only going to do it if HE takes his turn occasionally.

He acknowledged that fair is fair.

Since then he has not only NOT raised the issue, when I raise it, he sidesteps it!

Actually that's fine with me! We are doing other things that thrill him just as much, and I am more at ease with, so I don't really care that it has stopped

After many more active years, things have settled down to pretty much a once-a-week ritual. Always great no matter the frequency!