Mean members on other sites.

Hello not really a question as much as a thing that's come to mind. I love to visit other sites about diapers and see if there is anything I think would be a good add on here for us. But I have to say our site minus videos is the best out there and probably one of the most active and friendly there is.

I was looking at another site and the forums where other members bashing other members with mean comments or remarks to threads they posted.

Now I don't care and I understand there is some stupid questions asked once in a while (happens here also). But do other members have to be so mean in their responses to them?

I'm not saying we don't argue here once in a while but usually we try to do it with respect as much as possible to not hurt others feelings. I read new threads and comment if I like it. If I am not interested in the topic I simply do not respond to it. Its kind of like a radio if you don't like the topic or song change the dam channel instead of getting mad its on there lol.

So to all my fellow diaper lovers and A B's lets try to keep playing nice here like we have had for many of years and set ourselves apart from the others who suck lol.

The reason that think that this is the best site and that I keep logged in is that this the only site I've seen that actually supports those of us that love wearing and using diapers,be it cloth or disposable and plastic pants and sensual and sexual aspects along with those of us who really enjoy babyish part of diapers and plastic pants. I love seeing the different enlightening comments from other member and learning that I am not alone in my love of cloth diapers and plastic pants and want to feel like nine month old baby to a four year old not potty trained toddler fantasies. I also like to think that I also give support to everyone here who loves diapers plus adding my own brand of humor.

It's a fact gentlemen that there are sites where, whatever fetish you happen to hold dear, it will likely be lambasted by the ignorant. 'Ignorant' here is the operative word of course.

Ignorance comes in two guises, one of which is a lack of knowledge or understanding - the other being because the person is an Ignorant person, uncaring about others and the way his/her comments make others feel. There is some sort of excuse for the former - no excuse at all for the latter.

I happen to have no interest in diapers at all. I rarely comment on the fetish because of my lack of knowledge and I couldn't comment in the contributory sense. What I can say however is that, as a Moderator, I do read posts about the fetish. It's pleasing to be able to confirm what mamasboy and thumper says - that there seems to be no negativity or cruel remarks in that section of the site and I cannot recall ever needing to take Moderator action about any post there.

Only this morning I had an email from someone enquiring about my playdoc activities. He'd found me from a classified ad which I had placed. I wasn't able to help him with a meeting because I don't see single men for any activity but he had the word Diaper in his email address. It was nice to be able to direct him here, telling him that it was a safe site.

As mamasboy will tell you, if a member notices anything which they consider to be negative or cruel - in any section of the site - then report it. There's a [Report] button alongside every post. One or more of the Moderators will see your report and consider it. There is a Rule about flaming and trolling and if someone offends against such Rule then action will be swift and positive. We will keep this site a safe and pleasant place to be - for everyone!

What I like is the fact that everyone on here seems to accept other peoples fetishes even though they have no interest in that particular thing them-self. I once posted some pictures of some sex toys I had made to a well known AB site only to find them removed by one moderator as "being of no interest to the AB community" yet there were pictures on there of peoples cats, dogs, cars. etc.! Things do cross over and this site supports this. It also has a good percentage of us "old uns" who are happy to offer support to any newcomer with some sound advice from their years of experience.

Miss_ Marcia we are governed by a code of ethics here that are monitored closely by a great group on Moderators. We read and review all that we can to prevent abuse of any individual and their right to express their particular lifestyle choice. We all just want to have some fun and I do believe it works very well. A big part of that is Webmaster's doing when he built this place, and set out the rules for all of us to follow.

Very well stated Big K

I totally agree with all the above posters. God knows I tend to be a bit soap-boxish more often than I should, and more often than I have the right to. However I along with most others here only seem to cross that "polite" line when someone crosses a line of "real value".

We meaning the moderation team have been knocked around pretty hard, especially lately, because many feel that we moderate with a heavy foot so to speak. That maybe we over moderate to some degree. While I will admit that we in fact may sometimes, I will also admit that no one can be right 100 percent of the time. We do our best to stay on top of all things concerning this site.

This world is hard enough as it is, even when everyone gets along and plays nice with each other. Everyone needs a place to call home, feel comfortable, feel welcome and be loved. A place where they can be who they really are without fear of being bullied, hated, scared or alone. This is the place.

Webby has done a fine job at picking his team. We are all highly educated, smart and well diversed people. While there are different mods who take care of certain sections more than others because that's where their kink is, when a decision has to be made we come together, all of us, as a team and make a decision. Webby naturally has the last word and is the final decision, but he also listens to his mods when he needs to. That is one sign of a great leader, one that is able to, and is willing to listen to a team he himself in fact put together.

It is due to Webby first and foremost of course, and next to the moderation team, and then to the fantastic membership that this community has, that allows it to be the best kink site on the net today, and is exactly why we remain open minded, and accepting of others who may not stand eye to eye with us.

Mashie

Im brand new here however this is a major reason i joined here i have belonged to several ab sites prior the last one i was friends with all the mods and the friends of the mods however. i left because it was sad to see how the mods abused there powers and that the owner came on her own site once ever 3 months and didnt care how her mods handled things. thats why i spent some time exploring the forums here before joining. the site seems like a great place to meet decent people and make good friends and thats what im looking for!

Pdaddy, Thank you for coming here. Every site has their own issues, this one does too, but the owner and the moderators do our best to make it the best site. A site where people do matter, as long as it's not illegal, then you are pretty much allowed to say what you feel. Trust me, before you start going all hog wild, take some time to read our rules and reg's before posting on a topic or starting a new one. This will be most helpful to you in your upcoming journies through Zity's kinky club house. And please if you ever have any questions, please feel free to contact one of the mods and they will help you. Also remember, we have all been there too, so nothing is off limits, we will get your through it.

Mashie. Until then, sit back and relax.