Paying for anal play

If I could I would pay for someone to play with my a-hole with Big toys or to Fist my hole or even to give me their shaft several times a week but my funds are at their limit now so I get verry little action except on my own.

I am a bottom/sub and would take turns with other bottom/subs if I could find any that were within reasonable driving distance.

Are others in this situation to?

I'm not sure i'd go as far as paying for it. I think there are many others who like anal play. But are afraid to come out & actively search for like minded people. There has got to be a way for those of us to hook up & enjoy. P.S. I'm looking in Southern Orange County CA.

Depending on where you live, I'd be surprised if you couldn't find a willing partner for free, unless the paying part holds some excitement for you as well.

When you are older - like me - it's not so easy to find a partner prepared to top you. I have paid for it and been satisfied with the service. But as you say you have to have the funds.

But even so there are alternatives. You could try Gaydar, Craig's list or any of the many other forums and sites offering adult contacts.

Of course it's also important to work on your personal appearance. If you want to attract partners you to make sure that what you're offering looks good. Good luck Pye

I understand. I use a great massage master for all of that, but of course it costs, so I don't do it very often. Don't know where u live, but local weekly gay publications might offer some help

Would love to hire an,"anal maintenance", service to come by once a month or so to lube, stroke & top off my fluids!

Google "S&M dungeons" in your city and you will find plenty of people who will do that for you.

I don't know where you live, but Toronto has about ten sex clubs. If I went to my club, and told a few people that I wanted big toy play or fisting, I'd have a lineup. Mine is also completely straight/bi/gay positive, so a guy can say he wants to get fucked, and somebody will happily oblige.

Look for any good massage therapist that advertises mutual touching. They will usually do whatever you want to your butt

I too would like this, sadly though I've no homosexual tendencies so I'd only consider women. Finding women interested in doing anal stuff to men (without money changing hands) makes finding a needle in a haystack seem quite easy.