How Old Is Too Old to Role-Play?

I definitely think it's a matter of the individual, and the effect age may have must remain a case to case element. The only reason I can think of for anyone to have a need to "retire" is if the excitement might be too much for the heart and could thereby pose a health risk.

I think that the doc should retire from his play practice when he feels that his patients are getting the most out of his exams anymore

Doctor Douglas there is no need to worry about your age. You are far from too old, if too old even exists!

Personally, I believe age is not the calendrical "age", but how that person gets along and feels about themselves, how their carriage is portrayed. All of us have seen individuals who are decidedly aged well before their middle years, while others are positively stunning and nubile well into their 70's. I saw Susan Lucci on the telly the other day, and she's 65 and going strong. There are many men, like Jack Nicholson, who have children in their mid-60's, although I don't think that's the way to raise a child when you're really their grandfather. But the point is, virility and getting about isn't about some number. Just remember, if we followed the Chinese calendar, we'd be even older. : )

Older playdocs for me too, I think the oldest I played with was 62 or 63 and he was incredible. Knowledgeable,skilled, trained ... the best.

It isn't about looks... it's about skill and experience. I'll take slow, skilled hands that have learned from experience what to touch and how to touch it any day.

I have seen Susan Lucci up close and personal many times. She lives about five minutes from me and is frequently in local stores shopping. She enters a store and takes a shopping cart with her husband trailing after her like a puppy. He immediately goes to the checkout line and waits while she shops, bringing things back and putting them in the cart and taking off again. He lets people go ahead of him so he is always next. When she is done, they check out and leave. She is about the size of your average 13 year old. You can see every bone in her body. She looks like death warmed over. All My Children must have had Harry Potter as a makeup artist because they worked some magic on her for TV. Never believe what you see on TV. 😃

I prefer play doctors who are at least 40. I am in my mid-thirties and very fit. I advertised to fine the examiners I am using and accepted two individuals who are mid-fifties and sixty, one of each gender. Exams are carried out according to scripts I have written up with no allowance made for them to vary from the scripts and rhere is no sex during the exams permitted. Both individuals told me at one of the interviews I had with them before accepting them for the job, that their motivation was to be able to touch and examine a fit younger man so they each were willing to be absolutely compliant with my directions. It is also more realistic for me to have older examiners who would be believable as doctors.

I only see the age question come up when a potential patient is looking more for a sex partner than a doctor...though a bit of an oxymoron itself as we men tend to get very good at giving above getting as we get older. In my early 50's I have more patients under 30 now than when I was much younger. I think experience is a big factor as well...I give a far better exam today than say 10 years ago. Also I think the younger patients - 19-25 age range - find they can trust an older playdoc to give maximun ejoyment during an exam and know when to give a rest if needed. I'm much better at procedures, clinical detail, and knowing what makes for a pleasurable exam as I get older so I'll advocate for us older playdocs over the youngins any day

I think if you still love playing doctor, there's no need to retire from being a play doc. Personally, I like partner who are closer to my age but I know many people who prefer older partners not just for med play, but for other kinky play or vanilla dating as well.

I personally like my play doc to be a lot older. Usually more experienced.

Only retire when you`ve had enough I plan to still be doing it when im 80!!! You`re only as old as you feel

55 to 65,,,,,make great doctor types

I'm well into my "senior citizen" years - I won't say exactly how old, but as far as being a playdoc goes, I guess that I'm now on the retired list, except for my regular play partner!

I agree with the posts that any age is appropriate, as long as both partners are willing. I would think that an older doc would be a bit more real- perhaps reliving your experiences as a kid when all doctors appeared to be old.

It's hard to say, I guess over 60 would definitely be too old for me. Even 60 is triple my age so it would make him hard to relate to. I still prefer them over 35 though as I've had a little experience with partners in their early 20s and it was largely negative. They were just too inexperienced, too immature and boring.

Retire at death, not before

I feel that you retire when you want to. Never to old for pleasure and like other people say I kinda like older docs for the experience.

I think they should retire whenever they want! Just like real docs lol I have one specialist who is in his 70s!

If you base being too old to be a PlayDoc on your age and feeling that 50, 60, or even 70 is too old. Then is that also the age you stop looking for pleasure, stop engaging in sexual release. What age do you feel that you get too old for sex? As we age our bodies change based on what has happened in our lives. Women have bellies because they have had more than 1 or 2 children, people have scars because of accidents or surgery. Does that mean that we are no longer attractive, that we no longer need or want affection, sexual release, or sexual pleasure?

If you and your partner(s) are happy with the situation then continue enjoy enjoy. When you and/or your partner no longer find satisfaction in the Doctor/Patient relationship, then look at changing the situation. When or if you get to the point of not being able to safely be a PlayDoc then look at retiring. Please do not let a numerical age value dictate what you do here or anywhere else in your life, again enjoy life to the fullest.

Karma for you Rolereversal... A wonderful explanation.

Very well put Rolereversal.

Thereis no age for playing.

playing doctor as kids is discovering the world of sex

playing doctor a a teen is receiving questions to your doubts

playing doctor from 20 to the end of your life is sharing your experience, increasing experience every new exam and be happy of what you are performing.

doesen't matter the weight, cellulite, gray hair, i never refused playing doctor with people " not in shape" . i think it is more humiliant for theme than to lay naked in front of you for the first time.

we could learn something from nudism world: surf the web, serch photos and look at theri proudness to be naked and nothing else

You are as old or as young as you feel.

Do what you like and enjoy providing you are able and share all pleasures

I'm a younger member on this site, so I think my experience is a bit different. I'm only 22, so there's a big age difference between me and a play doc in his 60s. I wouldn't say I have a strict age limit or anything, it's definitely something that I decide on a case by case basis. That said, gentlemen (and ladies too) please don't lie about your age. Just because I'm younger doesn't mean that I won't play with someone older than 40 (or 45 or 50+).

Far too much emphasis placed on age. A common interest and chemistry should be the guide. Someone once asked the question, "How old would you be if you didn't know when you were born?"

Like most people, age is but a number and doesn't mean much. I agree that chemistry is an important factor. Personally, experience is more important to me than age.

As most of you all have said... age for me is only a number... Plus it gives the real life feel as my Dr.'s are in their 50's- 60's. (male and female in real life). I don't have a problem with it as long as we both agree with the boundaries set forth before play!! Plus, no offense to the older docs... but doesn't experience come with age?!?!? 😜 😃

Beside the fact that patients & play docs are ideally having FUN regardless of age, the evidence is in! Sexual activity/interest contributes to continued good health and longevity! So...Rock On, people! :-)

Tryst

Retire when you can't do it or don't enjoy it.

I too will ONLY see older male doctors, both in real and in play. Not sure what I am going to do when and if I am still going strong well into my 80's, lol?

Mashie

Well Mashie, that will put me in my 120's - see you there, lol