Med role doctor

I like both roles. When I am the patient, there are almost no limits. I love it all!

I would prefer to be the patient in a very realistic clinical scenario, with either a male or female doctor

I cannot imagine myself being in an other role than doctor.

I simply hate to be dominated 😄

I think I have the same feeling when I need to have a surgery.

I got 4 teeth removed under total anesthesia, and I hated the procedure from the beginning to the end, I don't know I felt quite uncomfortable and defenseless 😄

I definitely prefer to be on the dominant part.

I always play the Dr and the patient is just a female patient with no relationship defined. I like to make the exam realistic, although my patient questionnaire is quite detailed towards gynecology and sexual history, but that can be tailored towards my patients desires.

The same goes for the exam. I do a full general exam with auscultation and palpation on both front and back. The gynecological portion is VERY extensive and detailed, including sexual responses to various stimuli. Although this can also be tailored if the patient wants a more formal, strictly clinical exam.

I like the control of being the Dr, and the idea that my patient is submitting her body to me for the exam. She is ready to be exposed and inspected thoroughly and that is quite exciting!

I've only role played with my wife, and I'm always the doctor

My husband is my play doctor and I think his play exams he gives me are very exciting. He is very good at it. I love it when he puts the speculum inside me.

Some times I like to be the doctor but it is not as often that I do that. I like examining his penis and testicles though.

I've always been the patient. And always without any relationship to the doctor.

But I do wonder what it feels like to put a gloved finger into another man's rectum.

I've always been the patient. And always without any relationship to the doctor.

I have assumed both roles, but never doing role reversal with the same patient. I think it is imperative to have no emotional connection to your play partner in order to have the most meaningful experience. A cold, clinical, impersonal relationship is essential to produce the level of intimidation a man who gets into the embarrassment of physical exams needs for satisfaction. I never make small talk with my exam partners and do not want to share any personal details with them that causes any level of emotional bonding. I find this requires a lot of discipline because I am, by nature, a very social individual. Any relationship which makes it difficult for the examiner to treat the examinee as other than a piece of meat needs to be avoided. I expect the commands, exposure, and probing that is part of the examination process to be by a judgemental stranger and not a friend.

But I do wonder what it feels like to put a gloved finger into another man's rectum.

The power transfer that occurs during the rectal examination is powerful. First comes the command for positioning. Second is the exposure of the anus. Third is the entry and thorough probing of the anus and the prostate. I never wish for this to be painful but should be firm and extensive enough that the sensation lingers for hours. The best rectal I ever had was during a real exam and I could still feel it the following day.

I think it’s the whole scenario. Firstly the positioning of your patient ready for insertion. Any time I’ve had this for real it’s been on my side with knee on top leg ie the one you are not lieing on Benton up to chest. Doctor then applies a little lube and inserts finger. Usually doing a full 360 degree sweep.

I must say though when giving an exam I prefer patient bent over or on all 4s . It gives a better view of anus and somehow seems much more humiliating to patient . It feels great inserting that finger

My play doctors are always male and our only relationship is play doc and patient, not friends. I think it helps keep everything in context if I just know him as my doc. It would probably feel a little weird hanging out on the weekend with a guy who sticks a thermometer up my butt, lol.

As my name suggests I am the doctor. My patients are women who contact me by email or through Zity etc. I don't know them personally until I meet them at their first examination appointment with me.

I must say though when giving an exam I prefer patient bent over or on all 4s . It gives a better view of anus and somehow seems much more humiliating to patient . It feels great inserting that finger

I agree with you that full exposure of the anus for a visual inspection adds to the humiliation of the examination. I like to fully expose the anus, then examine the outside of the anus with a dry gloved finger before putting on the lube and entering it.

The relationship is purely concentrated to the roleplay activity. No chatting about other stuff, definitely not hanging out. I think there is a pleasure in not knowing your doc or patient.

I like to fully expose the anus, then examine the outside of the anus with a dry gloved finger before putting on the lube and entering it.

That sounds very nice.

We simply must get together some time.

Completely agree with exam doc. I think in a real exam the Doctor obviously knows there is a degree of embarrassment so the anal exam is usually all over very quickly. Lubed gloved finger. Inserted 360 degree rotation, feel for any abnormalities and out again. Usually , as I said accomplished with a guy on his side knee up to chest.

With Medfet it can de different . I prefer the all 4s position so anus can be exposed and examined in detail. Or on back ,legs in air. cheeks spread. A nice pink bud on view. A lot of guys who don’t like being entered still get a lot of pleasure by having pressure applied on anus or being tickled round it. Nice brush strokes with fingertips . Then after initial exam , lubed up and finger inserted . But the whole thing takes longer than a purely medical exam

My relationship with my play docs is strictly doc/patient. Nothing more.

I think it is imperative to have no emotional connection to your play partner in order to have the most meaningful experience. A cold, clinical, impersonal relationship is essential . . .

No chatting about other stuff, definitely not hanging out. I think there is a pleasure in not knowing ur doc or patient.

My relationship with my play docs is strictly doc/patient. Nothing more.

@exam_doc @Hans @Vthokiefan Wow, I just can’t imagine that. Although I play the Dr, I guess I can see the appeal to the patient of being exposed to a stranger, but I don’t see how this could work in real life A woman would trust a total stranger for a play exam, being helpless, exposed and vulnerable to someone she’s never spoken to before?

I’ve only played medfet with partners I got to know and bonded with in friendship or a dating relationship. Trust is the biggest part of any sexual play and I don’t see how that can develop with a stranger.

I actually did this in China before where I hired prostitutes and then I told them that I am not after sex and instead I tell them I am producing a medical training video and then examine them and then film the whole thing.... It's worked about 4 times now...

I need to be friends at a minimum to play. Sometimes my SO takes the doctor role (very kind of him) and other times I play with other medfet players or other kinky folks who are open to adding medfet to the mix. The relationship structures vary from serious to casual (on-going).

I have been in both roles. All my relationships with play doctors and patients have been strictly for play and not romantic. While I would not be opposed to a romantic relationship, it is not a factor in my medfet interest.

I’ve only played medfet with partners I got to know and bonded with in friendship or a dating relationship. Trust is the biggest part of any sexual play and I don’t see how that can develop with a stranger.

I get to know patients with whom I do play exams, I just do not get into any personal bonding. We meet and talk about our expectations for the exam experience but do not get to know each other on a personal level. We fully discuss the way the exam will be conducted and what boundaries will be respected and maintained. I completely agree about trust but developing trust does not have to include any personal relationship.

I actually did this in China before where I hired prostitutes and then I told them that I am not after sex and instead I tell them I am producing a medical training video and then examine them and then film the whole thing.... It's worked about 4 times now...

Seems like an expensive way to get a little med play in . Flying to China. Wouldn't it be easier just to go to Chinatown

Seems like an expensive way to get a little med play in . Flying to China. Wouldn't it be easier just to go to Chinatown

I am going to bet that social attitudes would be very different in the PRC compared to the social attitudes one would find in a typical Chinatown in any random city in the US or the EU. One shouldn't automatically assume a cultural homogeneity just because of ethnicity.

Social groups of a different national or ethnic origin, do tend to assume some of the cultural traits of the larger society they are living in, even if they are not aware of it. Call it a form of socializing osmosis.

How often for instance doesn't one hear about immigrants living in an American or European country for years, going back to the 'Old Country' for visits or vacation and then admitting that they find the people there just a bit too different compared to what they remember? That is cultural assimilation in action ...

Besides, and perhaps I should have pointed it out earlier in the spirit of Occam's Razor: Malmsperm gives Hong Kong as residence. The easiest explanation and all that ...

But I just couldn't help giving a bit of a sociological explanation ... ha ha

In the past when I have played, I have built a somewhat personal connection through email with the person being my playdoc. After we had emailed back and forth to make sure we agreed to what we both want, then I have also talked on the phone quick.

Also, whenever I play, I text a friend of mine that I'm meeting with someone and then text them when done. So they know if it goes over a certain about of time, like 2 hours or so then they know to try to contact me, and if they can't get a hold of me, they can call the authorities... Thankfully it has never gone that far!

I switch and have switched within the same play session. My patients are just that - patients - and do not need any sort of experience before playing with me.

Other doctors, however, I prefer to have some experience. I have (and will) teach the right partner, though.

For the most part, I like the cold and clinical nature of exams that come from not knowing the person in control. However, I've found there is something nice about knowing your doc well. It allows you to really trust them, and be ok with anything that happens in the exam. Plus, they really know what gets you going, and do some things you aren't expecting.

I usually play the doctor, but have also played the patient a few times. I always play with friends and acquaintances, never with complete strangers.

I've only done play exams with guys I found online - at one time it was craigslist and yahoo groups / chatrooms, now it's Recon and FetLife and Zity. When I first started exploring with play exams in my mid-20s, I was only interested in being the patient. Part of this was due to inexperience and not really knowing where to go with it if I was the doctor. Early on, these exams were mostly with much older and very experienced playdocs, a few of whom had lots of equipment, so the roles seemed obvious. The exception to this was online webcam exams - in that context I was generally more interested in playing the role of the doctor. Now in my late 30s, I'm still primarily a patient but I'm more open to playing the doctor, especially if there's an age and experience difference that makes that feel like the natural decision.

Either way, when playing with a new partner (for this kink or any other), a detailed conversation or two to set limits and gain some mutual understanding and a little bit of trust is key. I find I need even more of this when I'm going to be in the doctor role - I have a lot more confidence taking charge if I know in detail what the patient is looking for and what he likes or doesn't like.

Patient, I'm definitely the patient. Too submissive to be a dominant. And enjoy bdsm and metfet involved in it