After sixteen years of marriage I got straight to the point. We had played all sorts of games over the years and she was definitely anally erotic. She loved something up her ass during orgasm.It happened after we were in bed Dec 30, 1988. She asked what I wanted to do for new years eve. I said "We'll rent some movies and watch them with the boys (4&5) and after they go to bed you can dress up like a nurse and I'll give you an enema". I wasn't sure how she would respond but being as kinky as me, she said "sounds like fun".The next night after the boys were in bed she put on the white stockings and garter belt and we gave each other 3 or 4 enemas. It was fun. The next morning she said "I had a really great time last night". Of course, I cursed myself for not bringing it up years before but better late than never. It became a regular Saturday Night Fun Night with us. I was shocked at how much it turned her on. She would give herself enemas in front of me just to turn me on. She would give me enemas and got a perverted pleasure out of knowing how much I liked it. She would have intense orgasms while being licked during an enema. She especially liked role play where she brought home a note from school that she was bad. She would wear saddle shoes and knee sox while being punished with spankings and enemas.This went on through the 90's and it was great fun. We were divorced in 2006 after 34 years of marriage. I miss her but I've found others since. I don't hold back. I bring the subject up early in the relationship.I'll be glad to answer any questions.