What is it that draws you to medfet?

For me, it had its beginnings during childhood playing with my cousin and some neighborhood kids. In my high school years the interest even got greater with the sports physicals. All of that interest has drawn me into medfet. The embarrassment, humiliation from a patient perspective, and the control from a doctor's view.

I haven't done any in-person play exams with anyone, but looking at all of the real-life medical exams that I enjoy, as well as my fantasies and stories, there are a few things that really define medfet for me.

First and foremost, it's the lose of control and power. I enjoy the feeling of going into an exam room and being commanded to undress by a total stranger. And then the doctor or nurse arrives for your exam and tells you what to do, how to position your body, how to breathe, etc. And since you've already agreed to submit yourself to this person, you must obey their every command.

Second, it's the embarrassment and humiliation. Being examined while undressed in front of a total stranger is embarrassing to say the least. And sometimes the positions you are asked to get into border on humiliation, especially if there's another person like a nurse or other chaperone in the room. For me embarrassment is an exciting part of the entire process.

Third, it's the opportunity to break what are considered social norms. For example, as a child you're raised to be modest, and told that it's simply not proper to expose yourself to someone, especially to some stranger. But within the confines of the exam room, you're ordered to do exactly that -- to strip down and expose yourself, often in front of a person of the opposite gender. You wouldn't normally stand completely nude with your legs parted in front of another person while they sit in front of you -- at eye level with your bare genitals. In a normal situation, doing so would be considered socially unacceptable, but there during an exam, it's expected of you. You've violated the social norms that you were raised to obey.

Fourth, the contact with the examiner -- the exam itself. Having a stranger touch your skin, feeling and examining different parts of your body, using instruments on you, probing you and yes, penetrating you. All of that is wonderful.

JimmyJohnson - I could not have said it better myself!

I haven't gotten to play yet. I would really love to because the idea of having someone examine every inch of my body is embarrassing and arousing at the same time. Obviously, I want to be the patient. I am one of those people that likes to be "forced" though. I haven't found anyone to play with yet. Everyone that has contacted me is too far away. Bummer!

I love male doctors and the outfits they wear, the scrubs and/or white coat, surgical attire, the medical mask and the gloves, I love being touched and fingered when my hubby wears latex (or nitrile) gloves, they feel so smooth and slippery

Another thing I like is being opened with the speculum and the pelvic exams, I also love all the touching and the breast exams but what draws me to medfet the most is the doctor-patient relationship and being examined by a doctor, I'm very, very fascinated by male doctors 😃 😃

To me, it's all about the anticipation and submissiveness. It starts with an authority figure, generally a nurse, (hopefully) telling me to get undressed. And the anticipation builds as the doctor makes his way down my body from head/eyes/ears to upper chest to abdomen to the genitalia and rectum. Sitting there with a tongue depressor in my mouth saying "ahhhhhh..." I'm already thinking about his gloved hands on my genitalia and in my rectum.

And I also like the idea of medical fetish being something of a cleaner, more sterile version of BDSM. I know some people get off thinking about being tied up in a dark, humid basement or on a St. Andrew's Cross. I like to think of a doctor's office as a safer, more well-lit alternative to that fantasy. It still involves dominant and submissive behavior, humiliation and a little bit of pain (if there's an injection or blood draw), but it isn't quite as seedy.

For me what makes it exciting is the fact that the person who is playing the leadership role gets to explore your body, the closeness and attention that you get is something very special. I love the feeling you get when you are being cared for and looked after. Some of my most favorite moments are when you let your guard down and just let what ever happens to just let it unfold. It feels nice when you find other people who are on your same wave length.Hope this helps an keep having fun with what you are doing.

I have spent a lifetime wondering about this. I could say it was events in my formative years: a few rectal temps and enemas. But many, many other people have experienced as much or more of this than I have and have no medfet interest. In the end I have concluded it's just the way I am. The package I came wrapped in. I like what I like for no apparent reason and this just seems to be part of it. I love a beautiful bottom and everything I can imagine doing to and with it. Simple.

I think the antiseptic coldness of the environment along with crisp white uniforms sets the scene for me.

In my day to day I have to be very much in control and on top of things for 12 hour shifts. I like to give over the control in my play life and do as I'm told and just let go and let someone else take care of me for a little while. I'm figuring out all my kinks , there are quite a few and I really enjoy interacting in the forums here. Glad to know I'm not alone in my head.

I'm drawn to medfet because I always wanted to be a nurse, and also I always liked all the sciences. Even though I didn't graduate as a nurse I still want to be one. Its been awhile since, but I still remember my nurses training I went through. If it hadn't been that I got sick and had to drop out six months shy of getting my degree in nursing I would have been a nurse today. Because when I went back they told me all my credits where gone and I would have to start from the beginning again, which I didn't like at all. I didn't 4 yrs of college to have to repeat those four yrs again, so I said forget it and I gave up, my lose.

. Because when I went back they told me all my credits where gone and I would have to start from the beginning again,

Kid, was that just one particular school ? Once upon a time I went to community college for 2 years & tried to transfer to another school. One school told me that to get my bachelor's, I'd have to go 4 more years or 3 & a heavy summer. Another college did a better job of accepting my credits & i only did 2 more years, although i had one very busy, overloaded semester.

I'm thinking maybe the whole nursing program thing is different, but if it's subjective, depending on where you choose to go, another institute may show more mercy. Or perhaps there's some type of equivalency exam you can take to validate what you already took.

Yes Healthy it was a community college I had went back to take a course in child psychology and found out that all my credits were gone. I asked them why and they told me because it was after the ten year period, they explained that in 10 years if you had not returned your credits were gone. It was very upsetting to me, so I just gave up and didn't enroll again.

Kid, sorry for your bad experience. I'll bet you'd have been an excellent nurse.

Yeah Jimmy I think I would have been one hell of a nurse, had I graduated I wanted to go into surgical nursing.

I am a registered nurse & I can tell you that being a nurse has absolutely nothing to do with what draws me to medfet. I became a nurse because I have always been drawn to helping people, even as a child. I grew up in an apartment building in NYC. From age 11 or 12 or so, I would visit some of the elderly people living in my building. I would go to the store for them & one old man, who lived alone, went into the hospital a few times. He'd leave the keys to his apt with my mom & I'd feed his cats & clean their litter box every day after school. Another elderly woman had a hard time climbing the flights of stairs & lived on the 5th floor. Our building didn't have an elevator. I'd get her mail for her every day & bring it upstairs to her. Another elderly woman loved to read & also used to order her dinner from the diner around the corner. I'd go to the library for her to pick up the books she'd call & ask the librarian to set aside for her & I'd pick up her dinner from the diner. Another neighbor used to foster foster babies. I loved to take them out for a walk in the park in their stroller.

I think I was destined to become a nurse long before I ever had my 1st GYN exam. My 1st GYN exam was when I realized I loved having my legs spread wide with my feet up in stirrups. Our family doctor had his office in our building, so I always went down by myself from the time I was about 15 or so. That was in the early to mid 70's. I don't remember why I had been to see the doctor the day I had my 1st GYN exam… probably a sore throat since I often got sore throats & colds as a kid. I also don't know why the doctor felt I needed to have a GYN exam but he did one. From that day on, I always hoped he'd do another one every time I went to the doctor's. I don't remember if he gave me a GYN exam every time I needed to go to the doctor's after that. But, he did give me quite a few until after I finished college. His stirrups were quite a bit higher than at any other doctor's office I've had a GYN exam at since. With my feet in his stirrups & after being told, by his nurse to scoot (my bottom) down to the edge of the exam table, my knees were drawn up towards my chest & out. I was spread wider & was more exposed than in any other stirrups since. I miss his stirrups. My GYN exams @ my family doctor's is what began my medfet fantasy.

For me the thrill of being a MedFet patient is the exposure, the looking, the touching, and the secret arousal. I love being the only one naked and knowing that they (doctor and nurse) are looking at me. I enjoy the detached way the doctor gives clear instructions and takes deliberate actions while I am vulnerable. It’s fun to wonder if the doctor might be attracted to me. Neither will cross the line. Neither party has done anything wrong, but they may each remember and savor the encounter.

To be totally honest I'm not quite sure what initially peaked my interest or drew me to medfet. I work in the medical field ( an ITU nurse for 22 years) and so was accustomed to working in a time critical environment with critically ill patients and all that entails. I did have the opportunity to discuss medfet with another nurse ( a health visitor ) and I supposed its that discussion that probably sparked my interest.

She was into medfet and quite openly discussed her gynecological exams and her pleasure from being in the stirrups or frog leg position and having a large metal speculum inserted. She was rather attractive so I expect it did peaked my interest imagining her in the stirrups . Prior to this I had no interest in medfet at all.

I don't fully understand what draws me to medfet but I can kind of get it.

From the ages of four to about ten or eleven I endured invasive examinations from my endocrinologist about every six weeks. Breast and genital exam, sometimes measurements, and one time medical photography while completely nude. The invasivness and frequency of the exams kind of screwed me up. A plus was coming out the other end with a medical fetish.

I don't fully understand what draws me to medfet but I can kind of get it.

From the ages of four to about ten or eleven I endured invasive examinations from my endocrinologist about every six weeks. Breast and genital exam, sometimes measurements, and one time medical photography while completely nude. The invasivness and frequency of the exams kind of screwed me up. A plus was coming out the other end with a medical fetish.

If it's not too personal or you don't wish to elaborate, that's fine.

But still, being curious, was there any special reason you knew why the endocrinologist conducted extra invasive exams on your breasts? Normally that wouldn't be a special area of interest on males.

At age 12 I had to have my first surgery, an appendectomy. I'd already had an enema at home from my mom, then in Children's ER, I had about 10 DRE's by every resident and resident close by. They took me to an OR on table awake, while IV's being put in my arms and an RN soaped up my pubic area and used a bladed razor to make me bare. I couldn't stop staring at her face as she shaved me. She was pretty, a little older than my mom, she never smiled at me, but looked me right in the eye. I recall thinking, why couldn't my mom look like her? I suspect that my thoughts were very influenced by the 100 mg. Demerol I got in the ER. I was willing to let anyone do anything to me in that state and it felt so good.

From then on, I was in love with any female nurse and looked at them in awe. I even married one my senior year in college and "Conned" her into giving me frequent enemas, then I'd screw her brains out. I soon learned she was not into any medfet, enemas, or anything else that held me spellbound. The marriage lasted 12 years and produced 3 kids, 2 of whom are still alive. I finally learned that most all nurses are NOT into medfet, it's a job to them.

I cant say Im into medfet in the classical sense if there is such a thing as visiting a real doctor for any reason is one of the most unpleasant things I can think of. That being said, doing certain medical things in a more intimate setting can be deliciously deviant and exciting. Having a wild and vivid imagination makes most of the regular stuff people do in bed boring and kinks help to keep things fresh.

The feeling of helplessness as you strip totally naked and let someone start examining you

A few things but one I didn't see mentioned here. Is that some kinds of bondage can be used and its still suppose to feel normal because some restrains are actually used in a real medical environment. So there is already this blur line from when an exam or procedure goes from being vanilla to kinky. I like that blury line, because it can switch over in so many different ways at a drop of a hate, which also bring this surprise effect.

Childhood experience of seeing someone in display without them knowing. Complete breast exposure while a stranger watched.

For me its the aspect of nudity in a legitimate environment in front of a stranger. Its the loss of power and feeling of helplessness and lack of control that excites me. Stems back to a genital exam I had whilst I was a teen.

For me it's the total submission to my doctor. I love the feeling of having to comply with their orders. I love the embarrassing positions I am put in. I love the humiliating personal questions I am asked.

Was an 8-month stretch at developmental disabilities ward at a large children's hospital before they had laws about restraints and seclusion and it turned into a BDSM fetish later on

What is it that draws me to medfet?

Well, I guess I'm not really sure. I know at one point in the past few years, I was sitting pondering my fetish for girls who have to wear masks over their nose and mouth. I figured there was something medical about the fetish, but wasn't sure if the concept "medical fetish" really existed. I turned to Google, and lo and behold, it does. This site comes up in the search, so I peruse it, and here I am.

My mask fetish is indeed purely medical, as I likely already knew. At least as far as when it transitioned mostly from anesthesia and oxygen masks, I was just always fascinated whenever I watched a medical documentary where a girl my age would be discharged from the hospital, or taken for her first steps on the floor after surgery, wearing a mask with whatever pajamas or normal clothes she was wearing. It was a turn on. I think part of it was that she has to wear the mask, even if no one else wore a mask normally in society (we mostly do now, because reasons, but this fetish dates from my early childhood). As a post and lurk more on here, there seems to be something about the power dynamic that intrigues me. She has no choice but to wear the mask, because doctor's orders.

I'm not sure if that has anything to do with my own medical situation, which is spina bifida. I use a wheelchair to get around mostly. Occasionally crutches. My disability is very noticeable. It has kept me from being able to partake in sexual relationships at all (well, that and moving around so much), so am what some call an "incel". So, maybe, deep down, that mask the girl wears is more of a gag. But yet, I'm not into gags themselves.

Sometimes, if I saw a girl in public wearing a mask pre-pandemic. she'd have sort of an awkward look to her, as if she was reminded constantly that people were staring. Maybe I just somehow relate to that. And that maybe increases the importance and meaning to what some experience as a just plain mask fetish, medical or not (like how some people have a fetish for those eyehole gas masks, just because of the feel of rubber, or the mystery of it).

Great question.

Answer, A few things.

It taps into a fascinating, intense period of life when hormones and sexual feelings were beginning, early puberty, but when the only touching of those sexual areas was done in the privacy of a doctor's office. I didn't play sexually with a girl until my mid teens but I'd been naked at the doctor's office and had my private areas examined and touched for a few years leading up to that. Those were confusing, embarrassing, exciting experiences. It also sparked a lot of thoughts during school, wondering if the pretty girls in my classes had those same things done to their bodies at the doctors?

Medfet involves nudity and the examination and penetration of areas of the body that are very very sensitive and that can bring so much pleasure, if the "doctor" is not a real doctor and is actually a friend or girl/boyfriend or wife/husband. Medfet can be all the good parts of medical experiences without the negatives like illness or worry or expense or unpleasant doctors or nurses.

Medfet gives you the excuse to do naughty, nasty things to your sexual partner. Like a little wink, like "it's not that I want to do this to you, but you see I need to do this to you because it's medically necesary". I used to call my girlfriend at work and say I was calling from "Dr. Richard's office" and ask her if she would be home tonight for her full physical exam. If she said "yes, I will expect Dr. Richard at 6pm", then the scenario was set, I packed my doctor kit, and everything I told her to do from then on was a MEDICAL NECESSITY. Wink wink! I definitely took liberties with that woman's body and she never objected.

Medfet leads to some interesting discussions and memorable moments between two people. For me, quite a few discussions about my own and a few girlfriend's medical experiences and memories.

An older colleague and I began seeing one another and by the end of our first weekend together, I had got up the courage to explore her bottom quite intimately. Afterwards, our conversation led to her telling me about the first enema she ever got, when she was 12 years old and how her mom held her hand during it and that it was so embarrassing to endure but that she'd thought about it ever since and how it made her desire to have her bottom exposed and examined and penetrated again.

A woman I dated for about a year put on her old high school cheerleader uniform for me one day. It was a little tight but she looked so gorgeous and I jokingly asked her if she ever went to the doctor's office dressed like that. She said it happened once. I said "I bet the doctor was pretty excited to examine you!" She said she didn't think so, that he was very professional, and of course she was only wearing a gown for the exam, not the uniform. I asked if her mom stayed for the exam, she said Yes she did. I asked if he examined her privates, she said Yes, he did have her spread her legs and he gently parted her labia but only to look not penetrate, and that once turned over he spread her bottom apart for a quick look at her anus but did not touch her there. Of course I was very excited once this conversation was over and I asked her if I could play the doctor and examine her right then and there in her uniform. Fortunately she said yes, but I already knew she loved playing doctor. It was extra exciting to keep her in her cheerleader outfit for as long as possible, like to have her bend over, then flip up her skirt and pull down her panties to her knees as I examined her bottom. Of course the vaseline and thermometer were next.

My college girlfriend had a painful pilonidal cyst between her buttocks and went to a hospital for care. She called me afterwards and explained how the area between her cheeks was examined first by a nurse then by two different doctors, including her first digital rectal exam. She said she was happy to get the medications but was embarrassed that her bottom was examined so much in one visit. And that one of the male doctors examined her then didn't cover up her bottom for the rest of the time they talked, so she was laying facedown and panties down for quite some time as he explained how it's a common condition for truck drivers and on and on. And for the DRE the female doctor didn't get her finger in the first time, applied more lube, told her 'you have a very tight anus', and that it was quite painful. When I went over to her apartment later, she let me examine her for some time, noting the oozing cyst several inches above her anus and also getting a light to look at her anus up close and asking her again what it felt like to have the doctor's finger in it. Some weeks later I asked her if I could put my finger in her bottom but she didn't seem to be in a role play or play doctor mood, not really her thing. Eventually she did allow me to, and although I used a lot of vaseline, she didn't enjoy it and said it hurt, and I admit the doctor was right, she did have a very tight anus. But I must say it was an incredible view to see her with her head down on the bed and her round bottom up and spread and glistening in front of me and my finger pushing into her all the way to my last knuckle. It made me think "I can't believe people get to do this for a living".

My own memory of that first doctor visit as a pubescent 12 year old boy remains so intense, watching & feeling in near shock as the doctor examined my penis and testicles very thoroughly, then to my complete surprise and embarrassment to be told to turn over and suddenly feel his warm hands opening my buttocks wide for what seemed like forever, to examine my anus. This story I've only told to 3 women in my life, including my current girlfriend, all of whom listening with wide open eyes and grins on their faces. Needless to say at the hands of those 3 women over the years my bottom received many many visual and digital exams and rectal temperatures, including some exams that probably don't exist in the medical textbooks.

It is the being exposed and vulnerable that makes it appealing. Very private parts are open, exposed, and ready to be examined. Sends a shiver through certain parts just thinking about it.