Queen sized ladies

How do the men who are into this scene relate to the plus sized gals? Any preference for or prejudice against the larger ladies?

Hmmm...well..actually I do not discriminate so queen sized ladies are welcomed as patients..actually some ladies who are large are very very hot and love giving them an exam....Overly obese who do not take care of personal hygiene are the exception!

I would love to examine a queen size lady. All ladies of whatever size, shape or age have the potential to be very sexy. Once a woman is naked it is very rare in my experience that they cannot turn a man on.

By the way Lady Di - I assume you are a queen size lady ? Like to share your vital statistics ?

Larger ladies are ok for me if they are sexy, open mindede and clean like anybody else

This is all very nice to hear and it is very encouragening. At the moment want to go to the enema fest in Fl in November but am afraid that when given an enema I will turn off the enema nurse because of my dress size. We women are like that. Well some women.

My stats? Let's just say I have 48DDs on top rack and the ass that goes with them. I wear a size 24 to 26.

Aww I'm down right in the middle... LOL

Whatever size you are ladies, I'm sure you're fine and perfect in your own way. 😃

If someone is concerned about your size than erm, the polite term would be 'Tough'. 😃

I would enjoy examining a big gal i guess the main thing for me is that the lady enjoys the exam.

I think you will find anyone into any type of fetish will be open minded and appreciate people of all walks of life. I perfer plus size ladies, my first exam that made me get into the fetish side of this was from a plus sized lady and she knew how to work the proctoscope and DRE to make me cum a few times.

No preference - a lady is a lady - It's what she has between her ears that matters - a brain

I understand that this might not be an attractive idea for most people and might even be repulsive to some, but I've posted in a few threads here about how I like the idea of a patient, myself in particular, being a little bit chubby at the time of the exam. Does anyone else feel the same way?

This probably dates back to childhood exams. Truthfully, I was sort of fat when I was little, with a round plump belly, and doctors always commented on it and lectured both me and my parents about it. This was a huge source of humiliation for me, so much that I both anticipated and feared having my weight checked and my belly examined at every appointment. Don't get me wrong, I'm turned on by the other parts of the exam too, but there's just something especially hot in my opinion about having a doctor poke at my chubby belly and tell me that I need to lose some weight. Tell me I'm not the only one.

Sorry, Ashley, I have dealt with this my whole life and I don't find it amusing or erotic in the least. In fact, it seems that some doctors want to blame everything on my being overweight--"You broke your finger playing basketball?,well, you would not have these problems if you weren't so fat." Chest cold, same answer. Ingrown toenail, same answer. Gets old real fast.

Posted:June 30, 2008, 12:44:42 pm by Lady Di.

How do the men who are into this scene relate to the plus sized gals? Any preference for or prejudice against the larger ladies?

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Lady Di,

Please know that my comment comes from the heart and is as objective as I am capable of making it.

From the time I started dating in my teens, to 1973, I dated an assortment of girls of all shapes and sizes with an overall predominance of larger represented and preferred. In 1973, I met and married my ex-wife who was substantially larger than myself, both skeletally and in body mass. We divorced 3 years later in 1976, due to reasons completely unrelated to this topic.

From late 1977 to 1985,I dated an assortment of women of all shapes and sizes with an overall predominance of smaller statured/slender represented and preferred.

From 1985 to(23 years)July 2008, I have observed that my tastes and preferences for personal emotional/physical intimate companionship has settled(and do not lack for companionship as a result of) on naturally small breasted,small boned,slender women, not anorexics,bulimics or those who go to unhealthy extremes to be skinny,natural. As a matter of fact, I find today small breasts are very attractive and an unbelievable turn-on for me.

As I have stated above, I have no bias against large women, many close friends(men and women alike)in my life are large. we socialize together, visit each others homes and all the other things that come with close friendship.

I personally believe that physical attractiveness/appeal is more than just size. I cite some of the following examples of myself: 1)My penis has measured 7.5" erect since I was 10, huge by adolescent standards, yet barely average by adult standards. 2)I have measured 5'8.5" in height since age 12, tall by teen standards, shorter than many adults today. 3)The only time I show muscle definition and ab packs of any(then only two) kind is when I work so hard that my body gets damaged,that is how I tore a hamstring and broke my foot. 4)I have a large nose and adams apple. 5)I have slight gynecomastia (enlargement of the male breasts) which does not change, in puberty/adolescence/early teens a problem,from mid teens to present, girls then & women now love to nuzzle and suckle them.

I have found for myself that by focusing not on what the opposite gender does not like or prefer, but upon what they like and enhancing those attributes to be very rewarding. I sincerely hope you find something useful in my humble words.

GN 😃

I really like queen sized ladies. if you have to give her an injection, it is so much more fun (for me) to rub her butt afterwards! if you have to give her a spanking for not complying to the doctor's orders, there is so much more area to work with! this is not to say that i don't like "skinnier' girls/woman!

Given the epidemic of obesity in our society today it seems unlikely that all our patients will be likely to look like movie stars or magazine models. If we are realistic in doing our exams, then the observation that "it might be a good idea to lose some weight" is not out of line. (This is the line where fantasy and reality meet -- in our dreams we are all George Clooney or Mel Gibson, not Mickey Rooney or Jackie Gleason.)

And this is all about fantasy isn't it. Fat people crave touch and being taken seriously for who they are, just like anyone else. We are the way we are -- and ought to be loved and cared for no matter what. But we also need to take responsibility for our own well-being, and managing our weight is one aspect of that kind of self-care. As such, of course it belongs in this kind of med-fetish practice.

So don't worry about a few extra pounds, honey, this doctor has seen it all, and will give you the best possible care. Of course with that big behind on you, I may need to get some longer needles to give you these shots, to make sure the medicine is delivered where it needs to go.

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Sorry, Ashley, I have dealt with this my whole life and I don't find it amusing or erotic in the least. In fact, it seems that some doctors want to blame everything on my being overweight--"You broke your finger playing basketball?,well, you would not have these problems if you weren't so fat." Chest cold, same answer. Ingrown toenail, same answer. Gets old real fast.

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I feel exactly the same way. Also being chubby as long as I can remember, I find nothing erotic about weight. In fact when I fantasize, I see myself as skinny and attractive. I hate how doctors can relate every ache and pain to your weight, and even if you lose it, later in life it may comeback to bite you with cholesterol and other problems.

Personally i enjoy plus sized women...especially in the medical setting. To me it seems more natural and realistic as opposed to the porn style women that ruin medical fetish.

For me only a lady with real, well proportioned curves is a real lady! The more soft skin the better!

It is what is on the inside that clearly counts...sounds corny but so true.

I've really enjoyed playing with plus sized ladies, and they are usually ladies I've met at efests or through friends who are in the scene.

As for the hygiene factor with queen sized ladies as mentioned by some of the guys, I have never seen that as a problem, as proper hygiene doesn't seem to be dependent on a lady's size as much as her attitude.

To me there is nothing like having a kind nurse who gives me my enemas as she holds and comforts me at her ample bosom.

Size does not matter really, the people involved need to be in sync, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, fantasy need not be reality. Only a fraction of women look like teenage models on the cat walk.

For me the issue is how she will respond to the exam and what I plan to do. The "queen size" ladies I have examined were just fine.

I don't know why, but it seems to me that a majority of patients are BBWs. I love all the curves of the female body and BBWs are wonderful patients. i don't discriminate against non-BBWs either 😉

My wife of 40 years is a PLUS. She wasn't always that size but time a surgery and a back problem have all caught up with her. I just want to say that it doesn't really matter to me.When i exam her...I still see the girl I knew 40 years ago.Now there is just a bit more of her to exam.

How so very wonderful to see this topic. I feared mentioning size, but no longer. I am a BBW and have enjoyed medical related items for most of my life and am new to the idea of 'medical exams' as part of play and truly glad to see that size acceptance seems to be the rule here. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

I love being examined by a queen sized nurse. The important thing is that she is kind and gentle.

Nicole, having been to 7 EFests, believe me you will be welcomed.

EFest attendees come in every size. Unfortunately, I cannot go this year.

Over the years, I have played with women of every size. As long as they (and me also) are clean (anyone I play with must be cleane BBW or pixie), intelligent and want to have fun..bring em on

I just finished reading all the replys. As a larger woman always on a diet and watching gravity win, let me personally say thank you to all that enjoy the beauty of a larger woman. i was not always this size. accidents stop you in your tracks, then fear of rejection sets in and food becomes a friend , and meds add more.. How nice to see that there are some that see the beauty outside and (excuse the pun) whats inside. i had my first exam with a Dr i met and am ready to get another. he was most gentle, kind and non judgmental, and i felt wonderful and light as a feather. love this site xoxoxoxoxox

Yeah Dolly, food has always been a form of forgetting my problems. I'll always remember my dad coming home from work late, sitting at the dinner table eating, watching TV, and then going to bed. He never talked about his day, and I caught on after awhile. I hate it, and I hate myself for letting it progress. I can't even express how much this topic has helped me out.

I've had some of my best experiences with large ladies! Seems that when they really 'carry their weight' (sorry, couldn't resist 😉 ) they are more open-minded that their smaller sisters...